Why can't aquarius get along with virgo?

Can someone tell me what's up with the animacity between aquarius and virgo? I mean , i've been friends with a aquarius girl since i think kindergarten and she seems very energetic when shes around me and we get along great as friends.But when it comes to a relationship it's another story right?

I have great Virgo friends! As far as a relationship...I don't know...

Sorry...no help..

Star

I am with a Virgo and I am an Aquarius, I also know 3 other couples that are Aquarius and Virgo. I am not sure what there rising and moon signs are. I have a scorpio moon and rising. My man has an aquarius rising and a sagitarius moon. We have our differences but I think it is the love that counts. I think even if I found my perfect sign as a astrological match there would be difficulties aren't there always. I think you should give it a chance. Does she have no interest in you or are you basing the animosity on the signs? Doesn't any great relationship start with friendship?

Thanks for clearing that up lizard.Apparently me and this aquarius girl are just friends.No love interests whatsoever.

This is lizard here again, maybe she will realize what is right in front of her, sometimes those are the most difficult things to truly see. I say this from experience. I almost lost the one in my life for that reason. I realize more and more love is not about constant passion and sparks although at times it is beautiful and keeps love alive. Love to me thrives on unconditionality and knowing you are truly accepted and safe.

I HAVE GONE THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH AN AQUARIUS WOMAN.....JUST ASK HER DIRECTLY AND SHE WILL TELL YOU WHERE YOU STAND....BE PREPARED TO KNOW THAT THE MAJORITY OF HER MALES ARE JUST FRIENDS...SO PICK A CARD AND HOPE FOR THE BEST....

208-251. Thanks for the re-assurance. I love a Pisces female and yet she loves the Aqua. I'm a Virgo. I'm a dumb-ass who cant seem to maintain the love of a certain Pisces. Although I love her deeply, I cant be loved in return. I think I have a lot to learn.

This is lizard, I understand about not being able to accept love, I think it comes from not being able to truly accept and love oneself. I am slowly learning that I do not have to be perfect in order to be loved. I think the best quality to have in a any partner/mate is to have someone who is willing to grow with you and separately. I almost lost my virgo because of my fierce independence and need to be perfect. I am slowly realizing that in him seeing me making the effort it makes him love me all the more. I still have a long way to go don't we all, but if we nuture that spirituality in side and learn to love our positive and negative traits, we can truly experience love. I am striving for that and I am positive that like the people who write on this site, they are striving, thinking, growing and stretching themselves to do the same. To me being aware of oneself and the effect we have on others is the key.

Absolutely. We all have an impact when we relate with others, either possitively or negatively. It's up to every individual to decide for themself how they want to choose their intake of that impact. Whether it be as a source for learning and growing or a source for growing stagnation. Deeeeep....lol

208-251. That was an awesome posting. I agree with your thought's... (It's me virgo again.)The bottom line is learning to love ourselves first without allowing outside influence's that can sway our decisions. If we let that happen, we can only blame ourselves.