how, what, why is he doing this just how?
Aquarius Man wants friendship, remain committed but remained unattached?
I met this aqua guy on May after my breakup with a Leo (it was damn so hard to cope). But then again i suddenly switch off just to heal and have space for myself before I jump into a new one so after 1/2 of our silent. This Aqua man came back, our 1st meeting was last week Monday, we exchange messages; talk things through about our actions and our feelings that he felt bad for what he said and did to me when I wasn't even ready, that his very attracted to me and especially likes talking to me (ok, fair enough) even though i wasn't even 100% sure. He even mention that he hope that i wasn't thinking about the previous guy because his not like that; he wants to have a chance and patched things through. He wants to be friend with me stay committed but unattached :S
I replied to him that he have every chance. Since I'm over with the past and I just want to give him the chance so we met on that day and we hit it off straight away (we have done it before this things happened) so I will bare that in mind that you lot are going to criticize me for giving off so easily. But OK; 5 days later he hadn't sent nor made an effort to say Hello so I took the courage to sent him a short message just to see if he still alive last week saturday. He replied that day but very minimal so i didn't reply back until now. I'm assuming that its just a bluff and now disappear, loses interest and just probably probably seeing another woman?
I need to make my way to exit, I'm puzzle up, we're not communicating but i need to know?
so i will see if his going to talk to me again and if not I'm moving on without talking to him :S
I replied to him that he have every chance. Since I'm over with the past and I just want to give him the chance so we met on that day and we hit it off straight away (we have done it before this things happened) so I will bare that in mind that you lot are going to criticize me for giving off so easily. But OK; 5 days later he hadn't sent nor made an effort to say Hello so I took the courage to sent him a short message just to see if he still alive last week saturday. He replied that day but very minimal so i didn't reply back until now. I'm assuming that its just a bluff and now disappear, loses interest and just probably probably seeing another woman?
I need to make my way to exit, I'm puzzle up, we're not communicating but i need to know?
so i will see if his going to talk to me again and if not I'm moving on without talking to him :S
Posted by Redoctober2000help me understand why aquarius man act like this. just why?
So how can we help you?
Posted by Redoctober2000That we will see each other again.Posted by vesperIt's nothing to do with his star sign.. What did you hope to gain when you met up with him after his "absence"?Posted by Redoctober2000help me understand why aquarius man act like this. just why?
So how can we help you?click to expand
Posted by vesperPosted by Redoctober2000That we will see each other again.Posted by vesperIt's nothing to do with his star sign.. What did you hope to gain when you met up with him after his "absence"?Posted by Redoctober2000help me understand why aquarius man act like this. just why?
So how can we help you?
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I don't want to think or do this because I know everyone is not the same and not perfect. we all have our flaws But he made feel and think that he will do exactly what men do or the previous man i was involved with-
Posted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
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Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
Yeah can move on as soon as you know.
Posted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your headclick to expand
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by vesperIt's hard, but that is all you can do. A relationship is two people and they both have to be involved.Posted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
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do you think my action in the past effected him. I was the one who took off for a while to reflect myself, I sincerely apologize to him with my action (before and after). We even have conversation with my issues. So he knows my story and he knows where his going through this; his very aware of that because he probably may across or act without realising it. He even mention that he need to be cautious of my sensitivity?
Now i have too many questions to ask but his present is not around.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah can move on as soon as you know.
Yes I agree, it's just why did he even asked Friendship, remain committed and unattached? just why?
Everyone please read my 1st Question.I just need to know why ask for friendship, remain committed but remain unattached. Explain this to me why Aquarius have to act just suddenly keep quiet and disappear?
I have read they value friendship but now where is he?
i'm assuming all he wanted was just sex during his choosing
I have read they value friendship but now where is he?
i'm assuming all he wanted was just sex during his choosing
Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.click to expand
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
Posted by newloveNo not like this, I didn't reply because the message is just too short sided like their's no way that you could reply back. Thats why I didn't return the message.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
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It's unusual because he normally replied in a very detailed way. Remember my trend, Friendship, remain committed but unattached to this aquarius?
Posted by vesperEspecially when he mention unattached, what for?Posted by newloveNo not like this, I didn't reply because the message is just too short sided like their's no way that you could reply back. Thats why I didn't return the message.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
It's unusual because he normally replied in a very detailed way. Remember my trend, Friendship, remain committed but unattached to this aquarius?click to expand
That i will no longer hear from him, that he will disappear and go on like this with me for a few more weeks.
Posted by vesperPosted by newloveNo not like this, I didn't reply because the message is just too short sided like their's no way that you could reply back. Thats why I didn't return the message.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
It's unusual because he normally replied in a very detailed way. Remember my trend, Friendship, remain committed but unattached to this aquarius?click to expand
Okkk was replying on some other thread...going off track 😛
I don't understand
He wants to stay friends with you...committed as in what? In a relationship? Then also seeks unattachment
This is one hell of a confused guy
When he told about this committed unattached friendship, what did u say?
Posted by newloveThats ok, you see you will get confused too!. That's what I've been coming up with questions; His just silently muted himself. That's why I will give him a remaining days to talk to me and i will definitely ask him about it.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveNo not like this, I didn't reply because the message is just too short sided like their's no way that you could reply back. Thats why I didn't return the message.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
It's unusual because he normally replied in a very detailed way. Remember my trend, Friendship, remain committed but unattached to this aquarius?
Okkk was replying on some other thread...going off track 😛
I don't understand
He wants to stay friends with you...committed as in what? In a relationship? Then also seeks unattachment
This is one hell of a confused guyclick to expand
I don't know what he meant by committed and unattached. I need a little bit of insight everyone please?
if you happened to be an aquarius laddy, explain this to me :S
Posted by newloveI didn't say I questioned him about it, if he meant Friends or Friends with benefits?
When he told about this committed unattached friendship, what did u say?
He thinks that I am better than to asking for friends with benefits and all I said was that's up to us then.
Posted by Koniuchaa
Just tell him how you feel. What is the worst that can happen? At least then, you can say you tried your best.
If he disappears when you tell him, then it wasn't meant to be.
😢
I will if he comes out in his shell and talk to me again.
Posted by vesperPosted by newloveThats ok, you see you will get confused too!. That's what I've been coming up with questions; His just silently muted himself. That's why I will give him a remaining days to talk to me and i will definitely ask him about it.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveNo not like this, I didn't reply because the message is just too short sided like their's no way that you could reply back. Thats why I didn't return the message.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
It's unusual because he normally replied in a very detailed way. Remember my trend, Friendship, remain committed but unattached to this aquarius?
Okkk was replying on some other thread...going off track 😛
I don't understand
He wants to stay friends with you...committed as in what? In a relationship? Then also seeks unattachment
This is one hell of a confused guy
I don't know what he meant by committed and unattached. I need a little bit of insight everyone please?
if you happened to be an aquarius laddy, explain this to me :Sclick to expand
Well i am not aquarius
and i don't think aquarius viewpoint is necessary...
It is confusing...but i think this guy is very clear in his head
u also had a bad relation earlier right?
So i guess if u don't want heartbreak u should move on...
Posted by newlovePosted by vesperPosted by newloveThats ok, you see you will get confused too!. That's what I've been coming up with questions; His just silently muted himself. That's why I will give him a remaining days to talk to me and i will definitely ask him about it.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveNo not like this, I didn't reply because the message is just too short sided like their's no way that you could reply back. Thats why I didn't return the message.Posted by vesperPosted by newloveHow?Posted by vesperPosted by KoniuchaaI will give him few days to interact and if he didn't I guess I have to be mature and move on (even though its damaging me).
I say the best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and then wait for his reaction.
Why don't u just express your feelings for him and then if he doesn't reciprocate, u can move on...atleast u will be clearer in your head
It's difficult because his not around to talk things through. Not even a message he just suddenly muted himself?
Its better to speak in person to this man so we can have a clearer understanding.
Just coz he didn't send any texts that one week or something doesn't mean he will never do...u said u haven't replied anything so just text him about meeting somewhere
when u have the chance of meeting him don't base your conclusions on his texting habits
meet him somewhere have fun...see if it clicks
It's unusual because he normally replied in a very detailed way. Remember my trend, Friendship, remain committed but unattached to this aquarius?
Okkk was replying on some other thread...going off track 😛
I don't understand
He wants to stay friends with you...committed as in what? In a relationship? Then also seeks unattachment
This is one hell of a confused guy
I don't know what he meant by committed and unattached. I need a little bit of insight everyone please?
if you happened to be an aquarius laddy, explain this to me :Sclick to expand
I need to know at least.
Posted by vesperIf u really want to clear things out, u can call him...don't wait for his textsPosted by Koniuchaa
Just tell him how you feel. What is the worst that can happen? At least then, you can say you tried your best.
If he disappears when you tell him, then it wasn't meant to be.
😢
I will if he comes out in his shell and talk to me again.click to expand
Posted by newloveI did i have done my part, his reply is too short sided; hence his probably giving me red flag.Posted by vesperIf u really want to clear things out, u can call him...don't wait for his textsPosted by Koniuchaa
Just tell him how you feel. What is the worst that can happen? At least then, you can say you tried your best.
If he disappears when you tell him, then it wasn't meant to be.
😢
I will if he comes out in his shell and talk to me again.
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But i have to do this in order to proceed to be able to clear things out with him because my approached via message didn't even work until now. I will let him do the contact that's why I'm giving him few more days.
Posted by vesperwell answering this question is slightly difficult, because every Aquarian...every human being...is different & has different ideas of how they want things to go.
Everyone please read my 1st Question.I just need to know why ask for friendship, remain committed but remain unattached. Explain this to me why Aquarius have to act just suddenly keep quiet and disappear?
I have read they value friendship but now where is he?
i'm assuming all he wanted was just sex during his choosing
my last Aqua (very short-lived) was very direct. he had a Cancer moon and Leo asc. he told me "i'm going to date you. you're going to be my gf." we had sex plenty. it didn't really ruin the connection. however he didn't say the friend statement. BUT he got a new job quite far from where we live so he's never home. he's in management there. he didn't make time for me. i ended it after he ghosted me for over a week. he told me free time was eliminated (lame). i just told him we make time for who we want to make time for. i left the door open saying if he ever finds time i may still be around. he said he'd definitely let me know. i just didn't want bad blood between us, but i also felt like since he's in the city working now he most likely found a new interest. my advice is this: always be true to yourself when dealing with an Aqua and they'll respect that. in fact, when you do that, it may pique their interest more. never be explosive or accusive though.
a good separate example is the Aqua guy i've been on and off with for about 2 years. we've known each other for almost 4 years. we hit it off as friends immediately, & voila, here we are today. we aren't officially dating...i'm not worried about it. i know he likes me
he does exactly what you express concern with: pulls back and disappears...but for some reason with him, i just "know" he's there & will come back to me. idk....he's an Aqua/Cap moon. i trust him more. he's expressed his feelings for me and then retreated like "woah i've said too much"...gets embarrassed when he's around me after saying something too emotionally involved. i just pretend i don't notice he's embarrassed & act normal...as if he didn't just pour part of his heart out the previous day. it helps. the thing is, he doesn't have to tell me he cares because he shows me. it's the LITTLE things they do that scream "i like you", not always their words. as you can see the guy who said he'd date me just ended up ghosting me, yet the guy who won't commit always comes back. i don't think the Aqua/Cap moon and i will ever fully walk away. i just "get" him. to be clear, we've had sex too and there's nothing wrong with that. he's even told me a couple times he wants to get married and have babies (he's so awkward with words - lol). we're on & off. STILL. patience is key.
watch his actions & his words. they're subtle, but that's how you'll know his heart
Posted by bumboklattExactly! that's the reason why he can't commit to anyone 🙂Posted by vesper
Everyone please read my 1st Question.I just need to know why ask for friendship, remain committed but remain unattached. Explain this to me why Aquarius have to act just suddenly keep quiet and disappear?
I have read they value friendship but now where is he?
i'm assuming all he wanted was just sex during his choosing
He wants the convenience of a no strings attached relationship. Easy as that and he probably doesn't feel bad about it or maybe he does.
Emotions and Sex can be two very separate things to an Aquarius.
Speaking for myself. I can love a girl and just be friends because sex is just an impulse and friendship is forever. To me FRIENDSHIP is a RELATIONSHIP just in a very sneaky way. If he wants to commit then that's another story. He will definitely come around and be honest if he's interestedclick to expand
We're finished, my communication with an aquarius wasn't very clear to him. I probably led him into a different
point of view. I ended it because he and I had different mindset about what we want, he wants Sex with friendship and I want relationship (will probably look for it somewhere else) and it is wise enough for us to not continue. But thank you.
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