Scorpgurl
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Aqua bf has asked me to house sit with him....
A week is good.
Not a test, really. But a situational opportunity. 😄
Living with mine, we don't spend a lot of time actually "together", but just the fact that we're in the same space makes him feel close to me. I guess that's the "space" they like.
When it's new, I guess spending more time actually together would be expected.
But not all Aquas in love need that much space. I guess it would depend on how much air they have overall. Or even fixed vs mutable, as I think mutable needs alone time too.
Not a test, really. But a situational opportunity. 😄
Living with mine, we don't spend a lot of time actually "together", but just the fact that we're in the same space makes him feel close to me. I guess that's the "space" they like.
When it's new, I guess spending more time actually together would be expected.
But not all Aquas in love need that much space. I guess it would depend on how much air they have overall. Or even fixed vs mutable, as I think mutable needs alone time too.
Hes leo moon so he is double fixed.
When he comes to my place and spends the night, we sit on the couch but do our own things. Just this past weekend he was painting these little figures he's got while I sat on the couch behind him reading a novel.
Every now and then he would lean back and give me a kiss...then go back to what he was doing.
Is that considered "space"...?
When he comes to my place and spends the night, we sit on the couch but do our own things. Just this past weekend he was painting these little figures he's got while I sat on the couch behind him reading a novel.
Every now and then he would lean back and give me a kiss...then go back to what he was doing.
Is that considered "space"...?
Yep. The Leo moon is going to be more affectionate so he'll probably like to be in your presence more, but not like laying in your lap every night like another sign would want.
Thank you! This clears the whole "space" thing that I keep hearing re aquas. I wasn't entirely sure about the definition when it came to this sign. I took space as in days and days away from the partner.
I think for maybe moving in together in the future as he did recently mention that his father was talking about building a house for him. My aqua man said he hopes his dad is seriously considering it lolol
Posted by ScorpgurlThat's early on, before they've made a decision about you. Once you're in, the "space" they need is more like hours in quiet or another room, or just doing something alone.
Thank you! This clears the whole "space" thing that I keep hearing re aquas. I wasn't entirely sure about the definition when it came to this sign. I took space as in days and days away from the partner.
Yep. It was like that at the beginning. Now, he's planned his holidays at the same time as me. Dropping the scorpio control and just "going with it" is starting to pay off I think ››
Posted by ScorpgurlWhy does everyone think everything is a test?
This might seem like nothing to anyone else but for me this is huge and what is even more surprising is that my aqua man actually wants to spend a whole damn week with me.
I get the feeling though that this is also an "experiment" of his. House sitting together for a week is basically "playing house" together and is likely going to be an indicator for him to see if he could ACTUALLY live with me.
Is this all a test do you think? I'm excited but nervous at the same time. We are very comfortable with each other and all...but that isnt calming my nerves lolol
I always thought that aquas liked ALOT of space.
Just go, enjoy playing house. I think it would be fun!
Posted by ScorpgurlPerfect!! Separate but together. Independent but in sync. Close but not clingy.
Hes leo moon so he is double fixed.
When he comes to my place and spends the night, we sit on the couch but do our own things. Just this past weekend he was painting these little figures he's got while I sat on the couch behind him reading a novel.
Every now and then he would lean back and give me a kiss...then go back to what he was doing.
Is that considered "space"...?
I like that, too.
-aqua mars.
Posted by ScorpgurlDon't read too much into it. It would set you up to be disappointed if you're wrong. Just go with the flow
I think for maybe moving in together in the future as he did recently mention that his father was talking about building a house for him. My aqua man said he hopes his dad is seriously considering it lolol
Yeah I thought Aquarius needed a lot of space too; but my Aquarius smothered me. I had to constantly ask for space. I am shocked that you think it's a big deal to spend a week with your boyfriend? That's really really odd to me. 🙂 Has he officially said you two were in a monogamous relationship or are you two working towards that?
If your bring that overload of expectation and fantasy of 'the week spent together is a test to see if you two could live together' you will run him away. Men are different, sometimes a spade is nothing more than a spade. For instance; camping - just because me and my dude go camping for a week doesn't mean we are going to move in with each other. LOL.! Men are very different. They don't escape in the fantasy of happy-ever-after fairy tales.
I am a Libra the natural companion of the Aquarius and i have and Aquarius moon, we are coldly logical. I don't think he's testing you at all, I think he has invited you to an opportunity to chill in a nice house for a minute... Nothing more! You will become his woman if you keep all that emotional nonsense in check.
If your bring that overload of expectation and fantasy of 'the week spent together is a test to see if you two could live together' you will run him away. Men are different, sometimes a spade is nothing more than a spade. For instance; camping - just because me and my dude go camping for a week doesn't mean we are going to move in with each other. LOL.! Men are very different. They don't escape in the fantasy of happy-ever-after fairy tales.
I am a Libra the natural companion of the Aquarius and i have and Aquarius moon, we are coldly logical. I don't think he's testing you at all, I think he has invited you to an opportunity to chill in a nice house for a minute... Nothing more! You will become his woman if you keep all that emotional nonsense in check.
That ^^
Posted by Librawoman77
Yeah I thought Aquarius needed a lot of space too; but my Aquarius smothered me. I had to constantly ask for space. I am shocked that you think it's a big deal to spend a week with your boyfriend? That's really really odd to me. 🙂
Having dated an Aqua man for 3 years this isn't to me at all..... 🙂 I've moved on now and I'm dating a Libra man - nothing like my ex I'm happy to say
Posted by ScorpgurlThis is pretty much Aquas in relationships. We call it multi-tasking.
Thank you! This clears the whole "space" thing that I keep hearing re aquas. I wasn't entirely sure about the definition when it came to this sign. I took space as in days and days away from the partner.
Scary stuff and crazy things happening in your life. Maybe too unsettling. But whatever floats your boat
@librawoman77, I am his woman. We have been in a relationship since july last year.
I just wasn't expecting him to ask me to house sit with him cause I thought he would want his space re me
I just wasn't expecting him to ask me to house sit with him cause I thought he would want his space re me
Plus I am libra venus and mars so I know that helps me.
Posted by GenniePosted by ScorpgurlThis is pretty much Aquas in relationships. We call it multi-tasking.
Thank you! This clears the whole "space" thing that I keep hearing re aquas. I wasn't entirely sure about the definition when it came to this sign. I took space as in days and days away from the partner.
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I thought it was meant to be ironic...
I sent it to my Aqua and he liked it though: "Ohh baby, thats so lovely!! You're such a cutie!! X"
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I get the feeling though that this is also an "experiment" of his. House sitting together for a week is basically "playing house" together and is likely going to be an indicator for him to see if he could ACTUALLY live with me.
Is this all a test do you think? I'm excited but nervous at the same time. We are very comfortable with each other and all...but that isnt calming my nerves lolol
I always thought that aquas liked ALOT of space.