Scartooth11
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Am I wrong or something in my relationship?
Posted by Scartooth11I wanna back off but I'm afraid that I will lose him. I try not to be clinginess. I won't text him more if he hasn't replied my text. I never complain to him about his lack of communication.
Although I don't know much on this situation...Maybe the stalker approach isn't quite the best. Especially if his day is relaxing or a day where everyone is up his butt.
He may not withstand the clingy things. Try to find something to preoccupy your time. Too much thinking can lead to assuming and that may not go well.
you should give him space. aqua guys are sweet and loving imo.. but you probably need more constant affection than he can give.. and even if he can give that you're too upset to receive it you're going to scare him off before he can. :/
Haha Leo moons always thinking objects express love, which it doesn't. I am an Aquarius with a Pisces moon. I'm not gonna buy you anything, I'm gonna make love to you like the passionate beast I am, and show you through my actions how much I love you instead of constantly showering you with materialism.
Also he can probably feel you being clingy across the city your in, I know I can feel it when ever I have a clingy partner.
Just reading your post makes me feel smothered.
Give him space chica. Do it for your own good 🙂 unless you really want him to run
Also he can probably feel you being clingy across the city your in, I know I can feel it when ever I have a clingy partner.
Just reading your post makes me feel smothered.
Give him space chica. Do it for your own good 🙂 unless you really want him to run
Hahaha passionate beast^^
I was about to say the samething reading this ,space is good and going off and occupying your mind so you don't overthink..Being busy helps you so much!
I think once he realizes your not tripling anymore he will come around and being active gives you things to talk about ..
Maybe try doing things he likes to do by yourself kinda gives you a perspective of how he likes to do things and eventually you can do them together..
Flooding anybody with emotions and all these thoughts can really push anybody away.. being alone and doing your own thing can be good and it lets you see what you truly want and feel..
I was about to say the samething reading this ,space is good and going off and occupying your mind so you don't overthink..Being busy helps you so much!
I think once he realizes your not tripling anymore he will come around and being active gives you things to talk about ..
Maybe try doing things he likes to do by yourself kinda gives you a perspective of how he likes to do things and eventually you can do them together..
Flooding anybody with emotions and all these thoughts can really push anybody away.. being alone and doing your own thing can be good and it lets you see what you truly want and feel..
Doubt calling him a dog and judging was appropriate. I see it the other ay around except she doesn't seem she will ever be pleased unless he is attached to her hip.
Long distance is hard as it is, but you can't act as if everything he is doing or isn't is a deliberate attack. But I agree...maybe someone who is more on the clingy side too. You may have tons of more issues down the road. Ex. What took you so long at the gas station? I know you visited your friends once this month...but you said it was only for an hour." Blah blah blah
I see all this bad advice on this board for Aquas. Demand this. Ignore him. Make him jealous with another. Etc etc.
All of that, at least from types similar to me...
"Well, guess you chose another. Bye." "Well, I didn't ask for a puching time clock. Bye." "Oh, another person constantly making petty power plays and srguements. Ugh."
I'd be kicking myself for not noticing that behavior and that's how you'd lose an Aqua as fast as that thought was made.
I doubt any Aqua wishes to live life in a cage where you only have 15 minutes out in the yard to piss. Smh
Long distance is hard as it is, but you can't act as if everything he is doing or isn't is a deliberate attack. But I agree...maybe someone who is more on the clingy side too. You may have tons of more issues down the road. Ex. What took you so long at the gas station? I know you visited your friends once this month...but you said it was only for an hour." Blah blah blah
I see all this bad advice on this board for Aquas. Demand this. Ignore him. Make him jealous with another. Etc etc.
All of that, at least from types similar to me...
"Well, guess you chose another. Bye." "Well, I didn't ask for a puching time clock. Bye." "Oh, another person constantly making petty power plays and srguements. Ugh."
I'd be kicking myself for not noticing that behavior and that's how you'd lose an Aqua as fast as that thought was made.
I doubt any Aqua wishes to live life in a cage where you only have 15 minutes out in the yard to piss. Smh
Oh, Leo, oh Leo.....YOU NEED TO CHILL!
It seems that you're wanting more than he's willing to give right now. There's nothing wrong with that in theory, however, in reality, an aquarius isn't going to and can't provide what you're wanting. At least not at this stage. I remember the first year of our relationship and feeling some of the things that you are, however, you MUST have faith in him and you need to learn to develop patience.
There are good things going on here and you're more worried about the things that are not going on. Take some time and focus on what he IS doing instead of what he's not doing. He cheers you up, he's funny, he texts you first every day, he is there. You've had your temper tantrums and he's STILL there. That speaks loudly about how he feels for you!!! But, oh, no, you're worried about what he's not doing.
So, his not saying bye or k at the end of texting. Get used to it. It won't ever stop. Eventually you'll figure out that it means nothing.
The late responses to texts - well,. most aquas I know do not keep their phones on them 24/7. Even if they do, they don't constantly check it. They're always doing something or talking to people or napping or just not in the mood. So, have faith in him that he will text you back eventually. Pay attention when you're together and you'll notice this.
The temper and keeping your mouth shut. Well control the temper, but don't be afraid to speak up. Call him out when he needs it, otherwise he won't respect you. Aquas like people who are true to themselves. If you let him run all over you, he will lose interest. Now, I'm not saying you should start a fight with him or yell at him, but keep it calm and in a conversational tone, kindly tell him "this bothered me and this is why it bothered me" making SURE you don't accuse him or blame him,- it's about your perception and your reaction to his action. It's not about getting mad. They don't like conflict so doing this must be done calmly. Once you tell him, then sit back and observe, If he cares, he will make efforts not to do it again.
The fear. OMG! The fear. Your fear comes across as desperate and reeks. Fear causes us to lose who we are and that will make him lose interest. Be fearless. Be confident. Fear ruins more relationship more than anything else.
It seems that you're wanting more than he's willing to give right now. There's nothing wrong with that in theory, however, in reality, an aquarius isn't going to and can't provide what you're wanting. At least not at this stage. I remember the first year of our relationship and feeling some of the things that you are, however, you MUST have faith in him and you need to learn to develop patience.
There are good things going on here and you're more worried about the things that are not going on. Take some time and focus on what he IS doing instead of what he's not doing. He cheers you up, he's funny, he texts you first every day, he is there. You've had your temper tantrums and he's STILL there. That speaks loudly about how he feels for you!!! But, oh, no, you're worried about what he's not doing.
So, his not saying bye or k at the end of texting. Get used to it. It won't ever stop. Eventually you'll figure out that it means nothing.
The late responses to texts - well,. most aquas I know do not keep their phones on them 24/7. Even if they do, they don't constantly check it. They're always doing something or talking to people or napping or just not in the mood. So, have faith in him that he will text you back eventually. Pay attention when you're together and you'll notice this.
The temper and keeping your mouth shut. Well control the temper, but don't be afraid to speak up. Call him out when he needs it, otherwise he won't respect you. Aquas like people who are true to themselves. If you let him run all over you, he will lose interest. Now, I'm not saying you should start a fight with him or yell at him, but keep it calm and in a conversational tone, kindly tell him "this bothered me and this is why it bothered me" making SURE you don't accuse him or blame him,- it's about your perception and your reaction to his action. It's not about getting mad. They don't like conflict so doing this must be done calmly. Once you tell him, then sit back and observe, If he cares, he will make efforts not to do it again.
The fear. OMG! The fear. Your fear comes across as desperate and reeks. Fear causes us to lose who we are and that will make him lose interest. Be fearless. Be confident. Fear ruins more relationship more than anything else.
Sweet and romantic? Hahahahaha!!! Aquas have NO IDEA what romantic is (no offense aquas, I had a thread on this about a year or so ago). At least not in the same sense as a Leo sees romance. Get used to his idea of romance. You have to learn to recognize what his idea of romance is. It won't ever be coming home to a trail of rose petals leading to a bedroom of candles....romance with aqua is much more subtle. Romance to them is as simple as wanting the last piece of chocolate and giving it to you instead. Just learn to recognize his romance language and you'll be much happier.
He doesn't complement you? Well, mine doesn't either. He also doesn't criticize. I could wear paint stained overalls and mud boots to the movies and he wouldn't care. So think about this from a different point of view.
Gifts? OMG! Who cares!!! That seems just oh so materialistic. And you'll learn quickly aquas aren't materialistic. So, a gift to them is picking a flower from the garden and giving it to you. Or fixing something for you. Or spending their time with you.
PDA? Well, every aqua is different on this one. Mine doesn't mind quick kisses or holding hands, but that's it. Some like it and some don't. It's how they treat you in private that counts.
So, anyway, it's all about perception. Happiness is all in how you perceive things and you better start looking at some things from a different angle or you're going to lose him.
Like I said, I've been in your shoes, I remember feeling how you did. I look back now and think how silly it all was and if I had only had faith in him, I never would have felt that way at all.
So, good luck to ya. I hope I helped.
He doesn't complement you? Well, mine doesn't either. He also doesn't criticize. I could wear paint stained overalls and mud boots to the movies and he wouldn't care. So think about this from a different point of view.
Gifts? OMG! Who cares!!! That seems just oh so materialistic. And you'll learn quickly aquas aren't materialistic. So, a gift to them is picking a flower from the garden and giving it to you. Or fixing something for you. Or spending their time with you.
PDA? Well, every aqua is different on this one. Mine doesn't mind quick kisses or holding hands, but that's it. Some like it and some don't. It's how they treat you in private that counts.
So, anyway, it's all about perception. Happiness is all in how you perceive things and you better start looking at some things from a different angle or you're going to lose him.
Like I said, I've been in your shoes, I remember feeling how you did. I look back now and think how silly it all was and if I had only had faith in him, I never would have felt that way at all.
So, good luck to ya. I hope I helped.
Oh, I wasn't saying anything is wrong with you, what I wrote about is a different perspective and acceptance of who he is.
And if you still want that stuff from a partner, it's okay, he's just not the one to give it to you.
And if you still want that stuff from a partner, it's okay, he's just not the one to give it to you.
i think that sugarfoot is right that you are that other username individual who is pining over that guy with those placements.
*smh*
guuuuurrrrrlllll, it sounds really ONE SIDED.
how can you make yourself suffer like this—
I guess people like what they can't have. It's the "chase" *smh*
*smh*
guuuuurrrrrlllll, it sounds really ONE SIDED.
how can you make yourself suffer like this—
I guess people like what they can't have. It's the "chase" *smh*
and buying "gifts" for someone all the time, 😢
and he's not reciprocating. Jeeeez. It can be looked at that youre manipulating him into making him love you.
you're a generous young woman. You throw away yourself too much for someone who is not into you.
My husband is very very generous and i'm generous back, because I reciprocate and love him very much.
Please for the love of god, find someone who reciprocates. Don't keep chasing a man down. 😢
and he's not reciprocating. Jeeeez. It can be looked at that youre manipulating him into making him love you.
you're a generous young woman. You throw away yourself too much for someone who is not into you.
My husband is very very generous and i'm generous back, because I reciprocate and love him very much.
Please for the love of god, find someone who reciprocates. Don't keep chasing a man down. 😢
some people just want to love ONE SIDED. I think this is their suffering in life.
Posted by Scartooth11it sounds very very MANIPULATIVE.
Doubt calling him a dog and judging was appropriate. I see it the other ay around except she doesn't seem she will ever be pleased unless he is attached to her hip.
Long distance is hard as it is, but you can't act as if everything he is doing or isn't is a deliberate attack. But I agree...maybe someone who is more on the clingy side too. You may have tons of more issues down the road. Ex. What took you so long at the gas station? I know you visited your friends once this month...but you said it was only for an hour." Blah blah blah
I see all this bad advice on this board for Aquas. Demand this. Ignore him. Make him jealous with another. Etc etc.
All of that, at least from types similar to me...
"Well, guess you chose another. Bye." "Well, I didn't ask for a puching time clock. Bye." "Oh, another person constantly making petty power plays and srguements. Ugh."
I'd be kicking myself for not noticing that behavior and that's how you'd lose an Aqua as fast as that thought was made.
I doubt any Aqua wishes to live life in a cage where you only have 15 minutes out in the yard to piss. Smh
people who can see through the bullshit, won't bother entering with people with that kind of mindset.
if you have to manipulative individuals to get them to have a romantic relationship with you, there's something not right there.
it's like trying to DESPERATELY get a man/woman. and it's not genuine.
the problem lies in the other person too.
because they should NEVER encuorage it at all, not even platonic. because if they get the feeling of other people DESIRING them in a small way, they can EASILY manipulate the other person's emotions.
that is CRUEL.
and then therefore, the individual who is in love, is trying to manipulate to get them.
it is a terrible cruelty. and not based on love at all.
If the other person loves you back, they will be with you believe me they will!!! they don't wanna lose you.
but this Always falls on deaf ears. *shrug*
believe you me, in the past PLENTY of guys around me, all PLATONIC and i knew some of them desired me. I can tell. So i DISTANCED.
and in fact told them hey i'm TAKEN. when that happened, the decent ones left. lol
You can't stop men from salivating and desiring and wanting. it is what it is. *smh*
the only thing one can do is NOT encouraging it. It is a LESSON we all learn sometime in life.
and in fact told them hey i'm TAKEN. when that happened, the decent ones left. lol
You can't stop men from salivating and desiring and wanting. it is what it is. *smh*
the only thing one can do is NOT encouraging it. It is a LESSON we all learn sometime in life.
you need to avoid men like this:
and men who KNOW what you want. Lmao
to AVOID being like this:
it is old as time.....and a technique alot of people do in life, if they are NOT into you at all but will USE YOU and ABUSE YOU.
it is old as time.....and a technique alot of people do in life, if they are NOT into you at all but will USE YOU and ABUSE YOU.
I reread.
Maybe you should too. You implied if you prefer. But if you ask me, she is the manipulative one. His head hardly seems up his ass as you've labeled. That is hardly sharing a world together, that is forcing him to change to hers or else face judgment such as yours and the likes.
Also, those who feel Aquas are incapable of being romantic is absurd.
Sure, you won't get roses from me on Valentines day. But is it really romantic to express what society tells you? You drove by the gas station and said... Oh, yes. Let's be original and express my love as everyone else has for years upon years. Oh, tv told me to do this as well. Bleh.
If you can't look past cultural sheepheadedness to emotions, actions and the likes...dont blame the other party.
But I do agree they hardly seem compatible. But you can't scapegoat him as she is at the stage with thoughts of being manipulative.
Wind, water, light flows as it does. It's there regardless if you see it or not. But to go all out because it's not bending to your needs at this time but not layer on or perhaps bending when you don't want it to... The adult thing as been implied is to compromise, accept,understand unconditionally. Neither has been done. Maybe you've missed my previous post. But I see much more energy wasted needlessly where it could be put to better use either on him, OP or someone else.
Stone throwing is hardly admirable or a prison warden.
But to not see this as clingy? You can't be only able to see the end result. I'm sure this had been like this since the beginning. If you keep swimming in the piranha pit when it started out as the beach...
But I still agree that your intentions are great. Maybe someone who is more to the emotional check ins and saying good morning first (although who cares who does what first or last? Why not just do it regardless)
Reciprocating may have been there previously as it sounded. Have you missed it or like others seem to feel... Will it never exist unless it fits the cardboard cutout you've made?
You've yet to explain if he has ever responded, given reasons or if you've even asked.
Maybe you should too. You implied if you prefer. But if you ask me, she is the manipulative one. His head hardly seems up his ass as you've labeled. That is hardly sharing a world together, that is forcing him to change to hers or else face judgment such as yours and the likes.
Also, those who feel Aquas are incapable of being romantic is absurd.
Sure, you won't get roses from me on Valentines day. But is it really romantic to express what society tells you? You drove by the gas station and said... Oh, yes. Let's be original and express my love as everyone else has for years upon years. Oh, tv told me to do this as well. Bleh.
If you can't look past cultural sheepheadedness to emotions, actions and the likes...dont blame the other party.
But I do agree they hardly seem compatible. But you can't scapegoat him as she is at the stage with thoughts of being manipulative.
Wind, water, light flows as it does. It's there regardless if you see it or not. But to go all out because it's not bending to your needs at this time but not layer on or perhaps bending when you don't want it to... The adult thing as been implied is to compromise, accept,understand unconditionally. Neither has been done. Maybe you've missed my previous post. But I see much more energy wasted needlessly where it could be put to better use either on him, OP or someone else.
Stone throwing is hardly admirable or a prison warden.
But to not see this as clingy? You can't be only able to see the end result. I'm sure this had been like this since the beginning. If you keep swimming in the piranha pit when it started out as the beach...
But I still agree that your intentions are great. Maybe someone who is more to the emotional check ins and saying good morning first (although who cares who does what first or last? Why not just do it regardless)
Reciprocating may have been there previously as it sounded. Have you missed it or like others seem to feel... Will it never exist unless it fits the cardboard cutout you've made?
You've yet to explain if he has ever responded, given reasons or if you've even asked.
Lol.
Posted by AquaMermaidfire moon/air sun can be good (look at Christian Bale, but he's with an Aries sun) lol
Lady, how many accounts are you going to make to whine about this Aquarius? I told you we can't do long distance relationships. Ffs dump his ass and find a fire mooner who can pay you all the attention in the world and pamper you to your heart's content!
i was gonna suggest someone like Tom Hiddleston, also with Aries moon, Aquarius venus and he's libra dominant too!!
12th house mars and merc in pisces. He got together with another Aquarius sun with Aquarius venus too, she's got cancer moon
Tom Hiddleston and Elizabeth Olsen. (oooohhh the hearts are breaking out there now that he's taken) lol
Ok... guys. Calm down.
I was down and upset last night. But I'm getting better now. No one is100% perfect and so do I.
It's because of the distance already makes us apart, that's why I want something from him to reassure me that we're still good.
I don't mean he has to buy to gift every single time. Of course, he didn't buy me Valentine's gift, not even a card. But I passed it, and I don't care.
What I mean by getting gift from him is I want him to stay the same or similar like we were friends. He bought me small gift from his vacation trip, and that's all enough from me. It doesn't need to be "all the time" but maybe once a year? Is it too much to ask for?
Anyway, I don't wanna make gift part is big.
All I want from him is just showing me he cares about me more. Yes, I need affectionate, but bc we're apart so what I can do to him is listening to him, engaging in his story when he opens up... and I want that in return from him. Even friends do this to each other. I'm not asking too much.
Well, I know I need to accept who he is if I still wanna date with him. As I told you guys, he's also a great guy. Sometimes, my temper got me (like last night). Now, I'm getting cooler... I try to see his pt of view. Of course, those feelings like last night will strike me again and again. But it makes me feel calmer when I can say it out even in this board.
I'm not reading the sarcastic or mean comments on here. Everybody has different opinions. But thanks to everybody who tries to help me out and opens my eyes.
I know I'm clingy sometimes, but not all the time. I don't and never blow up his phone with my messages and phone calls. I don't even ask him to drive to see me everyweek... I told him I will leave him alone so he can enjoy his alone time last night. I tried to give him space... Am I still clingy?
I just felt disrespectful or I'm just an option when he did things that I describe in the first post. I won't and never do it to him.
I was down and upset last night. But I'm getting better now. No one is100% perfect and so do I.
It's because of the distance already makes us apart, that's why I want something from him to reassure me that we're still good.
I don't mean he has to buy to gift every single time. Of course, he didn't buy me Valentine's gift, not even a card. But I passed it, and I don't care.
What I mean by getting gift from him is I want him to stay the same or similar like we were friends. He bought me small gift from his vacation trip, and that's all enough from me. It doesn't need to be "all the time" but maybe once a year? Is it too much to ask for?
Anyway, I don't wanna make gift part is big.
All I want from him is just showing me he cares about me more. Yes, I need affectionate, but bc we're apart so what I can do to him is listening to him, engaging in his story when he opens up... and I want that in return from him. Even friends do this to each other. I'm not asking too much.
Well, I know I need to accept who he is if I still wanna date with him. As I told you guys, he's also a great guy. Sometimes, my temper got me (like last night). Now, I'm getting cooler... I try to see his pt of view. Of course, those feelings like last night will strike me again and again. But it makes me feel calmer when I can say it out even in this board.
I'm not reading the sarcastic or mean comments on here. Everybody has different opinions. But thanks to everybody who tries to help me out and opens my eyes.
I know I'm clingy sometimes, but not all the time. I don't and never blow up his phone with my messages and phone calls. I don't even ask him to drive to see me everyweek... I told him I will leave him alone so he can enjoy his alone time last night. I tried to give him space... Am I still clingy?
I just felt disrespectful or I'm just an option when he did things that I describe in the first post. I won't and never do it to him.
women and men are different.
women's needs are their sun/mars/Jupiter remember??
and men, it is Always Always their Moon/Venus and feminine planets.
I am with a leo dominant man, but he's WATER dominant too.
this girl is too clingy ass. I would be suffocating if i were a man.
None of my ex's were CLINGY. and my first husband is water and fire dominant too.
women's needs are their sun/mars/Jupiter remember??
and men, it is Always Always their Moon/Venus and feminine planets.
I am with a leo dominant man, but he's WATER dominant too.
this girl is too clingy ass. I would be suffocating if i were a man.
None of my ex's were CLINGY. and my first husband is water and fire dominant too.
i HATE clingy ass men.
I can't imagine being a man and the woman is CLINGY. OMG suffocating. get the fuck out of here.
Even my husband says, I need my SPACE. I'm like fucking FINE buddy. that's why we're perfect.
I can't imagine being a man and the woman is CLINGY. OMG suffocating. get the fuck out of here.
Even my husband says, I need my SPACE. I'm like fucking FINE buddy. that's why we're perfect.
plus her posts are soooooooo annoying.
with her pining and pining over a man.
i was like this when i was a teenager. TEENAGER. HORMONES.
I hate that!!! god give me a gun and let me shoot myself!!!!
with her pining and pining over a man.
i was like this when i was a teenager. TEENAGER. HORMONES.
I hate that!!! god give me a gun and let me shoot myself!!!!
Trying to get interaction isn't clingy. Barraging is. Does he give reasons why he takes time to respond?
If LDR, is he falling asleep during text times?
You've said you've noticed his attention on you while together...they alone could be genuine enough...depending on his characteristics.
Also, if texts and such go as... Him... A few paragraphs. You...Short response. Then maybe try a different style of communication. Out of the mundane... How's your day?
Throw in awkward or out of left field questions or thoughts.
Everyone can experience the feelings when the other isn't in view.
If all is well on both sides though, don't forget square one where things all began.
Clingy isn't a bad thing in all cases, but if he perceives it as an overload...but I'd press more on a short explanation if there is worry.
But if his life is busy...he may be taking a mental break. Too much is lost over texts.
How long and how much longer will this be a LDR? Are you both waiting until certain puzzle pieces fit to move forward?...if you don't mind me asking.
If LDR, is he falling asleep during text times?
You've said you've noticed his attention on you while together...they alone could be genuine enough...depending on his characteristics.
Also, if texts and such go as... Him... A few paragraphs. You...Short response. Then maybe try a different style of communication. Out of the mundane... How's your day?
Throw in awkward or out of left field questions or thoughts.
Everyone can experience the feelings when the other isn't in view.
If all is well on both sides though, don't forget square one where things all began.
Clingy isn't a bad thing in all cases, but if he perceives it as an overload...but I'd press more on a short explanation if there is worry.
But if his life is busy...he may be taking a mental break. Too much is lost over texts.
How long and how much longer will this be a LDR? Are you both waiting until certain puzzle pieces fit to move forward?...if you don't mind me asking.
No one is even listening to Sugarfoot's advice, and her advice is spot on.
"trying to get interaction isn't clingy?" it IS clingy if it's about wanting someone badly. You're gonna drive that person away with your constant annoyance.
It seems like the OP has no intuition and no feeling about the other person.
If you know in your gut feeling he dont want you, what does that tell you—
"trying to get interaction isn't clingy?" it IS clingy if it's about wanting someone badly. You're gonna drive that person away with your constant annoyance.
It seems like the OP has no intuition and no feeling about the other person.
If you know in your gut feeling he dont want you, what does that tell you—
Posted by AquaMermaidThat blows my theory out of the water! lol!
Aquarians have all the idea how to romance. My ex bf was Aqua sun/Pisces moon combo and he swept me off my feet with flowers,poems,chocolates, PDAs and awesome sex!
My aqua has a cap venus/virgo moon and romantic ideas don't even cross his mind. He's admitted it.
Lol, just enjoying the banter/opinions and views.
But seems OP is avoiding or missing out questions from others to prod out more specific info.
Wasn't trying to attack or call out if it was taken like that.
Best I could do is point out other angles in this guessing game.
Maybe "over-exampling" on my part. But the topic has branched different ways. 😉
But seems OP is avoiding or missing out questions from others to prod out more specific info.
Wasn't trying to attack or call out if it was taken like that.
Best I could do is point out other angles in this guessing game.
Maybe "over-exampling" on my part. But the topic has branched different ways. 😉
Posted by lisabethur8Trying to get interaction isn't clingy, unless the other person don't want interaction. Then, it's clingy.
No one is even listening to Sugarfoot's advice, and her advice is spot on.
"trying to get interaction isn't clingy?" it IS clingy if it's about wanting someone badly. You're gonna drive that person away with your constant annoyance.
It seems like the OP has no intuition and no feeling about the other person.
If you know in your gut feeling he dont want you, what does that tell you—
I think if you're just as into the other person as they are to you, then it isn't clingy. If the other person is more into you than you are into them, then everything they do is clingy.
Posted by Scartooth11I said they're not romantic in the same sense as a Leo would be romantic. They are, but it's not big gestures of romance, it's more subtle.
I reread.
Also, those who feel Aquas are incapable of being romantic is absurd.
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I posted a thread a while back on "aquas, what is romantic to you" and the answers spoke for themselves. Everyone has a different definition of romance.
Posted by truecapthat's why it has to be equal. He is into you, you are into him.Posted by lisabethur8Trying to get interaction isn't clingy, unless the other person don't want interaction. Then, it's clingy.
No one is even listening to Sugarfoot's advice, and her advice is spot on.
"trying to get interaction isn't clingy?" it IS clingy if it's about wanting someone badly. You're gonna drive that person away with your constant annoyance.
It seems like the OP has no intuition and no feeling about the other person.
If you know in your gut feeling he dont want you, what does that tell you—
I think if you're just as into the other person as they are to you, then it isn't clingy. If the other person is more into you than you are into them, then everything they do is clingy.click to expand
It has to MATCH. COMPATIBILITY.
Posted by lisabethur8Yep. I got what you were saying. 🙂Posted by truecapthat's why it has to be equal. He is into you, you are into him.Posted by lisabethur8Trying to get interaction isn't clingy, unless the other person don't want interaction. Then, it's clingy.
No one is even listening to Sugarfoot's advice, and her advice is spot on.
"trying to get interaction isn't clingy?" it IS clingy if it's about wanting someone badly. You're gonna drive that person away with your constant annoyance.
It seems like the OP has no intuition and no feeling about the other person.
If you know in your gut feeling he dont want you, what does that tell you—
I think if you're just as into the other person as they are to you, then it isn't clingy. If the other person is more into you than you are into them, then everything they do is clingy.
It has to MATCH. COMPATIBILITY.
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Romantic is different to all.
I remember giving the comment....
Ok, you got flowers, dinner and a backrub. Where's my romantic gestures of You/me, beer, pizza and whever the night takes us in our own little world. Lol.
I remember giving the comment....
Ok, you got flowers, dinner and a backrub. Where's my romantic gestures of You/me, beer, pizza and whever the night takes us in our own little world. Lol.
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Posted by Scartooth11My aqua has almost the same chart except he's pisces mars and scorpio rising.
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Texting you back as an afterthought, his indifference, and ambivalence, are all strong indications that he definitely has another woman. Venus is Pisces are notorious cheaters; if you are dating someone with a Venus in Pisces (unless they are highly evolved) you can almost bet there is another woman. If you have a ldr with a Venus in Pisces there is 10'x chance he has a woman. It sounds like you are not woman #1 and when it's your turn he will get around to you.
I hope you don't jump to conclusions as above. Nothing indicates another woman (or man for that matter).
Being busy or ignoring or even moving on declares nothing without an exact reason.
Of course don't rule it out as he even can't with OP.
OP hasn't even answered questions asked so it's still hard to not pin her or both as the culprit. Witch hunts only get one result - and if you already have a result in your mind and are dead set - best go with that option. I've seen too many good people get the blunt end from small things blown into "another person" blames. Most resulting in the accuser cheating when in fact the victim was the most loyal one out of the two. Also, no mention of relationship preferences had been given (open, swingers, rules, etc.)
But OP hasn't even mentioned how long she's waited for responses or forms of communication.
I remember a cancer years back flipping out and sleeping around in a fit of rage just because the Verizon towers went down and I couldn't text back to triple confirm that I was still waiting in the spot where she said she would pick me up.
Still, benefited me, but my point is- overreacting and jumping to conclusions are a witch hunt.
Thing is, you don't know as we don't know all your downfalls and possible causes to this scenario.
Being busy or ignoring or even moving on declares nothing without an exact reason.
Of course don't rule it out as he even can't with OP.
OP hasn't even answered questions asked so it's still hard to not pin her or both as the culprit. Witch hunts only get one result - and if you already have a result in your mind and are dead set - best go with that option. I've seen too many good people get the blunt end from small things blown into "another person" blames. Most resulting in the accuser cheating when in fact the victim was the most loyal one out of the two. Also, no mention of relationship preferences had been given (open, swingers, rules, etc.)
But OP hasn't even mentioned how long she's waited for responses or forms of communication.
I remember a cancer years back flipping out and sleeping around in a fit of rage just because the Verizon towers went down and I couldn't text back to triple confirm that I was still waiting in the spot where she said she would pick me up.
Still, benefited me, but my point is- overreacting and jumping to conclusions are a witch hunt.
Thing is, you don't know as we don't know all your downfalls and possible causes to this scenario.
^^ That's why I said for her to have faith in him that he will get back to her.
When my relationship was fairly new, I'll admit to worrying when he would be slow to text back. However, every time, he'd be like "was taking a nap" or "didn't mean to leave you hanging, I fell asleep" or "my brother needed help with his car". There was always a valid reason and I felt stupid for worrying.
After a while, you just know it's not personal.
When my relationship was fairly new, I'll admit to worrying when he would be slow to text back. However, every time, he'd be like "was taking a nap" or "didn't mean to leave you hanging, I fell asleep" or "my brother needed help with his car". There was always a valid reason and I felt stupid for worrying.
After a while, you just know it's not personal.
Posted by Scartooth11So she slept around JUST because she thought you were ignoring her? Geesh!! She must not have had faith in you for some twisted made-up-in-her-head reason.
I remember a cancer years back flipping out and sleeping around in a fit of rage just because the Verizon towers went down and I couldn't text back to triple confirm that I was still waiting in the spot where she said she would pick me up.
Still, benefited me, but my point is- overreacting and jumping to conclusions are a witch hunt.
Thing is, you don't know as we don't know all your downfalls and possible causes to this scenario.
I'm just curious as to why important facts seem to be avoided. May be much more behind curtain #2 or may just have been overlooked.
Listen to me I'm an Aquarius and I assure there is nothing to worry about. I don't text a lot I don't even respond to much messages at all and I could go days without talking to someone not because I don't like them or there is a problem no not at all that is just in our nature his disappearance acts are nothing more than having alone time Aquas always need alone time it's nothing personal at all . And we don't show our love much we have a different way of showing it , if we try to make you laugh and always ask how your doing we do love you and he does love you.dont hesitate to tell him what's bothering you remember Aquas never judge and if your sad or mad about something we always help if we love you so tell him how you feel people tell me how they feel and I help with it tell him
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Listen to me I'm an Aquarius and I assure there is nothing to worry about. I don't text a lot I don't even respond to much messages at all and I could go days without talking to someone not because I don't like them or there is a problem no not at all that is just in our nature his disappearance acts are nothing more than having alone time Aquas always need alone time it's nothing personal at all . And we don't show our love much we have a different way of showing it , if we try to make you laugh and always ask how your doing we do love you and he does love you.dont hesitate to tell him what's bothering you remember Aquas never judge and if your sad or mad about something we always help if we love you so tell him how you feel people tell me how they feel and I help with it tell him
I didn't base my prediction on his sun sign, i did a tarot card reading and I clearly saw another woman. But you don't need to do a reading or read a blog to know this man is not into this woman. He didn't even purchase a Valentine card. You all need to stop lying to this poor woman, you are trying to make yourself look good instead of empowering her with the strength to be with someone who cares about her. This guy could care less about her.
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Listen to me I'm an Aquarius and I assure there is nothing to worry about. I don't text a lot I don't even respond to much messages at all and I could go days without talking to someone not because I don't like them or there is a problem no not at all that is just in our nature his disappearance acts are nothing more than having alone time Aquas always need alone time it's nothing personal at all . And we don't show our love much we have a different way of showing it , if we try to make you laugh and always ask how your doing we do love you and he does love you.dont hesitate to tell him what's bothering you remember Aquas never judge and if your sad or mad about something we always help if we love you so tell him how you feel people tell me how they feel and I help with it tell him
I said Venus in Pisces not Sun in Aquarius. Your sun sign has very little to do with how you act in love.
Not empowering her, just advising to think of all possible unknown outcomes. I have never given a valentine's card since elementary school. I find it more insulting to express my feelings than my own ideas. To me it's a cop-out even though some women still just want it for show (which I've been told). I can't speak for all others, but you think I post here to make myself look good? Lol. To a bunch of strangers while I go keyboard warrior? I'm leaning more towards Aquas are us and unless it's a cheesy antic to make someone smile, we probably care less to impress in such manner let alone to those posts we feel to speak out on. But to make a blind eye because you feel to pick on a clue you found? Come on now...for all we know, she has already did something horrible to this guy, bashed his ego out of anger, going crazy even after ten minutes of no response while this guy is busy at work, dropped his phone and cracked it and he needs to wait until it's repaired. Yet still sent an email, but didn't respond. (Note: I DID say for all we know). Op has avoided those answers abs said she was upset. Maybe your terot cards are true, maybe your predictions are...Maybe everyone's assumptions are... Maybe isnt 100. But if OP is at fault would you still think the same accusations on him? If anyone is at fault - is it our business to label and judge as if they got together for our own personal perfect fit relationship?
A 7 of Swords for who? Him, her or you?
A 7 of Swords for who? Him, her or you?
Posted by Scartooth11
Not empowering her, just advising to think of all possible unknown outcomes. I have never given a valentine's card since elementary school. I find it more insulting to express my feelings than my own ideas. To me it's a cop-out even though some women still just want it for show (which I've been told). I can't speak for all others, but you think I post here to make myself look good? Lol. To a bunch of strangers while I go keyboard warrior? I'm leaning more towards Aquas are us and unless it's a cheesy antic to make someone smile, we probably care less to impress in such manner let alone to those posts we feel to speak out on. But to make a blind eye because you feel to pick on a clue you found?
I haven't read your ranting but it seems like you are really preoccupied with my postings, it's coming across a little creepy, so I think it's best if I blocked you - now go masturbate your madness somewhere else. This block user button is beautiful.
Heh... Dont flatter yourself. Preoccupied hardly, this is a forum. Tantrums... You excel. Shove along now. But thanks for sharing as that added nothing to the topic. (Yes, I know you've checked) get over yourself. As if I could get off to your negativity. I think you're shit got called out and it stinks. But I'll be here next time you wanna blow off judgments to everyone you feel. Remember - you hijacked this callin others out. I think it shows you should heed this lady's predictions.
lmao@ librawoman and scartooth.
Tension much? 😆
Tension much? 😆
Lol... I think it all goes into tone of how you read. Sorry Å“
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