Hey Guys! Im new to this website. I made an account because I have an AQUA Boyfriend for the past 4 years (Im a Gemini) and ofcourse of rollercoaster of a relationship makes me come on this forum all the time to relate to others.. I need your guys help asap!! Background: Weve been together for 4 1/2 years.. He absolutley loves me (actually shows and expresses it to me) He even told me whilst drunk that we hoped we'd be getting engaged next summer.. etc..... Problem: 2 nights ago, I kept text messaging him and he couldnt reply.. I got really angry because I thought he was ignoring me, so I said "Alright, NVM.." he knew I was angry......he replied: "OMFG, IM FUCKING SLEEPING" and then I got the point and never bothered him again...and its been two days and he hasnt even messaged me or spoke to me!! I msgd him yesterday saying what are you doing and he replied: Moving Furniture... i even said Goodnight last night, and he didnt reply...........im going crazy. i always cant help but think the worst.. i hate these moments...whats he thinking?? Please help.......THANKS!!
Eh... My Aqua boyfriend does the same thing to me. They need their space sometimes. Right now sounds like one of those times.
You can try messaging him goodnight again, tonight. If he doesn't responds or just respond coldly, leave it alone. And tomorrow you should call him up and talk about it. Lack of communication is bad. If he's anything like my Aqua he'll apologize about how he lashed out at you. Just talk it out.
Another route you could take is to not message him, and wait for him to message you. This could take a while...and I don't suggest it as it will mostly likely just cause you to jump to conclusions and be hard on you.
Just remember that when Aquas feel like they're being pestered or like their space is being invaded, they'll distance themselves. I hope this helps... I have this same problem,too, although it doesn't happen too often anymore- since I started "backing off" and letting him have his time and space, he is actually calling and texting and wanting to hang out with me more often, instead of me always asking and doing those things.
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Im new to this website. I made an account because I have an AQUA Boyfriend for the past 4 years (Im a Gemini) and ofcourse of rollercoaster of a relationship makes me come on this forum all the time to relate to others.. I need your guys help asap!!
Background: Weve been together for 4 1/2 years.. He absolutley loves me (actually shows and expresses it to me) He even told me whilst drunk that we hoped we'd be getting engaged next summer.. etc.....
Problem: 2 nights ago, I kept text messaging him and he couldnt reply.. I got really angry because I thought he was ignoring me, so I said "Alright, NVM.." he knew I was angry......he replied: "OMFG, IM FUCKING SLEEPING" and then I got the point and never bothered him again...and its been two days and he hasnt even messaged me or spoke to me!! I msgd him yesterday saying what are you doing and he replied: Moving Furniture... i even said Goodnight last night, and he didnt reply...........im going crazy. i always cant help but think the worst.. i hate these moments...whats he thinking??
Please help.......THANKS!!