Aquarius do you have relationships at are just sex

My Taurus is that kind of relationship, we get together for just that purpose and I'm okay with it. I have other male friends sexual, may have been at one time but not now, we remained good friends and do fun things together. However, my best girl friend recently married is concerned that I'm being used and not valued by the Taurus because we don't go out and socialize. What do you other Aquarians think?

Hi Waterbearer!!!

My Chiron (whatever the heck that is) is in Aquarius will that work? I know that you were asking for an Aqua point of view but I'd like to throw mine out there if you don't mind.

I'm thinking that what really matters above all is are YOU happy? It really does not matter what we think because this is your life that you are creating and you Missy need to be happy with any choice that you make. We can offer advice but really....it is your decision. This is the cool thing about life, we are here to learn and if we don't experience how are we to learn what works for us and what doesn't? I say if it is not working, change it and if you are happy and all seems well then.....enjoy!

It is YOU that matters, YOU are important

Side note....I ate out the other night at a new restaurant - thought I would give it a go and see if I liked it. It was okay but the next day I did not feel too good...ugh. I won't be going back there. I have been in relationships just like that, tried it, it didn't feel too good so I did not go back - on the flip side...I have been in relationships that are pure joy and I am still in those 🙂

P.S. your best friend cares a lot about you 🙂

Freebird, thankx for your response, I totally agree!

Hi there,

To answer your question of course we do.

We are not the ones for 'relationships' that tends to get messy. As time goes on though, and we age, it feels like time to settle down.

You do what feels right for you.. it's all up to you, if you feel used though, get out of it. if you don't feel used.. stay.. it's that simple

I am surprized a bit though that you are only haveing sex with a taurus male, they are ones for relationships, and rarely will go out with you if it wasn't perminate.

Aquarius Female

Yeah they do but those aren't really considered relatationships to either partner in most cases.

And I think you need to tell the friend it's not that type of relationship.

Waterbearer,

After being married to my Taurus for 15 years, I know exactly what he thinks about sex. My husband equates sex and love. He feels that if he loves me and I love him we should have sex every day. And now, it's not a romantic kind of sex, it's S-E-X whenever he wants it and if I would let him, however he wants it. It's driving me absolutely crazy! No, it's not very personal most of the time. Usually, when it's initiate by one of us, we look at each other and say do you want to go have sex? That's getting old for me. And yes, I have told him that I need some romance and all he says is that he's not a romantic kind of guy. It's one of our most famous and continuous arguments. ***sigh*** but I'm still there!

I do agree with what everyone else is saying. If that's what you want, go for it, baby! Men have been doing it for hundreds of years, why can't we—

Have fun!

mindy

msmindy, thankx, your husband sounds somewhat like this Taurus. One good things is that the Taurus and I don't live together and he is quite busy. From my life experiences I have learned to "just say no" some times, although I'd like to say yes to keep me centered. At this time in my life, I'm not looking for a husband, been there none that, twice. Don't want to have a live-in or move-to relationship. So far, this affair is just right for me and I think for him, as well. So I'm trying not to look into the crystal ball (smile) but just be - here and now.

My girl friend who is concerned for me is a Taurus who just married an Aquarian, her second marry, his first. They are both much younger that I am, so this should be interesting. Although she and I are very close, being a Taurus and secretive, I'm not sure I'll get much information about what's going on, which is different than me, Aquarian's are not secretive - my life's an open book.

I agree with FreeB on this one. If you're happy and you don't feel like you're being used, then it really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

It's possible that your friend might be a little jealous of you. You know, you're having the life, meanwhile . . . she's fixing to get hitched. Penis envy!

Sorry, I get nasty sometimes, just overlook me!

Oh, already married, I missed that - same still applies though.

As Aquarian I never think that someone could possibly be jealous of me. Especially when they seem to have it altogether.

Could be just she's on a marriage high or traditional type thing going on could be the motivation behind her saying those things,in a more postitive light.But yeah if it was me I'd still tell her that your not interested in that to avoid her nagging or you getting fed up and fighting with her somewhere down the line.Your an aqua you know how to be honest and put it nicely.