Do Aquas Make the First Move or..

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ariesgirl on Saturday, May 13, 2006 and has 11 replies.

Do Aquarians Usually Make the First Move

Aquarians tend to be independent and may prefer the other person to initiate romantic interest. They value genuine connections and often wait for someone to show their intentions first. Understanding their need for authenticity can help predict their approach in relationships.

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@ariesgirl
20 Years

That's how I feel. I feel that there is a lack of interest on his part. And then you don't really know if they want to be with you or not or just giving in cuz you've been pursuing them! humm..

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@CallMeAlienRobotOrWhatever
20 Years

i never make the first move in term of relationship

"do they usually want the other person to?"
yes...

"why?"
pride, fear of rejection, I want to be different, and women are not on my top of priority

my top priorities:
1. interests/hobbies
2. education/career
3. woman
4. family
5. ...........

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@ariesgirl
20 Years

Why do you have to have the other person pursue you, Aquas? Can't you do the pursuing sometimes so the other person knows you have somewhat interest in them? 🙂

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@CallMeAlienRobotOrWhatever
20 Years

we just do it differently, some will give you a mixed signal, some will act strangely in front of you, some will completely ignore you (immature aqua) if they're in love with you

and aquas are known to be a very left brained people

"The researchers believe their findings show that the mental process that women use to deal with emotions is different to and more effective than that used by men.

It is already known that men have fewer connections between the left and right hemispheres of their brain.

As emotion is dealt with by the right side of the brain, and speech by the left side, this could explain why men find it more difficult to talk about their emotions."

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@eliza0012
21 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

ooooo i neva make da first move.. maybe thatz coz im a aqua gal... but itz juz not me.. i wud b friendz for yearz n yearz n neva bother abt makin' da first move... but wen da guyz makes da move.. i alwayz give him a chance coz thatz unfair not too...

i personally think all aquaz will give a chance 2 sum1 who askz them out.. coz we like people n we like friendz...so goin out on a date wid a friend is gr8...

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@eliza0012
21 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

'...we just do it differently, some will give you a mixed signal, some will act strangely in front of you, some will completely ignore you (immature aqua) if they're in love with you

and aquas are known to be a very left brained people...'

thatz soooo true CMAROW... i often give mixed signalz 2... or completely ignore da guy wen i like him....im WAAAAAY left brained 🙂

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@ariesgirl
20 Years

Arianlatay,

You're right.. I think regardless of his sign there definitely should be some effort on his part. No matter how aloof or nonemotional someone can be. It's just so hard. 😢