aqua busted cheating

I just found out the aquarius guy i've been dealing with off and on the last 3 years is still with his kids mom and has been all this time after i've asked him numerous times. And to make it worse he has two kids but has only told me about one. He doesn't know that I know but I have her information. I most definetly plan on letting her know what a cheater he is. Once he finds out I told, does anyone know what his reaction will probably be?

I just found out the aquarius guy i've been dealing with off and on the last 3 years is still with his kids mom and has been all this time after i've asked him numerous times. And to make it worse he has two kids but has only told me about one. He doesn't know that I know but I have her information. I most definetly plan on letting her know what a cheater he is. Once he finds out I told, does anyone know what his reaction will probably be?

Do you want him for yourself or something??

So if I never speak to him that will hurt him worse? He hurt me a lot with this. I can barely focus at work today. I've been searching for answers from him for so long. He still doesn't know that I know.

I'll tell you what...you can walk away and pretend like nothing happened and "SUPPOSEDLY" his poor heart will just be all tore up about it...BULLSH*T!!! What his stupid ass deserves is to be busted out by BOTH YOU AND HIS BABIES MAMA!!! That cheating ass needs to be put to the curb and have NO ONE but his own hand to console him. And YES I lived this nightmare...except I was the one with the kids who was married to his dumbass, and NO ONE bothered to tell me that he was out screwing someone else until WAY after the fact and I'd already split by then. The mother of his children deserves better just like you do, and so she does deserve to know what he's up to. And if you both don't dump his stupid ass immediately then everyone really does get what they deserve. I hope you do what you "KNOW" is right. If I was you the only ones besides myself that I would give a shit about are those kids...I feel bad for them having to have such a loser for a dad...THEY DEFINITELY deserve better! Make good choices scorpioswag and don't EVER forget this life lesson-it's PRICELESS!!! PEACE & LOVE

Tell his wife. She deserves to know. If she already knows than good for her. But I wouldnt want to be left in the dark and have the guy Im with screwing around behind my back. Especially if u walk away now...he might just find someone else to cheat with on his wife. Who knows maybe he has ANOTHER mistress at this moment as well. Not just u. Just bust his a**.

And not sure what his reaction will be. Probably just feel bad for himself for getting caught. Not like he really cares if his wife or u are getting hurt cause he was cheating for THREE years. He knew exactly what he was doing. He's probably just gonna try and convince his wife ur lying or something. Or just come up with some stupid excuse.

Are you seriously asking this question?

How do you think he'll react? By skipping into the sunset?

Come on people! Let's use our heads for once.

Posted by Aquaguy7
Are you seriously asking this question?

How do you think he'll react? By skipping into the sunset?

Come on people! Let's use our heads for once.

I sometimes feel like when I throw my 2 cents worth in that I'll be blamed for something somehow. Like in a "well EVERYONE told me to do/say it" sort of way - do you know what I mean Aquaguy7? Either that or this whole Aquarius forum is just a ploy someone is using to entice the Aquas out of hiding so that they can see just how intelligent all of us REALLY are. Are they planning to overthrow our Aqua hierarchy and replace it with imposters who will try to lead us all astray and into an alternate dimension where we are NOT allowed to be ourselves as humanitarianism is outlawed there, and where they will also deny us our freedom because "singleones" are strictly forbidden as NO ONE is allowed to remain single beyond the age of...18? But,if one refuses to follow the "rules of engagement(marriage)" they are forced into a life of servitude caring for the moat, it's lava river, and the "mile high" block walls that are the ONLY remaining sign that AQUARIANS ever existed there. I'm not quite sure what the walls are keeping out in that world, but it's gotta be bad when you take into consideration what we keep out with our walls here! Okay, that's enough for me...I'm done using my head for the day. You can take over now Aquaguy7, or any other Aqua that is bored...

oooooooooooooooo wats up lunarbaby711 i missed u so much i just wanna say one more time thanks for ur advice it really
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Hey LeGendary VirRGo - no problem. Sometimes all we need is to have someone open that door in front of us to show us that there IS hope for all our dreams to come true! I was wondering how you were doing, and if things had gotten better...I'm guessing that would be a huge azz YES huh?!!! Good for you! Drop me a line every so often to let me know what's up and how you're doing k? So, what you think about my "alternate dimension" theory? Yeah, I was bored tonight so I just let my brain run for a bit and you see what happens when I do that...scary huh?!hahaha! Guess I should go do something constructive...*yawns*...OR not!LOL SMILE LeGendary, you never "KNOW" when that soulmate is watching you! : )

Thanks for the advice. I think I will tell her. I have been in a situation like that myself where my bf was cheating on with me. I wish someone would have told me. I would ask him calm and collected and he would lie to my face. Eventually I sent him packing but I still wish someone would have told me so that the drama didn't last so long. And since I am a scorpio it is in my nature to seek revenge. I'm hurting so I want him to hurt too. I'm going to sit on this for a few days so I don't act irrationally but I think I am going to tell her.

Damnit - this is has NOTHING to do with the fact he's an aquarian. Nothing.

Nope, I didn't send her the message so that I could have him to myself. My plans were to NEVER speak to him again. BUT she wrote back saying they were just friend. Very good friend, but nothing intimate is going on between them. He doesnt know what I did but he will at some point I guess. Oh well, I jumped the gun but since all this happend I had a chance to see things for what they really are. I'm done with him and still have not contacted him and never plan to. It's hard but its something I have to do. I have to move on.