Aquarius Female, Pisces Male

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by missbeanburrito on Thursday, May 7, 2015 and has 10 replies.

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@missbeanburrito
11 Years

I'm an Aquarius woman who has never gotten mixed up with a Pisces before. I've always sort of steered clear of them because of their sensitive personalities, but I've recently been captivated by one. We have an amazing connection and I see a lot of him in myself, which is comforting. The past few weeks he has been really hot and cold with me. One minute he's sending me hearts and telling me he misses me and the next he's aloof and distant. I feel like he's maybe too much in his head a lot of the time, but it's really throwing me off. I can't tell if he's trying to play hard to get or what. What is going on in his head?

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@missbeanburrito
11 Years

flowingwater, thanks for your reply! I would like to go full force with him, but I don't want to scare him away. Since I'm used to playing the hard to get card with other signs, I feel like I'm coming off as needy or too vulnerable when I show true emotion. I want to ask him where things are going but I feel like it'll rush things or end up backfiring/:

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

I think its important for an Aqua to date a pisces at least once in their life, take it as a karmic lesson in your stride.

But I think the reason that he's playing hot and cold is that he has other women on the side that hes dealing with before he can go full on with you? maybe?? thats just my experince with pisces. I met my ex while his girlfriend was on holiday and he broke up with her while she was in Newzealand. :/ I didnt care at the time because he was fucking hot haha

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@Dead59Reckoning
11 Years

Coming from a Pisces, don't be afraid too be upfront about how you feel. If he is truly into you, he will be all in. As stated above. If he backs off at all, don't bother with him. Fickleness with love is not a great sign from a Pisces. Pisces is definity a sign you don't have to worry about stating your feelings to. Personally, the interest I will show for a person will very much mimic their level. Because I don't want to scare off someone with open feelings and because rejection sucks.

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@FilletoFish
11 YearsPisces

We are rarely hot and cold just for the sake of it, if we behave that way is because we are testing the waters (no pun intended). Unless you're dealing with a newbie, a pisces will rarely throw himself out there, cause we've learned the hard way that trust needs to be earned and emotions need to be kept on check especially when dealing with non water signs.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

wish we could interview REAL LIFE pisces males/aquarius females and ask how is their relationship and why does it work so good?

for example:

and maybe call Oprah, since she's been with long term stellium Pisces Graham Stedham for a long long time.

and many others.

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

Not sure if It helps much but I know a Pisces guy and he seems pretty open and the type of person you could tell your feelings to. (im an aqua) I dont fancy him at all but i get on well with him! I think you should speak to him, be open with him and he will be open with you :-) Pisces dont come across as the kind of people you would need to play hard to get with.

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

Posted by CaptainPimp
The one problem i have with mine is communication.
She keeps a lot in her, what she thinks or what problems there might be. Goes silent instead of talking stuff out. Very stubborn.
Atm we just have insane chemistry. And when we do rarely fight, we end up making out.

This is like the Pisces female I know.. her bf is Pisces 2 and they are quite different!

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

i just realized that Oprah Winfrey is dominant...... you guessed it!!! NEPTUNE! O__O

no wonder she's with that stellium pisces man.

and, omg! Billy Baldwin's chart, looking at other areas, he's dominant mars/pluto/sun O_____O

just like my husband and Robert Downey Jr. also is dominant mars/pluto/sun. oh, and you know, i read that Robert Downey Jr. is doing no more Avengers films. Awww 😢 because he IS Ironman!