JB16
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Aqua hates me :/
Hmm...was something going on with him before y'all broke up? I'm asking because people don't break up and stay that way unless there's an event. Now, you can lose interest but he reached out to you and he made contact only a week or so later, not enough time to lose interest IMO. You don't go from being gaga over someone and then nothing especially when nothing bad really happened between you two.
Him deleting you was self preservation. In a weird way he's hurt. Yes he ignored you but seeing you out and about and having a constant reminder of you pop up on his snapchat timeline still hurts. Could be wrong but because he does still care for you a lot he needs to distance himself. I feel like if had lost interest why not have just left you on his social media? Wouldn't that mean he's indifferent? Deleting someone not too long after a break up does not equate to indifference. I don't either of you but I bet you there's something else going on with him.
Him deleting you was self preservation. In a weird way he's hurt. Yes he ignored you but seeing you out and about and having a constant reminder of you pop up on his snapchat timeline still hurts. Could be wrong but because he does still care for you a lot he needs to distance himself. I feel like if had lost interest why not have just left you on his social media? Wouldn't that mean he's indifferent? Deleting someone not too long after a break up does not equate to indifference. I don't either of you but I bet you there's something else going on with him.
To be honest it looks like he put himself out there by contacting you first and since you waited a week to reply he got pissed off so deleted you.
He's trying to get over you. That's why I delete exes. Out of sight out of mind
You sure you were in a rl and not playin hide and seek with your toddler friends at kindergarten?
OP, what is your sign?
I can relate to the no dramatic break-up..... He reached out, try to salvage it, and you waited 1 week.... bad.... again, you are posting pics how you are enjoying life....
do you really want him? I dont think so...
Reaching out to him: nothing casual will do.... if you reach out, it must be something personal and very kind.... but, he may take time to respond now, if he decided to delete you, he is really hurt.... you must be consistent...
but still, I am not convinced you really want him...... you miss his attention or what? I pity him, you sound cold a bit, sorry
I can relate to the no dramatic break-up..... He reached out, try to salvage it, and you waited 1 week.... bad.... again, you are posting pics how you are enjoying life....
do you really want him? I dont think so...
Reaching out to him: nothing casual will do.... if you reach out, it must be something personal and very kind.... but, he may take time to respond now, if he decided to delete you, he is really hurt.... you must be consistent...
but still, I am not convinced you really want him...... you miss his attention or what? I pity him, you sound cold a bit, sorry
Posted by Pandora101I'm a Leo. Well when he reached out I responded a few hours later. I just didn't reach out to him/initiate until 10 days later which my friends said still wasn't the smartest move as it came off like he was "what ever", but I didn't ignore him.
OP, what is your sign?
I can relate to the no dramatic break-up..... He reached out, try to salvage it, and you waited 1 week.... bad.... again, you are posting pics how you are enjoying life....
do you really want him? I dont think so...
Reaching out to him: nothing casual will do.... if you reach out, it must be something personal and very kind.... but, he may take time to respond now, if he decided to delete you, he is really hurt.... you must be consistent...
but still, I am not convinced you really want him...... you miss his attention or what? I pity him, you sound cold a bit, sorry
As far as me posting pics I didn't think he wanted anything to do with my anymore so I tried to just live my life. I do really want him. I miss him a lot but between him ignoring me and deleting me it just doesn't matter :/
I don’t know I guess this is just my first time going through this (an ex shutting me out completely when nothing happened). We didn’t even break up because of a lack of feelings or because it just wasn’t working per se. I put my foot in my mouth and said something stupid and backed off for a while. Then in turn he backed off and it just became this stupid stand off to not say anything and that’s pretty much how we got here. So because nothing really happened I’m just having a difficult time wrapping my mind around him trying to get rid of me completely like that. Just really sucks...
from experience, if an aqua reaches out and u dont respond in a given certain time, they automatically think its over. My aqua reached out i responded, it went downhill after a while i faded then she reached out and i responded after a month later (she was long gone with no tracks left behind). My point is aquas have a selfish side to them, when you need to respond to them they want space, when u want space and ready to talk they go cold
Posted by leodilemma19900730Funny that you asked. I ran into his roommate a few months ago and he said he stopped working at this place he was at for 5 years and he was just there only a few weeks before. He said he wasn't going out and had been staying in alluded to him being a funk kind of. I asked if he was in a weird space and he just gave me a look. That's when he proceeded to tell me he doesn't care about a lot of people but when he cares he cares a lot lol.
Hmm...was something going on with him before y'all broke up? I'm asking because people don't break up and stay that way unless there's an event. Now, you can lose interest but he reached out to you and he made contact only a week or so later, not enough time to lose interest IMO. You don't go from being gaga over someone and then nothing especially when nothing bad really happened between you two.
Him deleting you was self preservation. In a weird way he's hurt. Yes he ignored you but seeing you out and about and having a constant reminder of you pop up on his snapchat timeline still hurts. Could be wrong but because he does still care for you a lot he needs to distance himself. I feel like if had lost interest why not have just left you on his social media? Wouldn't that mean he's indifferent? Deleting someone not too long after a break up does not equate to indifference. I don't either of you but I bet you there's something else going on with him.
Posted by draculaThanks. I keep explaining this incorrectly lol. I responded to him that evening. Before this he had wanted to see me but I accidentally blew him off (I was camping for a 1.5 weeks and didn't have my cell). So 2 weeks after him asking I reached out to him asking to see him but he ignored me (I can see why since he thought I blew him off). A few days later he looked at my snap and that's when he contacted me. I responded that evening but didn't initiate contact for 10 days and that's when he started to ignore me completely. That's when my friends said since it looked like I blew him off him and then taking 10 days to contact it looked like I didn't care all that much.
from experience, if an aqua reaches out and u dont respond in a given certain time, they automatically think its over. My aqua reached out i responded, it went downhill after a while i faded then she reached out and i responded after a month later (she was long gone with no tracks left behind). My point is aquas have a selfish side to them, when you need to respond to them they want space, when u want space and ready to talk they go cold
My thing is f he doesn't care anymore and there was no bad blood then why even delete me? Just seems so cold.
Posted by pinkbird03Thanks. Just hurts to know he's shutting the door and has moved on ?
He's trying to get over you. That's why I delete exes. Out of sight out of mind
Posted by JB16I know. I'm very sorry. I hope it gets easier soonPosted by pinkbird03Thanks. Just hurts to know he's shutting the door and has moved on ?
He's trying to get over you. That's why I delete exes. Out of sight out of mind
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