It's taken 7 months for Aqua sun Scorpio moon to forgive me !

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Tinxy on Wednesday, February 3, 2016 and has 11 replies.

Understanding Forgiveness Between Aquarius Sun and Scorpio Moon

Forgiveness in Aquarius Sun and Scorpio Moon relationships can take a long time due to emotional depth and independence. If they have forgiven you, it indicates continued interest, but they will never forget unfair actions. Patience and sincerity are essential for rebuilding trust in such connections.

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

More like 20 years or so🙂

If he/she forgave you, its a good sign, that he/she is still interested

otherwise, they dont even respond, because you are in a dead-zone, forgotten, not hated, mind you, but totally out of consideration

so, congratulations, you are still considered as somebody interesting....... but dont kid yourself, your Aqua Scorpio will never forget, if you did something unfair

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@Pandora101
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The other thing is, if they forgive, it can mean also they are now indifferent....... so they can be friends with you...

aqua and scorpio together - you know, both a fixed sign.......

what is the background?

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@Tinxy
11 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Pandora101
The other thing is, if they forgive, it can mean also they are now indifferent....... so they can be friends with you...

aqua and scorpio together - you know, both a fixed sign.......

what is the background?

I wouldn't say forgive as in he said ok I forgive you lol but he's talking to me the same as we have been before I skinned him alive with my angry words.

I'm Scorpio sun libra moon
He's Aqua sun scorp moon

He's in love with me and I am with him , he said I showed no care towards him and he was really angry at me didn't completely cut me off but went into the passive aggressive silence he was hurt bad by me not once but twice I've kept consistent during this time and I didn't plague him but let him know I was there and That he never left my thoughts.

I've been selfish and I'm deeply regretting it but I've come past the point of lingering on the hurt.

He's basically been wanting to communicate but held back because of his stubbornness and pride.

I spoke with him yesterday and wished him happy birthday ! He was so happy and shocked as I was the only person on the planet that remembered his birthday not even his mother did lol and he lives with her loooool

The last time we spoke I got really upset he said he was "seeing" someone I knew deep down it was a lie he wanted to hurt me
Yesterday he made sure to let me know he wasn't seeing anyone and never was.

I'm so happy just to have him back as a friend I'm backing off now to allow him to decide what he wants once and for all.

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@Tinxy
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Posted by ladylibra21
I wanna hear this too. That damn Scorp moon. sigh

They want you to grovel and lick their ass.

I responded by not grovelling and kicking his ass.

I'll admit to my wrong behaviour but I don't grovel to anyone ! I Show my care and if you understand then we are cool.

I don't grovel.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Tinxy

Posted by Pandora101
The other thing is, if they forgive, it can mean also they are now indifferent....... so they can be friends with you...

aqua and scorpio together - you know, both a fixed sign.......

what is the background?

I wouldn't say forgive as in he said ok I forgive you lol but he's talking to me the same as we have been before I skinned him alive with my angry words.

I'm Scorpio sun libra moon
He's Aqua sun scorp moon

He's in love with me and I am with him , he said I showed no care towards him and he was really angry at me didn't completely cut me off but went into the passive aggressive silence he was hurt bad by me not once but twice I've kept consistent during this time and I didn't plague him but let him know I was there and That he never left my thoughts.

I've been selfish and I'm deeply regretting it but I've come past the point of lingering on the hurt.

He's basically been wanting to communicate but held back because of his stubbornness and pride.

I spoke with him yesterday and wished him happy birthday ! He was so happy and shocked as I was the only person on the planet that remembered his birthday not even his mother did lol and he lives with her loooool

The last time we spoke I got really upset he said he was "seeing" someone I knew deep down it was a lie he wanted to hurt me
Yesterday he made sure to let me know he wasn't seeing anyone and never was.

I'm so happy just to have him back as a friend I'm backing off now to allow him to decide what he wants once and for all.

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Ugh its a waiting game I am also waiting till this guy (Gem Scorp moon) birthday to make contact again.

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@workingirl
17 Years

Same thing happening to me, I hurt him and I guess I was not showing enough care (I fell for the trap that he said he does not want care and I went along and it seemed OK, we seemed OK). I also made some silly (not serious) comments that might have made me look like I was jealous or think that he's talking to other girls). So he got fed up one day in the middle of a silly fight and told me he wouldn't want to spend any more time with me. We fell out for a little while, 1-2 weeks, I was abroad in the meantime, I sent him a card to his house from there saying that I would like to try again BUT of course he rebutted not simply that he doesn't want that or not now but he said that he was seeing someone new. I know this guy, have known him for ages. And we were dating now for a good nine months, we met quite often and he talked to me almost every day.. And I know he feels for me, even if he is not in love yet. (I am I think. 🙂 So I know that he gets to know people by little tests and handing out misleading info to see how you react etc. And he played this game with me one time in the summer, he said that our weekend in his house will be the last, the swan song. Of course when he took me home he was so cute and he said that "you didn't really believe that it would be the swan song, I could tell", and I said, "well, you weren't really convincing"... and I could tell dozens of tricks like that. which are cute by the way, and usually harmless. this now is a little over the top. he wants to punish me for hurting him and making him feel vulnerable, and he wants to punish me because I suggested (silly me!) that he was not loyal. Never joke about that with an Aqua, never! And just like you Tinxy, I know there is no one else, I know he has deadlines and I know that we were just contacting each other too often and we became like an ordinary couple sort of thing. So right now, because I am hurt too, because I miss him, I told him in person too that I am sorry for hurting him, and that I would like to try again, but some things would have to change (less contact, different sex, more spontaneity), and I won't beg and won't say it again. And I don't talk to him unless he does, and even then I keep it short. He broke the silence twice so far, one time to say that the new girl thing is getting serious and he thought I should know (...), and then next time said something just to say it and then change the convo to protest how neck deep he is with this new girl. And by now I'm a 100% sure that it's a lie. But I play along because I want him back and I want to suprise him and blow his mind and make him see that we are great for each other. Had such a great time. I can see that he checks his facebook every time I post an update, but not immediately, as before, but ALWAYS 5 mins later. : ) Right now I'm waiting to see if he'll break the silence again. : ) Good luck everyone! Keep on fighting for the person you love. There's nothing better to do. : )

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@workingirl
17 Years

Actually I'm kinda hoping that as soon as the weather gets better he will forgive and understand whatever happened and accept my apology and think I suffered enough and he will want to go out and do sports with me again (we have some sports hobbies together) so I'll be smart and cook up something to save him the trouble of having to compromise his pride hehe. 😄