Aquarius hot/cold.... Did I do something wrong?

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??2 Fridays ago I met up with this Aquarius guy I had a huge crush on in hs, haven't seen him in 5 years. He's a cinematographer and I had asked to meet with him to discuss possibly working with me on a music video I'm directing this summer. He was very friendly and flirty (as all Aquarians are) but I thought he was flirting with my friend the whole time so I was like whatever, he likes her and I need to be professional with him anyways. So when they went out for a cig together I figured yeah, I'm out of the running. As soon as she came back and he went to the bathroom she tells me the first thing he sai when he got out the door was "so could you tell I had a thing for her in hs?" and said all this other stuff about how he would use the video to get closer to me etc. obviously I was elated but wanted to play it cool. I texted him when I got home saying it was nice to meet him and I was excited to collaborate on a project after all these years and he sent me back a HUGE text about how he had this big crush on me and all this stuff. He also facebook msged me 2 days later, and I asked what was going on for st pats and he told me where he'd be. Well I stupidly texted him asking a film question a few days later--nothing. Then the day before st pats I said I was excited for the weekend and he was kinda short with me. Sat I texted him saying top of the morning to ya! No response. I got drunk and against my better judgement I called him to see where he was at so we could meet up--no answer and I'm pretty sure he picked up and then hung up. Nothing else. So he went from being REALLY into me (or at least least pretending) to be completely disinterested. I don't get it? I was only friendly to him, I didn't make it seem like I was interested romantically just wanted to stop by and say hi on st pats. And I restrained myself from texting him too much, I only sent those 2 texts asking where he'd be and wishing him a happy st. Pats, the other was a question about film lenses. So I mean like if I showed that TINY bit of interest an he's already ignoring me, what the fuck? Why would anyone want a relationship with a person that gets disinterested so quickly. And I'll admit, I'm good looking- better looking than him for sure. And we ha a great mental connection at the bar. Ehh whatever, I want someone who can handle this lioness :-P
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Oh and about the good looking part.. I don't wanna sound conceited. When we're first knew eachother in hs I was 60 pounds heavier and a total nerd, and we still had a great connection. Now the tables have turned.. I thinned out and he gained some weight and facial hair but I still find him incredibly sexy mostly because of this witty connection we still have. We were literally finishing each others sentences at the bar that night because we just seem to be on the same wavelength. So no it's not about looks. I've made the mistake of dating really stupid men that were models and those ended poorly. This is the first guy I've felt a real spark with mentally AND I'm also attracted to him, despite him not being the kind of hot I'm usually attracted to.
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Thanks shah! I seem to know a lot of leo girls who are attracted to Aquarius men.. What is the deal? Is it because we like to chase and they do such a great job of running away? I agree with everything you said. I havent contacted him since that call I made on st pats. I have too much pride to grovel at his feet and show my cards that I like him, I know that wouldn't work with an aqua anyways. You're right about it not being worth it... How are you married to one— Are you happy with your marriage? I dated a Gemini and he was kinda the same, it drove me nuts. Scorpios I've dated got clingy and obsessive, my most recent boyfriend was a cancer and he treated me like a queen and was such a gentlemen but he went in his shell too much and we didn't really have a spark! Gahh! I've always wanted to date a Leo man but I can never find them.. They seem to kinda be a rarity or something lol I think I've literally only met one in my lifetime!


I'm gonna ignore him. I guess I just was curious because I had a huge crush on him many years ago, but for something long term I think he'd drive me insane and make me very insecure.
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Posted by roxyfalcon2006

I want someone who can handle this lioness






I remember you .. you're the Virgo who is constantly bragging about being an awesome catch due to being so good looking ...

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I'm Virgo (sept 11, 1988)

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If memory serves me correctly (and I can go look it up) .... you made sure to let the Cancer know who you met on a cruise ship that you're a virgin, and that makes you a great catch, you made sure all of his friends know that you're a virgin. why you'd be talking to his friends would seem odd, until later. You refuse sex to the Cancer. You move to his city/country and still refuse sex. You go on a camping trip with him, get naked in the tent with him and when he pulls out condems you flip out saying you refuse to have sex with him.

At this point we all know you're a cock tease.

You defend yourself in saying some bullshit like .. you have a high sex drive and just because you are naked with him doesn't mean he is entitled to have you ... then you go on about how he just wants you because you're a virgin and doesn't really care about you. Eventhough you're the one to constantly taunt your virginity in his face.

then soemthing about giving him blowjobs in the basement? But, won't give him the goods because you're a virgin.

Then you come in here after the Cancer has decided to kick you to the curb to talk about how his Scorpio friends wants you and you apparently used this to make the Cancer jealous and got him back ..... with another empty insinuation that you have the goods he wants, he merely has to unwrap you.

That's right, you lured him with the idea of you being a virgin again.

By late last year, you were on the Scorpio board bragging about how you have 3 Scorps obssessing over you ... still using the virginity card to continue in your cunting.
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I finally read all that, what are you talking about tryin to win the cancer back with a Scorpio? Sure I liked a Scorpio a few months ago but it was never to try and win cancer back. We split mutually and amicably and we're still friends. I'm actually going to Toronto tomorrow with friends and I'm hanging out with him and his twin. He never kicked me to the curb, first off I wasn't living with him I was living with his friends from Thailand and second off I left on my own accord as it was expensive to stay in Canada and since after working on a film there I had no other job prospects I was just losing money staying there. I left and now I have a job in Michigan trying to save up to move to California. Also, p angel, I'm now convinced you love to stir up drama because 1 you blew all that way out of proportion and 2 why bother? I came here for advice as this situation has perplexed me. That's it, get over it and move on I'm not gonna feed your fire.
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I don't see why a woman can't make the choice not to have sex even in midst of fornication.. Thats very anti-feminine if you ask me. It's my body, I can do what I want with it. We suffer a lot more of the consequences of saying yes to it than men do. So I stand by my decision. It's not like we're "obligated" to go all the way just because he has a hard-on and we did other stuff. Jesus
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Posted by roxyfalcon2006

he bough me a necklace (we aren't even officially dating yet!) and went out to dinner and he wants to see me tomorrow too, then we're camping all weekend! 😄

He doesn't want sex, wants to take it slow.. acts like a total gentleman, doesn't like to swear in front of me, holds doors open, pays for everything.







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I guess I should just be very thankful to him when he gets me stuff but I won't be too forthcoming with my feelings for him, does that make sense?

I'll just stay coy and see what happens.

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Like the whole time out with him today I was just DYING to kiss him and finally after like 4 hrs running errands we had some time alone at my house and we kissed for like 2 seconds and then he had to leave. He said something like "we'll have plenty of time camping" or something to that extent. UGH! What the fuck? I'm just tired of getting shot down by him.




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...he brought condoms which kind of freaked me out because he knows I'm a virgin and didn't want to have sex for a long time, etc. etc..and the first night (and every night) we were completely naked and he didn't try to take it slow then, lol... I was literally probably 1 inch away from losing my virginity if you catch my drift..we were both drinking and stuff but it still kinda bothered me that he went out and bought condoms ..

.. and I'm a virgin--

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.. I've travelled the world by myself starting at the age of 11, ran an organization of 200 people, changed my university's entire curriculum for film editing because I told the dean to his face that the program sucked ...






And I'm Jesus Christ


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... I had said multiple times I'm a virgin and don't want it, all his friends know I'm a virgin ....

... I still think I had a right to be a little freaked out about the condoms ... and he knew multiple times that I don't plan on sex for a long time.

.... this was only my 2nd blow job ever ...

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Doesn't matter if it was 1 blowjob, a hundred or just handjobs .... you are doing it, while being naked and telling the man "NO" because you want to keep your virginity.

You are so deluded it isn't even funny. Just because your hymen isn't broken doens't mean you are virtuous if you are blowing guys.


::: shakes head :::


A clueless person doesn't get more Virgo than that.



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Posted by roxyfalcon2006

I wanted to suck his dick.. just because I don't wanna have sex with him doesn't mean I can't do other things







I in fact, did not blow anything out of proportion .. rather stated the truth, according to you.

Unless of course, when you said all of that ... you were talking out of your ass, and that's why you can't seem to remember your cunting being at that magnitude, so you think it must be me exaggerating.


Nope, not exaggerating .. you really did make a whole thread on the Cancer board in June last year to talk about how you got drunk and naked, and the said "no" .... AND ....

You are indeed the woman who thinks she is highly sought after due to her looks and virtue, while sucking cocks ....




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You don't have to respond. Your response isn't needed ..... people can read and comprehend without you talking to me.


Guess you didn't know that either and think that if you aren't talking to me, then none of this is visible to other people.


You said you ran a whole organization of 200 people, and changed a college's "entire cirriculum" .. and then responded to me in here saying ....

"I'm not going to give you th satisfaction of giving you attention you want by responding anymore. If you wanna work this out like adults.. You have my number... Still waiting on that call"



1. I don't say this for you, nor your satisfaction .. it's here for other people. that flies over your head

2. you are really that stupid, in that you put a phone number in here

3. you are really that stupid that you think I want to work something out with you.



::: shakes head :::


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Posted by roxyfalcon2006

I'm still not ready to take it farther and actually have sex with him...I don't know if I ever will.

.... should I be worried that our relationship will eventually break down because I'm too much of a prude??






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I know I'm a catch and if he cheats on me, his loss.






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.... we went to a sex shop with his twin just to look around and stuff, it was a joke kinda thing.. and my bf was telling me what lubricants were good and stuff.

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I'm dating a Cancer and his best friend is a Scorp.

Things have gotten kind of awkward with his best friend, because it seems like he's trying to steal me from my bf or something, it's weird.

... he imed me and said "do you wanna do lunch" and i was like sure...

... when we went on a camping trip he got really drunk and was like giving me a neck massage..

... he's always making jokes about me cheating on my bf with him.. like one time we were hanging out and my bf called him and asked what was up and he said he was hanging out with me and my bf was like oh what are you guys doing? and he said "well we went on a date.. and she kissed me" jokingly, but still

luckily my boyfriend is pretty laid back but recently he's told me "normally i'm not jealous or anything like that but it's really starting to annoy me"

I know what I've written here sounds petty and stuff but I've left out lots of other things he's done. I don't know what I should do because I really like him as a friend, but I'm afraid to confront him ...
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I'm scared to say something because knowing Scorpios he has a huge ego (this one absolutely does) and if I turn him down he'll be pissed forever.

My bf is afraid to talk to him too because he's really shy. i'm thinking of maybe having a 3rd party talk to him, like saying they've noticed from afar...

As for screwing the scorpio and getting it over with...no way in hell. I am NOT attracted to him neither physically or his personality at all. I like him as a friend but there's no shred of attraction there.

The last thing I'm worried about is my bf told me not to drink around him because he thinks he'd take advantage of me...not that I would drink around him anyways!





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of course i liked the attention in the beginning, but it's gotten to the point where it's no longer flattering ...





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... my bf told me not to drink around him because he thinks he'd take advantage of me...

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Posted by roxyfalcon2006

Different scorp.







Title of thread I quoted from: My bf's scorpio best friend wants me..help!




I would suggest that the next time you go shopping in a sex store with your man to whom you would also naked with, while telling him "no" .. that you should probably buy a butt plug for yourself, so you can stop embarrassing yourself with the words that fly out of your ass.


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You are seriously insane but this is all really amusing. I don't know what you're trying to prove here except the fact that your are straight up CRAZY haha! Taking this much time to go look up all that stuff that isn't even descriminating against me wow, get a life! Don't you have better things to do with your time? I'm working a boring job to get myself to LA to start a career in something I'm passionate about.. Do you even have a job?
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Still, that title doesn't say I was trying to make cancer jealous.. WhTs your point again? His friend was hitting on me and I was asking for advice on how to turn down ascorpio without making them hate you. As for the sex shop, you even quoted me saying we went there JOKINGLY with his twin.. We weren't "shopping" for stuff, omg, again, twisting everything to fit your creepy agenda against me.
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You say you're doing this for other people but NO ONE ELSE is commenting so obviously they don't care. And you don't eithe, which leads me to believe you are doing this solely to get attention and who knows maybe you get some kind of weird sexual high from being a bitxh to strangers on the Internet. Considering what a bitxh you are on here, I can't even imagine what you'd be like in person. No wonder you're sad and alone. I'm not the cunt here, hun. And I don't use that word lightly.
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As for the sex shop, you even quoted me saying we went there JOKINGLY with his twin.. We weren't "shopping" for stuff, omg, again, twisting everything to fit your creepy agenda against me.






lol, you want to believe you're a Leo, when in reality, Leo's can actually put two and two together .. Virgos can't, as we see here.

When I was reading those threads .. then too, the reality was flying over your head and you couldn't quite understand what people were meaning when they were saying that you can't lay naked with a guy like that if you plan on having him believe you are pure.

Nope, you still don't get it.

just here ... it's not about shopping for stuff .... lol .. it's about being in a sex toy store, while trying to pretend you are a virtuous prude that should be honored for reserving her virginity.


And you should stop insulting the Leo's ... they are smart.
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Hahahaha yes, having 12 cats IS an insult. Unless you live in a huge mansion and have people who can clean up all that littEr and smelliness, your house probably smells like cat piss. People who have 12 cats also tend to be sociopaths or 60 year old women who never fell in love. Now, if it were 12 lions you owned on a conservation in Africa, that'd be cool. But 12 house cats? That's just gross.
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I'll try to be very short.

P-Angel, I see you understand this girl has a blindspot.
I sense that in her responses to you she is reveals her-self.

For example: "If you really think people are lurking here reading this then you really have a low opinion of the people on
this messageboard..." Trying to intmidate you.

"to think they have such meaningless enough lives to want to sit here and read through all this stupid petty
bullbutter you're flinging here" - I think that here she is trying to insult you 🙂 this is how she behaves
to her parents or others when they try to advise her.

"I can't seem to find anyone I like enough to lose it to..." - here is the problem.

"You are seriously insane but this is all really amusing." - an insult, attempt to intimidate.

"P angel, lol, you can' post every thing I've ever said on dxpnet and I won't give a treetrunk." - in other
words "I don't care what I've said." this DXPNET part is excessive, not needed.

"You're just wasting your time, I really don't care what you post on here and no one else on this board
seems to either. Go feed your 12 cats or something." - again she is trying to belittle effort that is given
to her. She deeply knows that she wants and needs help but cann't handle the help yet, because it comes
with the truth.


She wants help, that's why she came here, but this is not the place for here, because, help that she needs is not in astrology, but in her psyche, soul. She hides her real questions and problems, behind these boyfriends of hers, she is using them to find out what's is that thing that isn't giving her peace.
I've met women like her. You get through them in an instant. They are vulnerable. They can produce high level of damage to people around them, by speaking nonsense, and if people don't see what lies behind her talks they can be easily misled.
This is destructive nature. Psychologist is advised.