Aquapath strikes back...

Well its been a few productive weeks. Aquapath returned my things and i had a final declaration of love and asking me to run away with him blah blah. I told him no and was a little upset by it but hey, i am no stranger to this.

However, my "friend" decided to tell me all about his FB antics. He has pics up of the girl that he was flirting with at work, him and her and a few other out getting drunk and dancing about. He has resumed his "playboy" status and with girls all over his wall. but what hurts the most is he seems to be mocking me with the girl he was flirting with. They are saying how i got it wrong and she is actually laughing at me. she doesnt know that she was one of a few but it really hurts. To think he has been telling everyone that i checked his email etc and just dragging me thru the mud etc.

I feel like i could cry. I had been out on a date and he was upset about it and i take it this is his comeback to me. I have never flaunted anything in his face like this and i was trying to move on. I dont even know what to say,i imagine he as hoping this would get back to me and it has. And now i am really upset.

I know i went out on a date but i would never openly laugh at him like that.

He is crazy okay and he is pathological, this other woman is being USED to hurt you and that is not love, tell all of your friends and family to support you and don't bring you any information about this man, don't allow him to suck you back in, he can and he will, he's just baiting you b/c he know someone close to you will come back and bring you news about his behavior and the behavior of those crazy ass women he's dealing with.

Let him be a player b/c he was ALREADY being that anyway while he was with you so no big deal. He's in self defense mode, socipaths and narcissist do that a lot they will drag you into the mud up under the mud and yes you'll want to defend yourself but unless he's directly attempting to destroy your life don't worry about, let him talk, none of these women know you personally and of course if you have mutual friends well he's trying to beat you to the punch b/c men like him are very paranoid and so they'll project blame onto the other person to save his own ego, he doesn't want anyone to know that he was the cause of the break up so he'll do any and everything to slander your name, he'll tell everyone your crazy to your mental to your a thief to your a hoe online and off, he'll say it all and if he send anything directly to you then I want you keep it and save it for when you place a restraining order on his ass that's if you have to, don't throw anything away, it's clear this man has some deep problems so be glad you got out and don't even think about going back.

Continue living your life and again make sure all of your friends ncluding mutual friends know to not talk about him anymore or you'll have to distance yourself while you heal. Don't get sucked into the drama, it's not healthy and he needs help, he needed it yesterday.

Your right, its just you think someone could not humiliate you or hurt you anymore...but then they do! Ive been reading up on narcissists and he fits the bill really. The only thing is he wasnt "over" sweet when i met him or over the top with love declarations. He was just kinda normal with it, if not backwards with it. There is some really good info i have been reading and he fits the "narc rage" down to a T.

Its pretty cringy really, hes 33 and all of the pics he has posted as with chicks who are about 21. I really hope he goes out with that girl as now she has openly laughed at me, i hope she gets a dose of his treatment.

The thing that keeps me going is that it wasnt me, he would treat any girl he is with like this. AS my friend sais, the next one may get it even worse as i have added to his internal pain and suffering!

"AS my friend sais, the next one may get it even worse as i have added to his internal pain and suffering!"

And your friend is telling the truth, he'll be a lot worse with the next woman, the reality is you are a great person, only a great woman would tolerate his BS, a good heart'd woman will give 2nd/3rd and more chances so no matter how he tries to paint you to others he's just a liar, the reality is he took you for granted and he's not good enough for you and he know it and because he know it he's attempting to PROJECT his own f*cked up personality onto you through others and the sheeple will follow him b/c they can be very convincing, had it not been for his pathological need to be a player and get attention from random women, had it not been for his behavior you'd most likely would still be with him but from the mere fact that this man cannot will not change pathological behavior well you have no choice but to move on or accept his playboy douchebaggery behavior and lose your mind (lose yourself).

Feel on top of the world today! He has sent a few text's about how our love is "deep and emotional and one day i may understand how true deep love works". Yep to be honest, i think i already do. And its not stabbing your partner in the back whilst smutting with married women combined with years of other general douchbaggery.

What a loser, i feel good today. My life is back on track and i do believe that "hold" he had over me for so many years has been removed. I want to run around the street naked lol!