Posted by P3n3lop3I have seen this with myself that I take time to open up. I can't handle the intensity of emotions the other person forces on me. I may like the other person, but I need my time to take it all in and be normal.
Lately since I've been opening up to him it seems like he may not be able to handle it? I tried to open up to him a few days ago but he never replied and a couple of days went by and I asked was he ok and he just said having some trouble and ask how was I and I just expressed how I felt from him not responding to me and he just protested and said I jump to conclusions but has also let me know I'm impatient which is true.
Posted by P3n3lop3I agree being with an Aqua man is a REAL test of patience. Ask yourself, is this guy worth my time and if your answer is a resounding "YES", go ahead and you will certainly get a friend for life at the very least if not anything beyond. Someone who you can trust.
@febaqua ok will do & thank u... I don't want to smother him but man....I could give him my all. I just want to love someone and be loved.
Posted by P3n3lop3are you aquarius venus?
Hello everyone I'm a Pisces woman with Aquarius rising getting to know Aquarius male with libra rising and he say's he likes me but his actions say otherwise. Doesn't want to be friends but likes me— I feel he may be stringing me along but has also pleaded that I just be patient with him? One minute it seems he's playing games then when you least expect it here he comes acting as if nothing happened & all into me?
Posted by P3n3lop3If I have to put myself in his place, unless my ex did something really bad to hurt me, I won't move away very easily. How long has it been since he broke up with his ex?
That's true and also @febaqua he's been in a very long relationship and that gives me an uncertainty about him as well because I'm not rebound material and feel if uve been with someone for so long is it easy for u aquas to pack up and just leave or would u just fight it out and keep the new person at bay?
Posted by P3n3lop3I have Venus in Pisces too and I can kinda relate to what he may well be going through.
@lisabethur8 im not sure on his but it may be venus in pisces and mine is in Aries
Posted by P3n3lop3If this is how you feel, sorry to say that it is simply not going to work. Too many doubts at an early stage of a relationship aren't good signs.
Not long at all I get the feeling that he may be on and off with her or he's using the same tactic with her and possibly other females as well given that he's very social which is no problem I'm just not into his Atari approach.
Posted by febaquavenus for a Man is what he is ATTRACTED to....Posted by P3n3lop3I have Venus in Pisces too and I can kinda relate to what he may well be going through.
@lisabethur8 im not sure on his but it may be venus in pisces and mine is in Ariesclick to expand
Posted by febaquayou're a man— O__O
As Lisa said before, I like women who are by nature independent, somewhat intriguing to understand (as that is the puzzle to solve), has a fun side to her and most importantly I don't want to be with one who is all the time needy and keeps a leash on me.
She should stand on her own and I don't mind giving her a free hand to live life to the fullest. This is what I see in my current relationship. 🙂
Posted by P3n3lop3uhhhhh I don't know.
@lisabethur8 thank u and what's OP? & if venus is in pisces is there a better chance it could work out with us?
Posted by P3n3lop3Get off your phone and see each other in person. Don't go all heavy with the feels over text. Do that face to face.
Lately since I've been opening up to him it seems like he may not be able to handle it? I tried to open up to him a few days ago but he never replied and a couple of days went by and I asked was he ok and he just said having some trouble and ask how was I and I just expressed how I felt from him not responding to me and he just protested and said I jump to conclusions but has also let me know I'm impatient which is true.
Posted by lisabethur8I know not a lot of men hang around DXP. But, I do, because I love being who I am and helping people.Posted by febaquayou're a man— O__O
As Lisa said before, I like women who are by nature independent, somewhat intriguing to understand (as that is the puzzle to solve), has a fun side to her and most importantly I don't want to be with one who is all the time needy and keeps a leash on me.
She should stand on her own and I don't mind giving her a free hand to live life to the fullest. This is what I see in my current relationship. 🙂
you feel very feminine. woops. 😛
click to expand
Posted by P3n3lop3By being intriguing, I didn't mean that everyday you need to act differently. Just be yourself, revealing it all slowly. And give him a good conversation about something that you guys have in common.
Thank u @febaqua but isn't the puzzle with women really not all figured out if u never digged deep enough to bring out the best in her and u both realize things in urself that u never knew existed from within? So even when aquas may think they have gotten to a point where they feel they have a woman all figured out they actually don't? And even if she is those things what if her needs go unheard? Shouldn't it go both ways? But now I see where the source of problems will lead to
Posted by P3n3lop3That's somewhat contradictory.
@ladyneptune that's hard I want to but I don't feel he has the time or he's just feeling me out and I wanna give him his space because I too need it but not as much as he does so I respect it
Posted by blessyouMove along. We ain't trying to fuck with you.
Fuck pisces
Posted by blessyouyou're just as sensitive if not worse.Posted by LadyNeptuneI really despise pisces people. Word to. Super sensitive super pussy too..Posted by blessyouMove along. We ain't trying to fuck with you.
Fuck piscesclick to expand
Posted by aquanibdon't you have pisces in your chart. I know you all are super AIRY (dominant air)
I just kicked a pisces dude out of my life. He is fucking inferior as fuck...like brain leaking away when you talk to him weak.
..come to think of it, the occasional visits in his mancave to smoke one or two joints in company with others was really all he had to offer (he never had anything to smoke just a place). I avoided it when he was alone.
Posted by aquanibok fine. but you ARE at his place. if you were at a PUBLIC place, like a restaurant, café, ect. open public place then you can say the hell you want. within the respect of the estabilishment's rules -- like NO fighting and throwing chairs or the police is gonna come after and haul you all away.Posted by lisabethur8Nah, am not projecting. As for the second sentence, i wasn't refering to his emotions when i said "weak"..........but it was more of an intellectual divide, namely a narrowminded person with an attitude "i hate learning".
you're projecting what you don't like in yourself. I don't like it when people hate on other signs for being emotionally weak.
A small example, so one night a few of us gather at his place, last autumn, we start talking politics, after all we were 30yo men......and the guy literally vetoed the conversation after about ten minutes with an argument "i don't like to hear about such things, you are at my place, talk something else". Dafuq....
Posted by lisabethur8Stop jumping to conclusions....there was no talk of emotions and even less of women......at least not from my part.
both you men are not good men if you put down women who are emotional.
EDIT - personally I think you're not serious and just want to be cruel to others.
if I see a man who is UNKIND to women, it really boils my blood.
click to expand
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
