Break Up

So how does an aqua act when they see their ex after someone breaks up with them? Are they friendly towards their ex as if nothing ever happened or do they ignore you when they see you.

I'm an aqua whose feelings were hurt when we broke up and although I do not wish any harm to the individual I'm afraid my actions are going to say other wise. Such as a half as smiles with a real formal greeting. These actions are contrary to what I really feel in my heart but I dont think I know how to act.

I dont understand these mismatch feelings vs thinking....some aqua insight please.

I'm not an Aqua but can I say that what you seek outside or from others, no matter how true to them, it will never be close to what you're inside/have ? I think if you can "beat" your tendency to seal your feelings under many layers and reveal it to yourself. You will gain an insight about yourself .In the future, you won't suffer yourself anymore. "It's your own battle which you have to win".

most other aquas i know too act very nonchalant w/ their exes like nothing happened too. some can b chatty but me, i initially try to dodge all of my exes just to avoid awkwardness. but if they catch me i'll b nice & cordial but will keep convo very short so i can leave lol

I was in a relationship with someone who has ALL their planets in aqua BUT Venus and Mars in aries (which I do think factored in). They struggled with knowing it was over and fell pretty hard. We still text sometimes, because honestly I felt bad how it ended.

I agree with blueribbons (above) who said things will mellow out-that is totally true.

Posted by aquarius21
most other aquas i know too act very nonchalant w/ their exes like nothing happened too. some can b chatty but me, i initially try to dodge all of my exes just to avoid awkwardness. but if they catch me i'll b nice & cordial but will keep convo very short so i can leave lol

LOL at the dodge thats me too.

you're trying not to be vulnerable.

because your feelings show you have feelings still / you are mourning the relationship. and you don't want to be taken advantage of or looked upon as weak. am i right?

I cant be taken advantage of if he ended things, but I do still have feelings. Im tired of not being vulnerable I think thats what got me where I am now.... 😢

Thanks for all of your input. I know I have a lot of work within. Its been 3 weeks now and I'm tired of dwelling on him so Im moving on to the next one. He may not help but it'll be a good distractions. 🙂