@Shaniajam
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Do scorpios "punish" you even after you said sorry?
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Wait... I just realized he's not contacting me... He answers when I contact him... So I'm gonna back off again... But is this still punishment or nah?
Is this the cancer dude?
I would guess that he's still a bit hurt about the situation, yes. If he's a moody guy, then that answer is even more obvious, imo. Or, perhaps he's thinking things over about what he wants and the no video sex is just part of the distancing needed to think about things.
Posted by Damnata
Is this the cancer dude?
Leo sun Venus in cancer
Posted by Scenic
I would guess that he's still a bit hurt about the situation, yes. If he's a moody guy, then that answer is even more obvious, imo. Or, perhaps he's thinking things over about what he wants and the no video sex is just part of the distancing needed to think about things.
Kind of figured this much... I think you're right. I'm gonna back off. A pity I may not even hear from him until the New Years smh
Posted by busyeyes88
It's only video sex and not physical sex?!!!If that's the case, get yourself a dildo!! There's a Jessica Rabbit... that might be better!!!
Lmfao... Yes I got the works lol I use it with him watching (kinky stuff) he knows j love this and now I feel he uses it against me cause I hurt his feelings. When I lashed out he looked at the text and didn't respond. Finally two days I called him and he answered right away lol (so it shows he wanted to hear from me) now I'm in his court and I apologize and now he's playing the make you suffer game smh.... I'm about to ignore again.
there's a user here with those exact 3 placements.
i think you'll find him on the leo boards more.
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Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
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You're still stuck on that ultrasound aren't you?
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
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Lmfaooo nooooo
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shaniajammed, you stick vhs tapes in your booty?
Lmaooo
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Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
You're still stuck on that ultrasound aren't you?
No I've been watching the video where the camera was put inside a chick's hoohah and they filmed it from the inside.
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Ewe!! Lmao this is not that hahaha
Posted by Damnata
there's a user here with those exact 3 placements.i think you'll find him on the leo boards more.
Mmmm I shall take a look
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Posted by Shaniajam
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Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
Lmfaooo nooooo
Too big?
More of a betamax girl, are you?
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Yo I'm dying over here lmfaooooooo... But yes too tight (sticks out tongue and runs)
Posted by elllesque
He is a Leo—!!!Scorpio moons need their own damn forum.
(and not the generic moon forum, ram.....that one is obviously not good enough for these precious peeps)
*throws up hands*
I asked here because the moon shows emotions ... Leo is the sun which is personality. He has an ego which I already stroked yet still he's punishing me... Isn't that the moon? Or Venus? Heck I'm lost Lmaooo
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Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
You're still stuck on that ultrasound aren't you?
No I've been watching the video where the camera was put inside a chick's hoohah and they filmed it from the inside.
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It's what I was talking about.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
http://www.iflscience.com/editors-blog/here-s-what-sex-looks-inside-v
That turned me on actually lmaooo
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Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
You're still stuck on that ultrasound aren't you?
No I've been watching the video where the camera was put inside a chick's hoohah and they filmed it from the inside.
It's what I was talking about.
No there's two...an ultrasound and a video
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The fact that you are so specific proves my point.
Posted by exo
but video sex 😕
We've had physical Sex already... We are long distance for the moment and he comes on business so yes we do video sex daily or every other day but it's been 4 days since and I know something up. He's not doing anything right now (he answered right away) yet said he would call me back when I asked for it lol and didn't... I've been asking since I apologized. I think he's trying to teach me a lesson? Don't do it Again? I mean he would say it's over if it was right? And he's not videoing anyone else (I checked). Argh! I hate this game but I shall play lol
Posted by Reincarnation
Why is this on the Scorpio forum?
Scorpio moon? Emotions? Where else would it be if I already stroked his ego to cover the Leo sun? I shall post in Leo then
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Posted by exo
what's video sex?
You stuff a VHS tape in your booty.
You're still stuck on that ultrasound aren't you?
No I've been watching the video where the camera was put inside a chick's hoohah and they filmed it from the inside.
It's what I was talking about.
No there's two...an ultrasound and a video
The fact that you are so specific proves my point.
I've thoroughly reviewed both clips.
I find the ultrasound more interesting....you can see how things are moved and displaced.
The cam one is disappointing. She just looks cavernous.
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Any pictures on the walls of that cavern?
Posted by elllesque
I don't know squat about cancer venus.
!!!!!
Posted by Shaniajam
I hate these games...
Posted by Shaniajam
Wait... I just realized he's not contacting me... He answers when I contact him... So I'm gonna back off again... But is this still punishment or nah?click to expand
Why does it matter if he's punishing you if you plan on backing off? The fact that you wrote "again" suggest that this is a dance y'all play. So have at it and stop playing the "what's going on??" game.
Posted by elllesque
Posted by Shaniajam
Posted by elllesque
He is a Leo—!!!Scorpio moons need their own damn forum.
(and not the generic moon forum, ram.....that one is obviously not good enough for these precious peeps)
*throws up hands*
I asked here because the moon shows emotions ... Leo is the sun which is personality. He has an ego which I already stroked yet still he's punishing me... Isn't that the moon? Or Venus? Heck I'm lost Lmaooo
You answered your own question, dear.
I have an Aries moon...how would I know what a scorpio moons intentions were just because I have a scorpio sun?
You have a scorpio mars....*you* would be more likely to use sex as punishment...especially with that taurus sun....but he might just have tired of the video sex.
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The day of he videoed me ready to go and his kids interfered .... That night I requested something (too kinky to mention) he agreed and said yes.... But he didn't call... When I crave him he does that like he wants me to obsess over it... I called him on his hullshit and he said stop it but I felt he wasn't taking my feelings seriously so (insert the bull). I charged. He went silent. I called two days later (yesterday) said sorry now this.
Posted by Shaniajam
Argh! I hate this game but I shall play lol
Hmph. Right 🙂.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Shaniajam
I hate these games...
Posted by Shaniajam
Wait... I just realized he's not contacting me... He answers when I contact him... So I'm gonna back off again... But is this still punishment or nah?
Why does it matter if he's punishing you if you plan on backing off? The fact that you wrote "again" suggest that this is a dance y'all play. So have at it and stop playing the "what's going on??" game.
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It matters Becuase I have feelings for him and I personally DONT WANT TO PLAY THESE GAMES! But he insists and I don't back easy unless he says he's doesn't want me or dissapears. Hence me leaving him alone to see if he's done cause some men don't give closure. Stop acting like I can't ask for advice. He wants to dance not me... I rather talk about it and move on to sex already.
Posted by elllesque
@Shaniajam....You went too far, scorpio mars. Back it up and park it for awhile.
Thanks I shall... Yes I think he's trying to make me realize this shouldn't happen again and I feel terrible. I asked if he's punishing me he looked and didn't respond and so I feel he is now. I shall back down and calm. I'm working on it lmao.
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Posted by elllesque
He is a Leo—!!!Scorpio moons need their own damn forum.
(and not the generic moon forum, ram.....that one is obviously not good enough for these precious peeps)
*throws up hands*
people who have video sex need their own forum.
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Well played
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Shaniajam
Argh! I hate this game but I shall play lol
Hmph. Right 🙂.
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Lol finally someone who knows exactly what I'm talking about lol. Some men know it's a game and I'm smart enough to know the game... I like it though it keeps it interesting but sometimes I want it to stop!!!! Lmao.
Leos can be very selfish and selective with sex.
As s scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
Posted by DMV
Leos can be very selfish and selective with sex.As s scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
I figured lmao. I think he's gonna wait till he feels I've given up and on to better waters then pull me back. Ugh!!! I shall back off.
Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
As a scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
LOL
I wonder if that goes for all hades moons.
As an Aries moon.....the madder the better. 😄
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Lol damn
Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
As a scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
LOL
I wonder if that goes for all hades moons.
As an Aries moon.....the madder the better. 😄
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Yeah were a wee bit different.
For me, a psychological block happens. I dont want anything to do with the guilty party
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Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
As a scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
LOL
I wonder if that goes for all hades moons.
As an Aries moon.....the madder the better. 😄
Yeah were a wee bit different.
For me, a psychological block happens. I dont want anything to do with the guilty party
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Yet he still answer my business questions but when I say anything personal? Boom shut down lol I'll call you back lol. So at least I'm not completely out the door but I'm in the corner lmao.
Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
As a scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
LOL
I wonder if that goes for all hades moons.
As an Aries moon.....the madder the better. 😄
Yeah were a wee bit different.
For me, a psychological block happens. I dont want anything to do with the guilty party
I can relate when it comes to my mars.....if there is lying or a betrayal of some sort....then I have that psychological block.
....but just 'anger' in general.....nah. then it just becomes a childish game of teasing and playing around until it's over and everything is back to normal. the more someone is angry at me....the harder I 'push'.....probably not a good thing for a scorpio moon to have to endure.
OP has a kindergarten moon too.....so, she probably did piss him off and he's currently switched 'off'.
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Lmao... Ok ok I'll take it I'm a Taurus sun AND moon (run) lol. But I've been learning to simmer. And actually I don't boil until the end which makes it feel more intense but he should consider all the other times I didn't flip my lid. Ah well though I'm starting to realize maybe he just wants me to leave him alone. I just want to know if it was permanent or not.
Posted by Shaniajam
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Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
As a scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
LOL
I wonder if that goes for all hades moons.
As an Aries moon.....the madder the better. 😄
Yeah were a wee bit different.
For me, a psychological block happens. I dont want anything to do with the guilty party
Yet he still answer my business questions but when I say anything personal? Boom shut down lol I'll call you back lol. So at least I'm not completely out the door but I'm in the corner lmao.
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This is where scorpio moon differs from aries moon.
You think the problem is over and he doesnt.
Youre ready do move on and he ain't.
You wanna start off from where you left off and he dont.
You think this is a game and he's not playing
Posted by Shaniajam
Posted by Damnata
Is this the cancer dude?
Leo sun Venus in cancer
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Then yes.
Oh wait, youre a Taurus moon?
Posted by Montgomery
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Posted by Damnata
Is this the cancer dude?
Leo sun Venus in cancer
Then yes.
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Crap. I felt that.
Posted by DMV
Oh wait, youre a Taurus moon?
Yes lol
Id think as a Taurus sun and moon youd understand where hes coming from
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Posted by Shaniajam
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Posted by elllesque
Posted by DMV
As a scorpio moon, im not screwing someone im mad at.
LOL
I wonder if that goes for all hades moons.
As an Aries moon.....the madder the better. 😄
Yeah were a wee bit different.
For me, a psychological block happens. I dont want anything to do with the guilty party
Yet he still answer my business questions but when I say anything personal? Boom shut down lol I'll call you back lol. So at least I'm not completely out the door but I'm in the corner lmao.
This is where scorpio moon differs from aries moon.
You think the problem is over and he doesnt.
Youre ready do move on and he ain't.
You wanna start off from where you left off and he dont.
Yes. I agree with this.
It's really any scorpio/hades placements versus aries placements.
we don't realise that people actually 'simmer' and 'stew' for awhile.
it's really hard to comprehend.
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Yes yes yes it is
Posted by DMV
You think this is a game and he's not playing
I haven't laughed not one time. He answered video chat but made it dark so I couldn't see him but he could see me... I wanted to pour my heart out but I'm a bull. I said I'm sorry for how I said things and it was wrong and I'm not good at expressing myself and I'm sorry. He was silent. I said I miss you also... He said oh yeah? Like he always does... (He doesn't express himself with words it's more actions). So I thought we were ok. But I guess not since today. He's has an event tomorrow so I'll be surprise if I hear from him before the New Years or at all. Pity it has to end this way.
Posted by DMV
Id think as a Taurus sun and moon youd understand where hes coming from
I do understand... Cause I'd be ignoring him too... But, I would talk about what hurt me I wouldn't close off... That's what's puzzling me. If you hurt me I'm letting you know (once I'm calm enough).
Posted by elllesque
oh.....so, you don't have a kindergarten moon.....just a kindergarten mercury and venus. 😛
Lmao yes I guess "sighs"
Posted by elllesque
yeah, it's probably best to calm yourself down and let him process his feels in his own way.
I just hate this phase where I'm pretending like I'm not hurting too waiting on him...putting on a front. When all I want to do is tell him how hurt I feel that I hurt him. Knowing spilling my emotions right now in this fragile time is not the way. And so we do this dance until I hear from him. Smh.
Posted by Shaniajam
Posted by DMV
You think this is a game and he's not playing
I haven't laughed not one time. He answered video chat but made it dark so I couldn't see him but he could see me... I wanted to pour my heart out but I'm a bull. I said I'm sorry for how I said things and it was wrong and I'm not good at expressing myself and I'm sorry. He was silent. I said I miss you also... He said oh yeah? Like he always does... (He doesn't express himself with words it's more actions). So I thought we were ok. But I guess not since today. He's has an event tomorrow so I'll be surprise if I hear from him before the New Years or at all. Pity it has to end this way.
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Lol. He thinks youre full of shit.
Posted by Shaniajam
Posted by DMV
Id think as a Taurus sun and moon youd understand where hes coming from
I do understand... Cause I'd be ignoring him too... But, I would talk about what hurt me I wouldn't close off... That's what's puzzling me. If you hurt me I'm letting you know (once I'm calm enough).
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But u just said that youre not good at expressing yourself.
Posted by Shaniajam
Posted by elllesque
yeah, it's probably best to calm yourself down and let him process his feels in his own way.
I just hate this phase where I'm pretending like I'm not hurting too waiting on him...putting on a front. When all I want to do is tell him how hurt I feel that I hurt him. Knowing spilling my emotions right now in this fragile time is not the way. And so we do this dance until I hear from him. Smh.
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You best spill the beans or you will continue to be shut out.
Hes waiting for you to be not full of shit. To not brush over things.
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Mainly for a Scorpio moon person? He still answer my calls and messages and I've already said sorry but I love sex and he knows this and when I ask when will we have sex he says he'll call me back and doesn't and I think he's punishing me since he's still in contact? (We are long distance so it's video sex all the time and he's never deprived me of this). I'm about to ignore him... It's a pity cause I hate these games... So is he punishing me?