all of the sudden he is back..

Hear hear all of the sudden he is back into my life. It happened after 2 months of separation, and after 20 minutes spent together for the first time in almost two months.
And all of the sudden I hear him saying "no one makes me feel the one that you do" lol! after 2 months of being apart! This is crazy and amazing at the same time,
Now I am taking it slow, how can I trust this is not one of his tactics to see how I am feeling to then suddenly detach again?
It is very funny the way aqua men are.
anyone had the same experience?

sorry I meant the way you do lol

yes...my aqua broke up with me for 4 months, and we did still talk to each other on the phone during that time...but, all of a sudden, one day he just showed up outside of my work and wanted to say hello. i was like "what"— anyway, we ended up getting back together BUT i took it REALLY SLOW with him.

my advice to you is that you should give him another chance if you truly want to be with him, but do not give yourself up so easily...in any way. take your time, get to know him, do things according to your schedule and do not compromise. remember, he came back to you so now the ball is in your court. play it wisely and it will work out for you.

So I wonder if this is the same with my aqua "friend." All was good for a few months then things just stopped abrubtly. I guess both of us had too much going on at the time to make time to hang out. So it's been almost a YEAR and we simply only talk on the phone, text or e-mail. Of lately though he's been wanting to have lunch or dinner, but get this not just us but with a mutual friend (the one who introuduced us). Is this a sign that either 1) he only wants to be friends 2) he wants to take it slow. I don't know what to make of him other than last week he calls me at work and starts saying things like "oh I wanted to hear your lovely voice" or when I told him I would go watch his basektball game (he's a coach) as it was his last one for the season he said "i'm going to have to dress nice for you." Comments like these are confusing to me. Whenever he comes by my department he gives me such a great big smile that I just about melt.

Moonchild thank you for replying to my message.that is super how they come back then go then come back again. i find it amusing. The next day he was already thinking too much about it and pulled back again saying I care deeply for you, but it' s all so fast (haha he jumped on me the night before) and we should be friends. Since then he has been calling me everyday, morning and night. This is so odd. I mean what guy would do that if not an aqua man?
I appreciate your advice, I think I need to stand back and see what he does. He is so afraid of emotions! he even tells me when we are intimate, "there are so many emotions involved!" like it is something wrong with that.
Anyway, now I am also a bit confused. Does he want to be friends or is he taking time to develop something more?

I wanted to add there is a lot going on in his life right now, so he feels depressed and pulled in many directions (family issue)

shylibra, it is rather confusing you are right. I have only been broken up two months, so it may be a different situation, I mean after one year. however guys can do that, my ex came back after 17 years (NOT AN AQUA) to tell me he would marry me yesterday! (not even tomorrow).
Go out for dinner and see what is his next move. Keep us updated!