Do Aquas Date Around Much?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ariesgirl on Friday, May 12, 2006 and has 29 replies.

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@ariesgirl
20 Years
Do Aqua guys date around much? Or since they are so ALOOF and take forever to decide whether they are into someone that they just stay loners for awhi
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
Do Aqua guys date around much? Or since they are so ALOOF and take forever to decide whether they are into someone that they just stay loners for awhi
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
THAT GOT CUT OFF.. This is the rest of it..

Do Aqua guys date around much? Or since they are so ALOOF and take forever to decide whether they are into someone that they just stay loners for awhile till they figure out what they want from a girl? πŸ˜›
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
Its like primegen says,if they are still in thier "young" oe single mentality they may not take you too seriously and will date outside of you.This is just a generalization though also personally know some exceptions who don't fit into the aqua casual thing that astrology leads people to believe.My brother was always dating around until he came across someone he actually liked and was ready to settle but then she screwed it up so hes dating around alot again.
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@elly
20 Years500+ Posts
I never date-i usually have known the person for a short time before if i do-so i know what im gettimg into to. As i remember some bad dates, and i cant be bothered being stuck with someone, for hours, knowing we're not on the same wave lenghth.

If the conversation from them is bad-and it ends up in-yeah so what your favourite colour? and then you sit there thinking, how am i going to get out of a next date? and u can see they're all interested-no no, im really picky and careful.+ im always afraid ill be bored and it will show.+ they may ask too many questions/or the wrong questions.

My first date with aqua man, was halarious, as he was staring at the ceiling, i was staring at the wall, then we'd chat great for 20 minutes, then go back to staring else where, but when we did speak it was all the right stuff. I went 12 months, without a single date, coffee, chat, kiss, ect, last year, cause i just wanted to figure me out for a while, and it was the best thing i ever did.
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
Ok but if you met someone and you hit it off you liked them and were still figuring out whether you wanted to pursue more with this person..would you still be playing the field and date around just to see what else is out there? bottom line, do you "date" multiple people at the same time?

As for me, an Aries..I know if I like one person, I would focus all my energy into that person..And if it wasn't meant to be THEN I would move on. I wouldn't "date around". Know what I mean? πŸ™‚
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
But when do you actually come to the conclusion that "your favorite" was the one you wanted to be with and then just pursue that person?
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
"But even when I'm sure it's 'the one,' I won't just pursue them. Sure I'll call him up, sometimes, or be the one to make plans, but I'm also completely cool with not seeing him or chatting with him for a few weeks."

Humm...if you're sure, why not pursue? Why not let them know you are into them? What if someone else snatches them up OR they move on to someone else?
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
Are you sure they know that you're into them?

I'm into this Aquaguy but I have not told him (of course not..cuz 1. don't wanna make a fool of myself 2.it's too soon. 3. I've only met him in person ONCE and that was a month ago. 4. we still keep in touch (via email, phone) but i feel it's more me pursuing)..but I don't know that he knows that i'm into him. And vice versa..i don't know if he's into me. I thought in the beginning..cuz he was all flirty..but now I don't know.. so confusing..
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
That's cool. Yeh, I don't know..it is not looking that good. And I am worrying about it too much! 😒 boohoo!
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@GEM*TWO
20 Years1,000+ Posts
as a Gem who knows a few Aquas....they are all sluts...no seriously...depends on the Aqua, its not a sign thing, some of them do and others not so much, they usually tend to be in charge though.....large and in charge....
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@pisces
20 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
So right on the A ball there GEM*TWO!! All the Aqua guys I know are SLUTS in a big bad way! Flirts - they love sex. The most my man & I have gotten it on in one day was 9 times & I was walking like a cowgirl for a week! He still would have have gone for more after that 2!
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
Arianlatay,

Well..it's been 2 weeks since we've last spoken on the phone. I know it doesn't seem that long. but for me it does. I have not called him. Decided not to "give in" and have the urge to call. I can't help but wonder if he met someone else and has decided that he's not interested in me. I know I shouldn't think that, but can't help it. Within the 2 weeks we've emailed a little here and there..but nothing major. Mostly I've instigated the emails. Anyways, I need to not put so much effort into this. Just seems that it's not going anywhere. oh well..it's tough..
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
OFA,


"When you cant stop thinking about him, when no one else matters, when you get to see him and you feel butterflies! and same with when his name pops up on the caller id, you get all excited mmhmm."

Well...I get like that..but it doesn't work when he doesn't call ya for awhile! 😒 Then you get really sad..like how I am now. 😒
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@ariesgirl
20 Years
Arianlatay,

Humm..Aqua guys just seem so damn confusing. I think if you're ok to let things move along "naturally". if you can wait that long. I don't know what to say, cuz I'm confused with my situation too. But I know it's all about patience, but at the same time, I think there should be some sort of effort on his part somehow. Oh well...we'll see how it goes as time goes by... 😒 Who knows if I can wait that long though...
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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius
I'm a 20 year old aquarius and I LOVE new relationships. I eventually get board and move on to another relationship but I like to keep it just one at a time instead of multiple relationships because it brings drama. I just love the exitement of new game and once the exitement is gone...I'm gone...I wonder if that's because of my Aquarian blood maybe? I heard we don't like boredom very much...(I HATE BOREDOM!)
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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

nice, tauruschic!!!

so bigD, i know your only 20 now...but one day when you are 50 years old you are going to be alone and bored by yourself with that attitude. i am just saying...it's not a big deal now b/c you are still very young but if you continue to have that outlook on relationships you may end up with nobody one day. hopefully you age well!!!
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@CallMeAlienRobotOrWhatever
20 Years
no, i dont date around much, but ive transformed myself from a "nice guy" to a "nice jerk", i flirt alot and make fun of other people around me, seem like all women around me want to touch&punch me in a playful way. even if i'm flirty, but i still focus only to one woman at a time.

being a "nice jerk" have some advantages:
1. i've alot more confidence
2. improve my social skill...i used to think that being an introvert is cool, because generally introvert people is a thinker....but you can also be a thinker even if you are an extrovert
3. it draw people to me, thats mean more attention, more new friend, more new opportunity etc

i would like to say that i've a very great sense of humor and a nice smile (yeahh i smile alot), not by telling them jokes i read from internet/book/TV, but its more from daily observation and immediate and unpredictable reaction to their action. i could make most people laugh just by using a simple facial expression & body gestures, my GF used to tell me "among all of my exes... you're the most different, seem like i get attached to you, i get bored easily without you in my side" she will call me if i dont show up, and will hang up and stay close 24/7 to me, if i'm around her, forget about the aqua "space"...its a bit BS...i dont think she take my space, even if she did, i'm still in control. just remember to being playful with your aqua (i guess it also goes to other signs)...relationship is about fun, isnt it?
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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius
Hey...moonchild8...I'm not saying that I am not looking for a life-long partner, I'm also HAVING FUN WHILE DOING IT! Ladies my age usually move WAY too fast, and that right there pushes me closer out the door. I'm not gonna lie to you tauruschic, if you date any freedom-loving aquariuses like me, chances are the relationship isn't going to last long if there isn't any exitement in it. We are the wind element, and if we feel a strong aura in a lady, we will stay and be the best thing that happened to you, but the downside of that is that aquariuses are VERY unattached, like me...once the magic is gone, we'll be gone like the wind!

*Dresses up as peter pan and jumps off a building with arms stretched out* LOL!!