Any aqua females w/virgo men?

I am wondering if anyone on here is an aqua female in a relationship with a virgo male?

I've been seeing a virgo man for a short time. A lot has happened to him in this short time (he lost his job, injured himself & had to have part of his finger cut off, broke up with his girlfriend...you get the pic).

He was head over heels for me in the beginning but as things started to happen & he became more distant I backed off. Now I think he views me as a friend only & he calls occasionally which I can live with.

On Sat I called him to ask him a simple question & he kept snapping at me & saying nasty things. I asked if he was cranky he said "well what difference would it make, don't you always think I'm cranky anyway!". Umm, no I never said that ever. I just kept the convo short.

My question is how do you aqua women do it? He makes me nuts sometimes but I am very attracted to him so I still like to talk with him. I also find he's extremely stubborn which I guess is a normal virgo trait lol.

Are Virgo men normally cranky like that & moody? I know I've read a lot about them on the virgo board but certain days he acts like I am his best friend. Then like on Sat he acts like he hates me.

Any advice anyone?

Thanks a bunch 🙂

Well, get use to it. Such is how my experience has been. I just back off and leave him alone and he comes around. Oddly enough, virgo men aren't the best at communicating what they are feeling with their partners until they figure out exactly what it is they are feeling. To continue to question will just annoy him to no end. But this is just my opinion from my experience. He must be conflicted about something. As far as the friend thing goes, I think virgo men value friendship above any other kind of relationship so be thankful. I would much rather the virgo in my life be my very best friend, than my "boyfriend" you know?

OH yes, he's conflicted I think. Always has been I guess.

I give him his space - then he comes back at me in a few days asking "why haven't you contacted me? Seeing other guys, blah blah" - it gets old but I just make a joke out of it. He seems very insecure at times. He runs hot & cold I guess.

And yes I agree, I like being his best friend, if he views me that way. Not sure what he is thinking, I never am!!

He's so confusing but from what I have learned, that is 'normal' for them.

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I completely understand what you mean. Hot and cold. It depends on the way the wind blows for these guys. I look at it as an opportunity for me to learn to let go and not need to know everything and need to talk about everything. If you weigh the pros and cons, and you think the relationship is worth keeping then enjoy. Be prepared though. This most likely won't change since their worlds revolve around them. I have been seeing this guy for almost three years, and it is always about him. But! If I need him--for example, my cat died, he was a great support. But when things are normal and relatively calm, since he is a constant worrier, it is always about what is going on in his life. Sometimes, I will go for weeks literally without hearing from him. Then out of the blue, he calls as if nothing has happened. I don't mind this because truthfully I need as much space and I kindof like it like this. I have tried dating guys who are always available, and it is rather suffocating for me. What do you think?

Oh my - have I ever learned everything is about HIM. Which I feel is rather rude.

My Dad has been going thru cancer treatment for about a month & I think he's maybe asked me twice how he's doing. When I say I have had a bad day he changes the subject, as if he doesn't want to hear about it.

And yes, mine does the same thing with disappearing.

I need space also & yes I do date men that are available - but right now my opinion of men sort of sucks lol sorry but it does. I sort of don't want to see anyone!! Just makes me mad but I do know how Virgos are so it's my choice if I want to stay with him or not.

I was & am so mad at his treatment of me on Sat I sort of thought of telling him how rude he is but that temper!!

Do virgos have a temper? I tell you mine does. And he's very critical I find. Picks at people, me also. Just mean stuff about my job & things - I just give it right back to him, which I'm sure aggrevates him.

Hi there, I have related to most of the comments made in this post. Especially the one about the virgo being self consumed. This just happens to be really getting to me at the moment. I am wondering whether I should break up with my virgo boyfriend. This trait reminds me of my last virgo boyfriend and he ended up leaving me because at the end of our relationship we were having physical rows. I guess I should think more "independently" and not be waiting on him to ask me how I am but to tell him anyway perhaps! But without going into unecessary detail, he basically is being inconsiderate to the point of rudeness I think at this stage. And if I continue seeing him and not saying anything I will become attached to him even if he is self revolving and will feel hurt and disrespected.

I do want some emotion from him and enquiries into how I am. I don't want to be in the role of talking about him and his life all the time. (I thought that was Leo's trait anyway?). So I'll have to talk to him and see how he responds. I am attracted to him physically but his weak sex drive, nocturnal drinking and self diagnosed insomnia troubles are fairly strong opposing factors. Can anyone tell me in which star sign does the perfect man reside??!!

If you still want to be with your Mr. Virgo, 39, and when he does be in that mood, I find what works for me, is humour......when he snaps or cranks, you retort...hey Mister Snappy or Mr. Cranky!!!!....I want to see and hear a Mister Happy.....even go so far as to hang up saying, when you've your're smily face back on, ring me back!!!

When he whines or moans, mimic him and say...if ever a man suffered!!!!

And don't be expecting too many questions about YOU - as it's mostly all about them!! (one virgo man here on this board excluded for that!!) - he knows who he is:-)

As for telling him how you feel, say to him now for the next two-three mimutes it's my time or if your name is say Samantha - say now it's Samantha time and you're going to listen and listen carefully!!!!!

I know the above may sound silly-billy stuff...but after three years with Mr. V. - I;ve learnt the above works for me.

A x