Aqua disappearing acts??

the key is to be able to sense when he needs space-it hurts your sensitivities less if you can do this

Damn I hate to say this but I know what he's going through. Not like I'm implying something is wrong with you, I'm sure he's a very stupid man for acting the way he is, but I am also an Aquarius, and what he's doing is something I've done before. I wish it was just a man thing, but I am the exact same way and I am a girl. I don't know why, but sometimes I'll just get really annoyed with someone. I dont ever really know exactly what it is but one day I could love them, and the next I cant stand to be around them. I am also known for disappearing acts. Whenever I've disappeared on someone, even the smallest attempt to talk to me bothers me, and the more you try to discuss things, the more I will run away. Also the more sentimental you get, the more annoyed I become. However, if I am ignoring someone, and they dont seem to care, that will bother me the most. The best advice I could give you is to keep contact very minimal, and do not talk about him vanishing (at least not just yet). If you say anything, I would suggest something completely non-relationship related, and make sure you leave him waiting for you to respond as long as you can, that is a sure fire way to get him to start talking, and a lot of the time it will have him asking YOU whats wrong, in which case your best bet would be to cut straight to the chase, and in the least dramatic way possible tell him that he's been too distant. Think of him like you would a cat. You wait for him to come to you, and when he does, he should be all over you. Just dont push it, and please don't negotiate your own feelings because he is having mood swings. This is just my advice to someone dating an Aquarius, but as a friend, I would tell you to move on. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, even if it is in the Aquarius nature.

I have a venus in aquarius and I act like this all the time, I also have a cancer rising which keeps me at home base where I can go in my shell and hide away from everything and than I'm a sag so I can also be running around doing things. I have also dated an aquarius man and he did the same thing. But I like didn't notice it so much cause I do it too probably. I doubt it has anything to do with you. He may be disconnecting because your away at college and expects you to be moving on to bigger and better things.


Cappywench, I like what you said about the cat. That's exactly it.

exactly s89, I only heard of aquas disappearing when I came on to dxp then I realised it's because I disappear a lot and come back after a while like nothing happened - lalalala

Hahaha yep, don't call em air signs for nothin🙂

Yeah, and don't be mad at him sometimes people get soically warn out by certain people. I do alot. I need space sometimes from those people. It's not that they are bad but it might take a lot of energy to deal with them and I might not have it at the moment. But I'll always come back when I have it🙂

^^^psycho denying psycho