aqua girls how long will you wait ?

to call a guy if you took his number?

so i went to my local bank last thursday and there was this cute girl working there....my luck and i stepped up to her window.....it turned out we are the same nationality so we talked for few minutes, i could sense that she was flirting with me very subtle but sitll....i would ask her how long she been working there and she says over a year so i said i never seen her before but that might be because i do not come inside most of the time...so she said that now i will have to and smiles at me but right of way she added that she is joking...( yeah right) that was a flirt wasnt not?
so we talked for little while and me being an hot headed aries do it now nature i asked her if she would like to go for a drink sometime....
she was extremly shocked by that bursting out short loud nervous laugh while stepping away form the window and wanting to hide under the desk ....but right of way she controlled her self and returned to the window as this is a bank after all...and said to give her my number and she will call me....so i did....
its Tuesday and still no call but i had to go to the banks and again she served me....but this time we didnt talk....just a quick hello , i need this and this, she took my money did what she had to and that was it....we said bye see you later and i was out of there....
i know she recognized me cause i saw her look at me when i walked in but looked away right of way and started to do something else in a hurry..not sure if she wanted to finish what she was doing quick so she can serve me at the window, or maybe she stared to do it so she wouldnt have to?
dont know....
but im wondering will she call or am i just wisting my time?
it seemed like she was cool and i could talk to her just like i could with the other aqua that i had short fling with few months ago but than she just closed off
this one is little older then the previous aqua hopefully more mature ..and i know that she is single cause when i asked her for drinks i also asked that is if she is not commited somewhere else and she said she is not,
so what you aquas think?
wait or forget it?
what sux she works at the bank across the street from home and i always go there.....
what to do what to do?

"but im wondering will she call or am i just wisting my time?"

I personally do not have any idea what she will do.


"what to do what to do?"

the only thing you can do - plan to be surprised 😉

How do you know she's an aqua?

I'm personally not calling any man, he has to call me to show me he's more than interested, so be prepared not to be called.

she noticed my birthday was coming up on my id so we talked little about age and i played the guessing game and she said she just turned 28 not to long ago so i asked how long till next bday and that when she said not till feb 1st

she didnt give me her number, she only took mine as she said she is not allowed to give her number at work ( bank) or that could be bull? so how can i call her if i dont have her number?
and i dont want to be a creep and go to a bank everyday ..

You should've took her number. I never call men who give me their numbers (it could just be a woman thing). Im not the persuer type in the sense of pursuing a complete stranger. I subtlely pursue guys who I have interest in who I will see on a regular basis...

KEYWOR😱 subtlely

She may have just flirted for the sake of flirting...we're pretty big flirts.
So if you really would like to go out...your gonna have to pursue a little.

thanks you guy, i mifght gi back there in little while but it just happens that i met coOL as hell sagitt girl and i KNOW I AM IN with that....
it was instant atraction as its always is between me and saggs lol
so i wont blow the aqua off butim, not desperate......im a catch so she better step up lol

oh, thats why aries guy and aqua girls rarely hook up...we arent ego strokers.

HA! My leo bff gives out her email address to guys who try to talk to her randomly. Its sooo funny, when they ask for her number and she says, "no, but you can email me." Its a step up, she used to give her number to every and any Tom, Dick, and Harry...which resulted in a few stalkers and many changes of her cell number.

wow looks like i was little tipsy when writing my last message, lol

I might pursue this aqua a little but not sure how to do it , i dont want to be going to the bank all the time and make her uncomfortable, so i might wait a week or 2 and go back there, than i will ask her for the number since she is so afraid to call me.
will see...
and yeah im kind of like your bff leo, i will give my number to any girl out there, i dont care whats the worst it could happen? one of them will call?

lol, thats easy for a guy to do...a little scary in reverse though.

True. Women in general always take longer than guys when the guy actually gives US their number, but it's even worse for Aquas in this situation. We might be at home thinking about this person all freakin day long, might even start to dial their number, but we just won't. Sometimes we won't because of pride. Sometimes we won't because we don't want to come off as calling "too soon" and our definition of calling too soon might be different than a man's defition of too soon. When I used to take numbers, I would PURPOSELY wait for atleast a week or two before calling, one because Aquas are so focused on not looking desperate or clingy & me not calling for a week (doesn't mean that I didn't ever think about him) was a way of letting him know that yes, I am calling you (when I didn't have to) BUT at the same time, It took me so long because I actually do have a life. Plus, Aquas hate to chase or go after someone and this theory applies to this situation as well.

I think you should watch her body language the next time you see her. Aquas will not change their behavior around someone they are not the least bit interested in. When we have crushes (even the tiny ones) you can always tell because SOMETHING we do will give it away. She may not be all smiles & all hugs & kisses when you walk in the bank, but learn to look for other ways that will tell you rather or not she's actually interested in you or not. And plus, remember, she doesn't even know you one bit. Aquas rarely get all that excited about someone whom we haven't even established an intellectual connection with yet. Sure, love looks just like everybody else BUT there's a difference in how to gain our attention than most of the other signs. And hell, who knows, her boss could've been near by (it's never professional to flirt with a customer), I mean, she could've been having a bad day, it could've been anything

If I know the guy really likes me and I really dig him, I will call him. But if I'm not sure if he is just a flirt, I won't call. I always get their number and never give them mine. I like the email idea bijou said, too. If you really like her, class-act, you're going to have to follow-up somehow. Since you only see her at her work, next time you're at her window, pass her a funny note asking her something like:

"hey, how are you?,
"hey, how's your day going?,
"hey, how about calling me?"

She'll laugh and probably call. I would.

hey thats a great idea lol
thanks I will use that for sure
i will ask her for pen a paper too...she probably will wonder what am i writing too
thats awesome thx

Or you could write a note saying "Do you like me? Check yes or no"

😛 @ DK

🙂

nice
but that would have to wait a little, i mean she doesnt even know me.... dont want to scare the girl

that is a good point Bijou, i didnt think of it lkie that but you right , these days im sure banks are on high alert and cameras are watching every move
will see what happens with her, i dont get to go into that bank that often and it starting to look more like me and this aries gilr that im kind off hooking up with is going pretty well and it could be something cooking there

i will talk to this aqua next time im in there but if she wants to just be so withdrawn and not take any actions than i dont have the time for it, i seriously do not
i spend a lot of my time on the road for work, 1,2 sometimes even 3 weeks and stay home for few days and out again, so i dont have the time to play stupid games