Scorpio Moon Men

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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.

Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.

Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.

Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.
Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.
Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.
Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

You’re a Scorpio moon and a Mars in Taurus?!

I pity the fool who crosses you.

You’re tenacious af
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Yeah also in their opposing houses. With a T square with Aquarius Sun in its opposing house Leo's house. I am a very fixed person. It's my mutable AC/MC axis that keeps me functioning. I'd rather just move away and start over again if I can't get my way.

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Posted by Bumboklaat
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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.

Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.

Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.

Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

Posted by Bumboklaat
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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.

Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.

Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.

Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

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I say this because, I’m thinking of reporting my manager for unusual behavior. Unwarranted touching.
So I used to have this Virgo sun, Scorpio Moon manager who was always weird towards me. I never got a good feeling around him and my intuition was telling me that something was off and that he even liked me.
I started looking for new jobs because in the past, HR has never sided with me when it came to Manager/Employee misbehavior. I bring the claim and the Manager talks themselves right outta trouble.
Years later I finally got a good opportunity worth transferring. I did 5 interviews and the new Mgr wanted to talk to my problematic current Mgr. I was reluctant to have that happen but I said yes. What do you know, the job falls through. My problem Mgr took it upon himself to find out why which I still believe is an invasion of privacy.
Fast forward over a year now and I was transferred out to a new team and I was ecstatic! I was free of this guy. He was having a tantrum about it but I don’t care. I’m leaving and moving on to better things. New office too. I don’t have to see this guy ever again.
So I thought.
Yesterday he appears in my new building, 3 cubes down from me. I WAS SHOCKED.
I felt incredibly uncomfortable but had to put on a show.
I extended my hand to shake his hand and he shook my hand but then he placed his other hand like on my back and I felt REALLY uncomfortable.
Then I asked when the breakfast food was and he starts wanting to investigate with me, walk with me to the food, walk back alone with me. Ewwwww trying to to make all this conversation.
I don’t want to be anywhere near this guy.
I’m thinking of reporting him to HR for touching my back like that.
He should not be touching me like that.
Serious thoughts DXP?

describe the man phisically

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Posted by Bumboklaat
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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.
Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.
Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.
Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

but what is it for ———

Can any Scorpio moon answer? For ...WHAT?

I've never searched and followed and stayed in the back background gaining information on them. for what? To be smarter? Yay,you learn what they are doing and its.... WITH OUT YOU so now there is more PAIN

👏 👏 👏 👏



it's like following a floating plastic balloon.

one day it's going to pop and you'll realize time was wasted caring and gaining information on someone who never cared about you.



so why stalk or follow plastic?

What power do other scorpio moons gain from this other than knowing what you are already know?



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That's a good question, my Scorpio rising friend also asks me the same thing. For me it's about learning more about human motivations/behavior. I can't say we all use it in the same way. Moon would be perception but not necessarily action.

Also it's not something I can turn off, the more I ignore it, the more it comes out in inappropriate ways. So now I just embrace it.

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I say this because, I’m thinking of reporting my manager for unusual behavior. Unwarranted touching.

So I used to have this Virgo sun, Scorpio Moon manager who was always weird towards me. I never got a good feeling around him and my intuition was telling me that something was off and that he even liked me.

I started looking for new jobs because in the past, HR has never sided with me when it came to Manager/Employee misbehavior. I bring the claim and the Manager talks themselves right outta trouble.

Years later I finally got a good opportunity worth transferring. I did 5 interviews and the new Mgr wanted to talk to my problematic current Mgr. I was reluctant to have that happen but I said yes. What do you know, the job falls through. My problem Mgr took it upon himself to find out why which I still believe is an invasion of privacy.

Fast forward over a year now and I was transferred out to a new team and I was ecstatic! I was free of this guy. He was having a tantrum about it but I don’t care. I’m leaving and moving on to better things. New office too. I don’t have to see this guy ever again.

So I thought.

Yesterday he appears in my new building, 3 cubes down from me. I WAS SHOCKED.

I felt incredibly uncomfortable but had to put on a show.

I extended my hand to shake his hand and he shook my hand but then he placed his other hand like on my back and I felt REALLY uncomfortable.

Then I asked when the breakfast food was and he starts wanting to investigate with me, walk with me to the food, walk back alone with me. Ewwwww trying to to make all this conversation.

I don’t want to be anywhere near this guy.

I’m thinking of reporting him to HR for touching my back like that.

He should not be touching me like that.

Serious thoughts DXP?

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by DMV
I say this because, I’m thinking of reporting my manager for unusual behavior. Unwarranted touching.
So I used to have this Virgo sun, Scorpio Moon manager who was always weird towards me. I never got a good feeling around him and my intuition was telling me that something was off and that he even liked me.
I started looking for new jobs because in the past, HR has never sided with me when it came to Manager/Employee misbehavior. I bring the claim and the Manager talks themselves right outta trouble.
Years later I finally got a good opportunity worth transferring. I did 5 interviews and the new Mgr wanted to talk to my problematic current Mgr. I was reluctant to have that happen but I said yes. What do you know, the job falls through. My problem Mgr took it upon himself to find out why which I still believe is an invasion of privacy.
Fast forward over a year now and I was transferred out to a new team and I was ecstatic! I was free of this guy. He was having a tantrum about it but I don’t care. I’m leaving and moving on to better things. New office too. I don’t have to see this guy ever again.
So I thought.
Yesterday he appears in my new building, 3 cubes down from me. I WAS SHOCKED.
I felt incredibly uncomfortable but had to put on a show.
I extended my hand to shake his hand and he shook my hand but then he placed his other hand like on my back and I felt REALLY uncomfortable.
Then I asked when the breakfast food was and he starts wanting to investigate with me, walk with me to the food, walk back alone with me. Ewwwww trying to to make all this conversation.
I don’t want to be anywhere near this guy.
I’m thinking of reporting him to HR for touching my back like that.
He should not be touching me like that.
Serious thoughts DXP?

Be blunt with him. direct.

You have a strength DMV. I've seen your video.

I'd take him some where quiet like he wants and tell him.

Channel your anger and use swear words if you can. This isn't a game because If he makes you uncomfortable then why would it be wrong to make him uncomfortable for him to RESPECT you? What will he do?

Think of the crap he's made you do...

move around all because of him.


Also id do it somewhere where there are cameras. or have the phone recording audio.

And HR is never on the employees side. They say that but they are there to look after the company for the most part --(to keep everything "peaceful".)

congratulations on the new position by the way.

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Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by DMV
I say this because, I’m thinking of reporting my manager for unusual behavior. Unwarranted touching.
So I used to have this Virgo sun, Scorpio Moon manager who was always weird towards me. I never got a good feeling around him and my intuition was telling me that something was off and that he even liked me.
I started looking for new jobs because in the past, HR has never sided with me when it came to Manager/Employee misbehavior. I bring the claim and the Manager talks themselves right outta trouble.
Years later I finally got a good opportunity worth transferring. I did 5 interviews and the new Mgr wanted to talk to my problematic current Mgr. I was reluctant to have that happen but I said yes. What do you know, the job falls through. My problem Mgr took it upon himself to find out why which I still believe is an invasion of privacy.
Fast forward over a year now and I was transferred out to a new team and I was ecstatic! I was free of this guy. He was having a tantrum about it but I don’t care. I’m leaving and moving on to better things. New office too. I don’t have to see this guy ever again.
So I thought.
Yesterday he appears in my new building, 3 cubes down from me. I WAS SHOCKED.
I felt incredibly uncomfortable but had to put on a show.
I extended my hand to shake his hand and he shook my hand but then he placed his other hand like on my back and I felt REALLY uncomfortable.
Then I asked when the breakfast food was and he starts wanting to investigate with me, walk with me to the food, walk back alone with me. Ewwwww trying to to make all this conversation.
I don’t want to be anywhere near this guy.
I’m thinking of reporting him to HR for touching my back like that.
He should not be touching me like that.
Serious thoughts DXP?

Be blunt with him. direct.
You have a strength DMV. I've seen your video.
I'd take him some where quiet like he wants and tell him.
Channel your anger and use swear words if you can. This isn't a game because If he makes you uncomfortable then why would it be wrong to make him uncomfortable for him to RESPECT you? What will he do?
Think of the crap he's made you do...
move around all because of him.

Also id do it somewhere where there are cameras. or have the phone recording audio.
And HR is never on the employees side. They say that but they are there to look after the company for the most part --(to keep everything "peaceful".)
congratulations on the new position by the way.
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Thank you ☺️
I guess the fact that my mortgage is due same time as every month keeps me “in line.”
But I don’t want to move in the spirit of fear.
Why should I. Screw him
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You know if I were you and had this done to me so many times, I would make it a personal goal to let go of that fear and master your independence so much that others would think twice before invading your personal space.

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It's likely developed from childhood. EVERYONE likes to say it's the mothers fault, but can also be the fathers fault, or both parents equally. At some point the child was left lied to, betrayed, or completely neglected. Because of that they are more likely to hold on to things in toxic ways as adults. This could be sex, drugs, toxic friends, or toxic relationships. They just can't let it go. It's like their scarred childhood trauma trying to hold on to their parents leg as they betray them and leave them scared and alone. They never try to fix it either, because describing that to anyone is a form of weakness. So they bottle it up till they inevitably explode.

Yeah basically, I wouldn't say I bottle it up. I'm pretty open about my sketchiness. Few people understand it tho. And few are willing to reach depths.

It's indestructible tho, and annoys the shit out of some people for some reason I still can't understand. Maybe they feel exposed?

I remember years back when I openly told my friends what I thought and what I had done and they just said "stop trying to be creepy, it's not working"

Not easy for a lot of people to understand, which is part of its power.

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yeah i agree with aju.
voice record the interactions, have the “talk” where security cameras are rolling.
also the quickest way to get a dude off your back is to tell him you have a man.
casually mention you have a man in a conversation. you can even mention it to another co-worker, while making sure the dude in question is eavesdropping.
when a delusional dude like him thinks a woman is single, he’ll keep pestering her until he gets somewhere with her.
tell him you got an overprotective, uptight mans waiting for you at home lol 😂

Idk if that will work. I've gotten with a few women who told me upfront right away they had a partner. A deterrent for me would just be a girl who would expose me, like start yelling stuff or acting defensive.

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yeah i agree with aju.

voice record the interactions, have the “talk” where security cameras are rolling.

also the quickest way to get a dude off your back is to tell him you have a man.

casually mention you have a man in a conversation. you can even mention it to another co-worker, while making sure the dude in question is eavesdropping.

when a delusional dude like him thinks a woman is single, he’ll keep pestering her until he gets somewhere with her.

tell him you got an overprotective, uptight mans waiting for you at home lol 😂

Idk if that will work. I've gotten with a few women who told me upfront right away they had a partner. A deterrent for me would just be a girl who would expose me, like start yelling stuff or acting defensive.

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yeah i agree with aju.

voice record the interactions, have the “talk” where security cameras are rolling.

also the quickest way to get a dude off your back is to tell him you have a man.

casually mention you have a man in a conversation. you can even mention it to another co-worker, while making sure the dude in question is eavesdropping.

when a delusional dude like him thinks a woman is single, he’ll keep pestering her until he gets somewhere with her.

tell him you got an overprotective, uptight mans waiting for you at home lol 😂

Idk if that will work. I've gotten with a few women who told me upfront right away they had a partner. A deterrent for me would just be a girl who would expose me, like start yelling stuff or acting defensive.

really? lol 😅 and you were okay with that? were you able to take those women seriously after you knew they would easily step out of their relationships? or did they break up with their significant others before getting with you ? cuz if so, then i see no issue 😌



my spouse (scorpio moon) said he never would have pursued nor married me had i cheated on my then-wife with him even though he was testing me at the time to see if i would.



i didn’t give in to his advances until my divorce was finalized (which took a few months). i mean, we still hung out/spent time together as friends during the waiting period but there wasn’t anything physical.



his ex (the one he dated before me) cheated on him so he had trust issues to begin with 😅. at one point, his ass was calling like a debt collector asking when the divorce was coming thru lol 😂😅 (i mean, to be fair, he was doing it in a joking way with humor but still 😅)

That's interesting. For me the hanging out and spending time together is equal to being physical, because in a way you are still being intimate. For me friendship is the foundation.

As an Aqua I have trouble recognizing fabricated boundaries. I just see things as they are without borders, I do recognize morality but I also recognize emotions and feelings, desires, etc. Things that are natural and real, good and bad. Psychology and human motivations are what I ultimately process.

And those women continue to hold on to their relationships. I took them seriously because I had a connection with them. If I couldn't connect I wouldn't even consider them.

I believe you can love multiple people, maybe not in a purely romantic sense but definitely on an emotional sense. That's why physical is important but there is intimacy beyond that.

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i used to be bothered by stalking, prying behaviors but now i feel like i’d rather have them be preoccupied with me than have them be indifferent towards me.

but i think this is different for women. us dudes don’t really fear for our safety the same way women do. like i’m 6’0’ (1.83m) 165lbs so i’m like wtf is anyone gonna do, right? lol 😅😅

but i can understand how men’s stalking/prying behavior would be scary/nerve wracking for women.

my advice is to just ignore it. they’ll get bored and find new targets soon enough (if you’re not in a serious relationship with these men, that is).

if you’re in a serious relationship/marriage with these men, just reassure them a lot that you’re not going anywhere. oftentimes, people stalk because they don’t get enough verbal reassurance. just give them enough verbal reassurance so they’ll get off your back.

also, i’ve seen more stalking behavior from venus in scorpio rather than scorpio moon.

but you gotta be prepared that scorpio-anything is gonna investigate lol 😂

I dont think you can ignored it if men stalks you due to their psychological though of wanting to own you so badly.

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I’m madly in love with a Scorpio moon, but I’m (Taurus moon) am the one that does all the stalking.

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Posted by serenidad
i used to be bothered by stalking, prying behaviors but now i feel like i’d rather have them be preoccupied with me than have them be indifferent towards me.

but i think this is different for women. us dudes don’t really fear for our safety the same way women do. like i’m 6’0’ (1.83m) 165lbs so i’m like wtf is anyone gonna do, right? lol 😅😅

but i can understand how men’s stalking/prying behavior would be scary/nerve wracking for women.

my advice is to just ignore it. they’ll get bored and find new targets soon enough (if you’re not in a serious relationship with these men, that is).

if you’re in a serious relationship/marriage with these men, just reassure them a lot that you’re not going anywhere. oftentimes, people stalk because they don’t get enough verbal reassurance. just give them enough verbal reassurance so they’ll get off your back.

also, i’ve seen more stalking behavior from venus in scorpio rather than scorpio moon.

but you gotta be prepared that scorpio-anything is gonna investigate lol 😂

I dont think you can ignored it if men stalks you due to their psychological though of wanting to own you so badly.

isn’t this like an old thread…? 😅



anyway…



i found out from numerous past incidents that ignoring/being cold towards these types of people is the quickest way to make them get bored and move onto someone else.



and that engaging in friendly, even cordial conversation with them will only encourage them even more. it gives them hope which is not something you should be doing in these kinds of circumstances.

I havent paid attention of how old this thread was. 😅

But being cold towards it might be the better solution as giving warm & friendly way gives out weird ideas, the main concern is their hyper delusional or their deep delusional that they don't think of realities anymore that even cold attitude won't work on them. Its like it invites to challenges till the victim worn out.

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Posted by Bumboklaat
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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.

Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.

Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.

Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

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Posted by Bumboklaat
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We're literally born stalkers. I always tell this coworker that I memorized her license plate. As long as the laughs keep coming, I keep creeping lol.
Also, we have an innate understanding of women's motivations (doesn't mean we know how to act on them tho) , All of my love interests have been stalked and all of them said they liked it.
Scorpio Moon is not as creepy as Sun imo. Cause we can vibe with emotions instead of identifying with them.
Also my Mars is Taurus in the 8th. While my moon is in the 2nd. I'm very persistent but my Aqua in 5th can detach in the end. Which is why the obsession never consumes me.

Damn the Scorpio Moon man who thinks he has a right to stalk and upset the female he is stalking! You have your Taurus Mars in your 8th house, that's fuckin scary. You don't give up until that poor girl surrenders to you or runs for her life! My ex husband Taurus Sun - Scorp moon- Aquarius Mars stalked me for 2 years before I caved in. His fixed chart left me no way to escape in the end. Our 20 year marriage ended tragically, long story. My current Man- Leo sun Scorp Moon Taurus Mars in my 8th house FFS....he stalked me to a wedding he was not invited to, called me out for flirting with other men, tracked me on his phone, and many other creepy moves....I'm still with him even though it has nearly killed me. I am attracted to the dark side of this man and maybe subconsciously I love the challenge with my Venus in Aquarius in the 5th. IDK, Damn again you Scorpio moon men, you Kings of Hades and the Underworld.

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