Always being available

Hey there guys. Have another Aqua question.

Is always being available something the Aqua wants from you? I mean, when you're already in the relationship, and there's no longer a chase.

Should there be a constant chase, even after the "I love you" "you are the one" stuff has been exchanged?

I don't like playing games. If he says he wants to see me, I make sure to be there. But is that what he really wants?

He's Aqua sun, merc, Venus, & libra Mars.

if he has anything Aries, I wouldn't suggest always being available. but that's my own experience and opinion in dealing with Aquarians with Aries placements.

Aquarius with an Aquarius stellium are more prone to enjoying something steady. when looking at my dad I couldn't imagine him wanting to chase all the time and he'd expect my mother to be reliable. he has a Virgo moon and Capricorn Mars. Aquarius Sun/Merc/Venus/Jupiter/Saturn LOL. he does have a Scorpio Neptune but overall he's definitely a super aquarian. he does not like Games and he's very serious in everything he does.

I'm not an aqua.

Once a relationship is established, there's no more "chasing", no more games like that. I think each should have their own interests, their own friends, do their own thing at times. If he wants to see you and you've already made plans with your gals or have something going on, you should still go ahead and do that. You shouldn't dump your plans just because he wants to see you. Invite him along if you'd like, but don't change your plans at the last minute.

For instance, if you've planned on doing laundry that night, tell him "I'd love to see you, but I have to get this laundry done. Wanna come help?"

If you don't already have plans, then by all means, see him.


Being at someone's beck and call is too much, in my opinion. It is doormat behavior, which is a turn off.

Posted by pennystealing123
Hey there guys. Have another Aqua question.

Is always being available something the Aqua wants from you? I mean, when you're already in the relationship, and there's no longer a chase.

Should there be a constant chase, even after the "I love you" "you are the one" stuff has been exchanged?

I don't like playing games. If he says he wants to see me, I make sure to be there. But is that what he really wants?

He's Aqua sun, merc, Venus, & libra Mars.

What's his moon?

Leo

Be there for him if he wants you to. But, tread cautiously, as over indulgence can backfire.

@pennystealing123

Be there for him, give him his space
if u want to see him just go and see him
surprise him,, aqua men dont like to be the one who plan things or get attached to things they need a strong steady mate that will be there for them no matter what and never judge him just be so friendly with him tell him that u like/love him from time to time but never cause a drama

The only thing he wont like, is if you cancel plans on him to go do something else. That Aqua/Leo combo is egoish in that way.