Aquarius Scorpio moon!

Yo yo yo Dxpnetters!
Im new to all this but am loving this aqua forum! Ive been very casually seeing an aqua for about 6 months. We see each other about once every 3 weeks and may have a little text conversation once or twice inbetween. I use to to sometimes ask to see him but i soon learned that that seemed to freak him out. So the last 4 times we have seen each other has all been his doing. Hes late thirtys and still lives with his mum as do i, So just ifnding hard to chill out together can be hard. He works 7 days a week and ive only know him have about 4 days off this year. So he is quite a busy chap. Anyway i bought a flat back in october, it needs a little work done but and my intention is to let it out in about april time (i bought it as an investment) anyway i never told my aqua about this as we are only casual and i didnt want to come accross as bragging. I intend to live in the flat but only for a month or two while i sort things out. Anyway while my aqua walked me to by car when i saw him last week he saw i had a new pack of bed sheets and a lamp shade in my car. He asked where they were in there......... so i explained i had bought a place back along,,,, He smiled and seemed very happy for me but it was just as i was leaving so didnt speak much about it. but since seeing him last thursday i havent heard from him. Im wondering if he thinks maybe i should of told before?? if i have offended him by not saying? but as we arent in a committed releationship and i struggle with talking about good things in my life i didnt know if i should tell him or not so i didnt. He is an aqua scorpio moon. Do you think i may have hurt him or am i reading to much into it?

Don't fret. They have a funny sense of time. Watch out for signs, very little shy signs that maybe he would like to be invited or something. But don't push. But if you intercept the smallest of signals, that's him trying to tell you that he wants something. Aqua's are super shy.

Thank you @workingirl , i will look out for signs. are you saying not to out right and ask him if he would like to come round? Do you think i should of told him sooner rather than him just seeing a few housey bits in the back of card? arent they meant to like mysteries? x

I'm just really getting to know my Aqua guy that I have known for a long time but never really knew... So I'd say that my Aqua is older (I'm older, too), and he plans things that he wants to do with me. And when he plans it to his house it is implied that intimacy could take place. He can be forthcoming when he is in the mood and feels confident, but sometimes he just touches me with a finger, so shy, and that's a sign that he wants me to seduce him! : ) He needs to feel needed. He is glad if he can help (anyone who needs it, but a girl, too). So, he lives with his mum and you live now alone.. I don't know. My aqua sometimes accepts my date proposals, doing sports together or going to a spa, public spaces, and sometimes he gets in the mood.. But when I openly invite him over, that's a no. at least with my headstrong rigid lovely aqua of a man. 🙂 I think maybe it's early for you guys. Just spend time with him, let him think about you, a LOT. and when he'll want to make a move, he'll do. in the meantime, pepper the space between you with reassurence. not with words, but little acts. caress his face maybe, look deep into his eyes, stuff like that. I mean, if you like him, you'll do those things anyway. : ) Just be yourself. Let me know how it's going!! : )

ahh your chap seems just as complex as mine. im slowly learning how ro read him, but these guys are so hard to read. Thats sounds so similar, sometimes mine can be very sexual demanding in messages, implying what he would like but then in person it can be quite the opposite! Thank you so much for your view it seems like lovely advice! i think i need to open my heart a little more and let him see me in an undemanding way. I'll keep you updated. I havent been doing little things like that as he hasnt been in a releationship for 8 years and the last girl was a LDR so i dont want to scare , i was aiming at keeping it light and friendly but maybe i should throw the odd little gesture like that in the mix! Out of interest how often do you see you aqua? x

I think the most important is to grab the moment. When they are in the mood, maybe for a moment only, you HAVE TO know. It's not always as difficult as that, but my Aqua has the impression I guess that only subconscious interest is true, only spontaneity. And it's of course true, but I'm not so exreme in that regard.. I mean my views aren't. Also.. I think they think too much and the balance between mind and body is not OK.. So when we play sports or he does, he is always much more relaxed and in the mood. Look, if you want this guy, be patient, and remember all this, and be encouraging but not too much. Seduce him but softly. And wear a dress or a skirt. I think they really love that. A girly girl. : )

What's it like dating an Aquarius man?

He will appreciate an intellectual and independent partner with an unconventional mind, who isn't too emotionally needy. More than anything he wants an intellectual companion with whom he can communicate, and similarly the Aquarius man often won't consider a lover who isn't his best friend first. Due to this, the quality and balance of your relationship will largely be determined by the mental connection between you.

If you want to keep an Aqua, especially in an LDR or infrequent dating, you have to engage him in interesting conversation. Find out what his hobby interests are. In Aqua in love, an Aqua being seduced, is one where you turn on the brain, not JUST the charm. Aquas care about your personal grooming but we know beauty is skin deep. We know some of the most beautiful creatures in nature are completely toxic and poisonous. So we watch, and we observe, and we test.

i'm not a man,

but aquarius suns come in different placements.

and im a woman, so for me, as long as I know my man is a freaking genius, brilllliant, and he dont need to talk to me alot or engage with me at all.

all i have to know is that he is there for me, security and honesty and loyal.

that he wont leave my side at all and i wont his.

i dont need him to entertain me because i can entertain myself. so basically, at the end of the day, we are together, we trust eachother and share with eachother our daily routines.

the aquarius part of me, which is a singularity just wants a super high I.Q. the rest of me wants emotional bonding and deep love and loyalty.

aquarius is NOT hard to figure out. just give me BRAINS. (but it depends on the type. ) lol sounds like a zombie.

cause repeatedly my ex's and my current man...all genius. so that's the only thing with my singularity.


Marilyn Monroe has Aquarius moon, and she Always went for genius men.

Not MY type of genius though..... she likes them very sensitive too.


plus she is gemini sun, anyway, so double air, she was bound to want genius.

Yes he does seem to like an intellectual conversation or a totally weird one! Its just hard to get him to get to the point of being the same room as him! such funny beings i cant work him out at all! So do you think me not telling him about the flat wont be a problem? Its been a week now since we last spoke... Should i message him to show i care? He shares a lot of hopes with me and im worried the fact i didnt share this bit of my life with him may of offended him..? x

I've dated someone with that combo. There is very little air in this since Scorpio Moon (emotional center) is so strong. But curious to see what the other placements are in his chart. They are more intense and sensitive than the average Aquarius . Emotions run crazy in them.

I dont think you hurt him on a personal level, Perhaps with the combination of the airy intellect mixed with intense emotions of scorpio. he might just feel embarrassed at the fact you're so put together and he isnt. He may feel that you're out of his league and feels insecure. but he'll never let you know till he fully trusts you (given the scorpio moon..emotional instincts etc). Directly confronting him may not work well with him. Indirect solutions are at best. Who knows...

So he came round to my place. HE seemed very distance for the first half an hour but after beening with him for a while he really warmed up. There is one thing bothering me though........We were in bed just cuddling and messing around. i said messing around that "i am very clever" to which he said "dont be silly your really not very clever" i replied " i am my brain is throbbing with knowledge" he couldnt stop laughing and when i asked what was so funny. (this was a light hearted convo i wasnt really being series) he replied saying what a funny way to word it! he was chuckling his little head off. but i just found it very offensive he said i wasn't clever. ITs really not true im by no means really clever but im by no means dumb. IS this a red flag? x.

Posted by FutureSeeker
He either thinks you are an airhead or maybe was laughing at the throbbing comment and relating that to a sexual innuendo.

Yes a total airhead. But I'm manager of a very busy store Run my own business song side that. And am currently trying to invest sensibly for the future. So although slightly blonde I'm by no means dumb. He's a cheeky f u c ker ‚‚