Able to fix everyone/ everything else, but you??

Is this an Aquarius thingy or is it me?

i dont know about fixing people, to me they are who they are. what would give me the right to change them if they are fine with themselves. i think i feel this way because i dont want no one coming to me trying to 'fix' me. its a aqua thing i think, not likely people to tell me how to act or tell me what to do. now if they want me to show them something or teach them something im more than happy to share my knowledge and vice versa.

now fixing everything else, yes i have that problem if something is wrong with a situation or object, i always say i will take care of it. instead of letting others volunteer to do it. i think because thats what i did growing up. i have two younger brothers, whenever they broke something or did something bad. i was the one to fix it or tell my parents the bad stuff, you know to ease the blow. i do it now too. and my fiance is like, no i can fix it, then we end up fighting over it, he's taller than me so he knocked me on the sofa or bed and tell me, "i can do it myself woman!" lol. its nice having someone else to do that stuff. 🙂 i'm learning to share the responsibility.


maybe it is an aqua thing.

ha! If I had a nickel for everytime I say "I'll take care of it" I could buy a small country (And decorate it however I damn well please lol)
Thats amazing. I also have two bros. I'm the middle and yes I always wound up doing everything (Giant eyeroll) I still am grr
I want someone to fix stuff for me sometimes. Like coffee or my car.

What I meant by fixing ppl (sry I wasnt clear) is that everyone comes to you with their huge complex problems and is amazed at how simply you can analyze and fix it. But do I fix my own issues? no..why??
really..why? *scratches head* I can seem to see others situations so clearly and yet I can't seem to make time for me and take my own advice. This is bad. bad bad bad bad.
Im trying so hard to change that but its always ending up like oh well maybe tomorrow.
My epihet will say "She finally has time" lol
cause all I ever say aside from Ill take care of it - is I don't have time

oh and aw! for you and your fiance. You need a manly man u know. Theyre just so cute!

^^^^ sorry about that technical difficulties.

mmmm i trust no one with my coffee, especially these people around me..LOL

oh thats what you meant. you should see my thread very friendly...LOL but yes, friends come up to me and im like duh, do this and this and this....boom problem solve. but me, im like what the hell is this? what am i going to do about this? oh crap im freakin out, let me put it on dxp so they can help me figure it out...LOL. i dont have time to figure that out....lol jinx! we said the same thing.

haha psych! we did!
Maybe someone will find the answer. Im paddling in circles when it comes to me. Maybe if I won the lottery..

Oh yea especially about the people. It seems so easy to just fix their problems, but mine feel so much more complicated. I was actually just flirting pretty hard with a girl I met in class who was accepting it and basically lured me to approach her in the first place. Then after a couple weeks of us to alone and me hitting on her and her flirting back in between lectures I ask her if she's free over the next weekend. The next week comes up and she says she's busy then she quickly asks If I have a girlfriend I say no. She then tells me oh well I have a boyfriend then gives me her number a little bit after. -_- She's not the only girl I talk to like that, but she felt like the only one I would try to commit to and she's taken *sigh*.

As for fixing things I'm usually the only man around the house, so I taught myself how to fix a lot of stuff lol.

I know why is that. Were like superman for everyone elses lives and total morons about our own. Maybe it's facing that we have issues that is so hard (easier to fix someone elses drama?) But I keep telling myself I should be able to do this for me too. Then I wind uo going and doing something else like having lunch lol..

I'm like a sage when it comes to giving advice to other people but when its me god I'm probably the most retarded little fuck that ever existed lols.

Posted by clarkkent
I'm like a sage when it comes to giving advice to other people but when its me god I'm probably the most retarded little fuck that ever existed lols.

lol im the exact way. i can always c someone else so thoroughly, but when it comes to me i have no clue. i can ask someone a million questions, but when it comes to them asking me i get uncomfortable and im like "uhhhhh idk" & i literally wont know. ive read about this aqua quality before but don't recall the reason for it. maybe it's b/c we're not in touch w/ our own emotions? who knows...

Damn you guys made me feel better. I thought I was just lazy when it came to me. I think we need to video ourselves explaining our problems and then watch it like its someone else lol. IDK. Im a dope.