All I Want Is A Good Woman ... HUH?

I recently asked my guy friend (and five others)w hat he wanted in a women beside the physical attributes. He named the same clich' qualites that most

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I recently asked my guy friend (and five others)w hat he wanted in a women beside the physical attributes. He named the same clich' qualites that most men list. Afterwards, I asked him would he consider being with a woman with ALL the wonderful qualities he named ... but without most of the physical elements. Taking a few moments to think, he said: "No ... she has to have that body ..."

Really ... WHATEVER!!! In my opinion this totally contradicts his statement about wanting a "Good" woman. Keep in mine, I asked six guys this same exact question and only two out of six said looks didn't matter! LOL, and guys wonder why they end up unhappy in a relationship.

Gentlemen, "What looks stunnning on the outside may be very toxic within." Looks don't make the person.

Like myself some women will not put on a false image!

I've noticed this mentality comes from CERTAIN males of the zodiac (five of them)why do you all have such superficial expectations for women—

im a gal but wanna comment... i noh u dont need my opinionz but i still

'...Like myself some women will not put on a false image!...'

o ya i put up false images too at times but cappysweeetie da fact is that ' people do judge a book from itz cover'...... men alwayz go for a pretty face n thatz a fact but @ da end of da day itz da personality that countz...

'....I've noticed this mentality comes from CERTAIN males of the zodiac (five of them)why do you all have such superficial expectations for women—..'

u c men r juz different creatures... ideally they want a gal wid HOT lookz n an awesome personality.. but if shes not that hot but haz a gr8 personality they may settle for that... but IDEALLY wud prefer a FULL PACKAGE'... i personally think not only r men superficial but so are women these dayz.. every1 is superficial n shallow these dayz.. thatz y we have divorces hun... coz @ da end of da day u dont want a hot man beside u who doesnt give a DARN about ur feelingz...

"but if shes not that hot but haz a gr8 personality they may settle for that... but IDEALLY wud prefer a FULL PACKAGE'"

I understand your point eliza, but what I was trying to get my friend (he's a taurus by the way) is that there is no such thing as the "full package" Every living organism has flaws ... including women ... (we are living organisms by the way)

'... Every living organism has flaws ... including women ... (we are living organisms by the way)...'

i totally agree wid ya but i guess men learn da hard way...u like hot women guyz??.. go marry them n end in heartache 🙂

men who r superficial n shallow deserve da heartache... i dont sympathize wid them 🙂

but still have 2 admit cappysweetie itz sad that men r superficial 😢

wat do u guyz have 2 say about it— hellooooooo— guyzzzz—?

'...Dont worry there are few good men out there somewhere all hope is not lost...'

ya we noh there r loadz of gud men out there but thatz not da question... we wanna noh y r u guyz sooo superficial— 🙂

"ya we noh there r loadz of gud men out there but thatz not da question... we wanna noh y r u guyz sooo superficial— "

My friend (along with the other guys) really infuriated me with their comments. It's just like they want to "have thier cake and eat it too". That's impossible and unrealistic.

To sb,

Yes, I love to read 🙂 "Pride and Prejudice", I'll look for it in the library.

'...its just how guys grew up thinking that a girl is only good if she is sexy all those movies ganster infulences are on us....'

ya well i dont blame ya..... experience is da best teacher 🙂

Cappysweeetie... i like that book ' pirde n prejudice'... itz really kool... hopefully u like it 2

Hopefully I gain more understanding from this book because my friend really annoyed me with his shallow and ignorant comments considering the "perfect" woman.

I need to call him and yell every swear word I can think and afterwards I will tell him to have a good evening 🙂

'...I need to call him and yell every swear word I can think and afterwards I will tell him to have a good evening ....'

LMAO...ur such a sweetheart🙂... u noh wat..i have stopped botherin' myself wid menz shallowness...i too at times felt EXACTLY da way ur feelin rite now... but y shud i waste my energies n they juz chill n keep on wid their superficiality...

"There are guys with depth. As there are women of depth. You'll just have to keep your eyes open that's all."

I suppose so ... but that taurus guy (along with the scorpio, the other taurus, the sagitt, and the aquarius) REALLLLLY got my blood boiling sb 😢 I just needed to ask for opinions so I can understand this type of mentality better ... because currently I don't get it ...

'...I suppose so ... but that taurus guy (along with the scorpio, the other taurus, the sagitt, and the aquarius) REALLLLLY got my blood boiling sb I just needed to ask for opinions so I can understand this type of mentality better ... because currently I don't get it ....'

awww dont be 😢.... we'll get da guyz opinion on DXP... too bad most arent online rite now...but wen they do cum online we'll ask 'em... whether they r shallow or not — LOLzzz

Be honest with yourself here - Don't we all want the perfect package? Everyone?s idea of the perfect package is different - Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - what one finds gorgeous the other finds unattractive - rarara etc.
My first 2 long-term relationships both males weren't 'ugly' but they weren't good looking either (Love is blind as a bat) & I found this did affect our relationship - they felt insecure allot of the time. When I ended the last one I went on a mission to find Mr drop dead gorgeous & was sorely disappointed - The really gorgeous ones have to put allot of time & effort into looking beautiful & they are soooo vain. I had one say if I hadn't covered my mouth when I yawned he would have dumped me. Bye Bye Mr Ahole! The others had wandering eyes & boring personalities (OMG! really great cars thou!).
Still I decided I wanted to be with someone whom I was attracted to & was fully attracted to me as well as had the personality to match! Lucky me cause I got that!