Aqua contradictory feelings regarding marriage...

Ok so most of you know the history with me and my aqua. We've been together a year. I recently went through a hard time (hard to say good-bye to my baby ? a 13 year old poodle and my best friend). He has been there for me more than anyone ever has. I made the decision last week Friday to let him go the humane way and Friday through to Sunday he kept me busy and comforted me when I cried, cried with me on many occasions. Monday morning I did what I had to do and when I was finished he came home and spent the afternoon with me, allowed me to cry and again at times cried with me. Tuesday he took a day off and spent the day with me ? again out and about trying to keep my mind off things. Wednesday night however he had a somewhat strange convo. I've been married and divorced and am not particularly keen on the whole marriage thing ? I've always been open with him about this and he's agreed that he's not keen on marriage either. I probably would marry again but no time soon. Now for the last while he's been lecturing me on buying a property instead of renting?I thought he just had my best interests at heart. So much so that he even sat with my budget tweaking figures to see what I could afford. So Tuesday eve out of the blue he says something along the lines of, ?If I should marry you I'd want you to have a second property in your own name, even if it's a holiday apartment we go stay in, at least then you have your own investment as well?. I turned around and said but I told you I don't want to get married again (I don't know why I said this because I suppose I will but not now). He said yes no him as well?then he got up walked away, abruptly stopped, turned around and said, with the most hurtful look on his face, ?well where does that leave me then— Where are we going then—? I said but you agreed, he said ?yes but I do want to get married sometime?don't you want kids— I said yes but I don't have to be married to have them. He said you have to be in a marriage to have kids. We left it at that.
Why is he suddenly talking like this after being Mr. Bachelor all this time ? 37 never been married and acts proud of it. Is he testing me?? Has he had a change of heart? I don't think he has immediate plans of asking me to marry me (in fact that's so way out it's scary!!) but perhaps he's feeling for the future??
Also I go to therapy ? have been since my divorce about a year and half ago and he's continuously nagging me to stop saying that it's been th

Ok so most of you know the history with me and my aqua. We've been together a year. I recently went through a hard time (hard to say good-bye to my baby ? a 13 year old poodle and my best friend). He has been there for me more than anyone ever has. I made the decision last week Friday to let him go the humane way and Friday through to Sunday he kept me busy and comforted me when I cried, cried with me on many occasions. Monday morning I did what I had to do and when I was finished he came home and spent the afternoon with me, allowed me to cry and again at times cried with me. Tuesday he took a day off and spent the day with me ? again out and about trying to keep my mind off things. Wednesday night however he had a somewhat strange convo. I've been married and divorced and am not particularly keen on the whole marriage thing ? I've always been open with him about this and he's agreed that he's not keen on marriage either. I probably would marry again but no time soon. Now for the last while he's been lecturing me on buying a property instead of renting?I thought he just had my best interests at heart. So much so that he even sat with my budget tweaking figures to see what I could afford. So Tuesday eve out of the blue he says something along the lines of, ?If I should marry you I'd want you to have a second property in your own name, even if it's a holiday apartment we go stay in, at least then you have your own investment as well?. I turned around and said but I told you I don't want to get married again (I don't know why I said this because I suppose I will but not now). He said yes no him as well?then he got up walked away, abruptly stopped, turned around and said, with the most hurtful look on his face, ?well where does that leave me then— Where are we going then—? I said but you agreed, he said ?yes but I do want to get married sometime?don't you want kids— I said yes but I don't have to be married to have them. He said you have to be in a marriage to have kids. We left it at that.
Why is he suddenly talking like this after being Mr. Bachelor all this time ? 37 never been married and acts proud of it. Is he testing me?? Has he had a change of heart? I don't think he has immediate plans of asking me to marry me (in fact that's so way out it's scary!!) but perhaps he's feeling for the future??
Also I go to therapy ? have been since my divorce about a year and half ago and he's continuously nagging me to stop saying that it's been th

Ok so most of you know the history with me and my aqua. We've been together a year. I recently went through a hard time (hard to say good-bye to my baby ? a 13 year old poodle and my best friend). He has been there for me more than anyone ever has. I made the decision last week Friday to let him go the humane way and Friday through to Sunday he kept me busy and comforted me when I cried, cried with me on many occasions. Monday morning I did what I had to do and when I was finished he came home and spent the afternoon with me, allowed me to cry and again at times cried with me. Tuesday he took a day off and spent the day with me ? again out and about trying to keep my mind off things. Wednesday night however he had a somewhat strange convo. I've been married and divorced and am not particularly keen on the whole marriage thing ? I've always been open with him about this and he's agreed that he's not keen on marriage either. I probably would marry again but no time soon. Now for the last while he's been lecturing me on buying a property instead of renting?I thought he just had my best interests at heart. So much so that he even sat with my budget tweaking figures to see what I could afford. So Tuesday eve out of the blue he says something along the lines of, ?If I should marry you I'd want you to have a second property in your own name, even if it's a holiday apartment we go stay in, at least then you have your own investment as well?. I turned around and said but I told you I don't want to get married again (I don't know why I said this because I suppose I will but not now). He said yes no him as well?then he got up walked away, abruptly stopped, turned around and said, with the most hurtful look on his face, ?well where does that leave me then— Where are we going then—? I said but you agreed, he said ?yes but I do want to get married sometime?don't you want kids— I said yes but I don't have to be married to have them. He said you have to be in a marriage to have kids. We left it at that.
Why is he suddenly talking like this after being Mr. Bachelor all this time ? 37 never been married and acts proud of it. Is he testing me?? Has he had a change of heart? I don't think he has immediate plans of asking me to marry me (in fact that's so way out it's scary!!) but perhaps he's feeling for the future??
Also I go to therapy ? have been since my divorce about a year and half ago and he's continuously nagging me to stop saying that it's been th

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