Aquas Scare The Hell Out Of Me...

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I'm a Virgo. I don't get you Aquas.
The only Aquas in my life are Aqua-Pisces, no other Aqua relationship has survived.

You guys are emotionally empty, you give off positive vibes, but when it comes down to be firm in loyalty, you give a hollow enthusiastic answer or dissapear.

I don't get it, you come off as super nice and jovial like a damn Pisces, but then when it comes time to commit to anything you're gone.

You will make super judgemental, arrogant conversation, but then when I say something similar, you pipe in about how you disagree because it is not 'good' or 'righteous.' You guys are like situationally evil, but in the end, always have some kind of moral maxim on hand to contradict yourself.

I feel like, if I make a plan with with an Aquarius to them it's a maybe. I feel like if were on good terms, at any moment, you'll sell our relationship for a pack of cigarettes. You all make me feel goddamn uncomfortably, and I AM JUST TALKING ABOUT FRIENDSHIP HERE.

Forget about women or romance...impossible.

I seriously feel like with an aqua we are always on polar opposite frequencies, as if we were designed to be enemies.
The only place we overlap is intellectually, so the communication occurs, but it's as if we're too walkie talkies from one enemy soldier to another, disagreements and miscommunications are limitless. You want to compromise, I want to fight, I want to meet, you want to hide, etcetera.

Seriously, wtf, can an aqua explain themself to me. I don't get you. Really, I just want to be friends, but you all seem entirely incapable of fulfilling the Virgo requirements for friendship. Which are: 1) Personalized Affection (2) Deep loyalty outside of society (3) Consistent action (routine) (4) Dependability (when we say we're going to go to the club next friday, it aint no maybe, it's a fucking agreement.)

What do you think?
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BOO! lol

No, but seriously though the most evil person I've ever met in my entire life was an aqua. The second person who's still rocking my world in a negative way isn't evil per se.

Guess her sign, though (hint hint it starts with a "V").

A lot of aquas are secretly sociopathic. It's the whole misanthropic thing. You know they say Scorpios have three stages of growth but I think it applies to a lot of other signs, too.

I've done my fair share of cruelty and passed through some phases of growth myself. Here's how it works with this sign:

1. you're born
2. you watch the world and its inhabitants
3. you learn its rules
4. you discover that while rules are good because they make sh** work, some of the rules are made to make you a slave
5. you begin to sneer at people who follow those rules like their life depends on it and who have become slaves
6. you begin to realise you're alone in your ability to thrive in chaos
7. you begin to test the limits to see what you can get away with
8. you get away with A LOT
9. you realise that fear is the number one form of control and this brings you a certain level of delight (because to some degree the fears that seem petty to you are experienced by others on a grand scale).
10. your anger at humanity reaches boiling point. you reach the point of no return, becoming an utterly mean-spirited bastard because of how FAKE social trappings really are
11. you become ashamed of what you have become but you are so far down the hole your only instinct is to inflict more evil

THEN: you realise, your life is one big contradiction. In thinking others are small, you realise you're not special and no matter how much better you think things can be done people have choice and choose to live their lives the way they see fit. And then you take a step back. And even though you are mildly irritated by stupidity from time to time you walk away. You detach.

And that is where I am in my life right now. Still got boundless anger, of course, but you gotta be humble, man.

You shouldn't have said you were a virgo, though, because it kinda clouds my sympathy for you some. Can't stand virgos, me.
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lmao! classic 😛

all fixed signs are loyal. aquas are dependable and predictable (until they're not). ask them about a set of friends today and you'll be able to ask about the same set in 5 years. aquas don't leave friends, friends leave them. so in friendship, they're consistent...but i'll clarify that later.

as a virgo, you might have a tendency to have expectations. you have a view of me-centered view of right/wrong. you like to "help." you're critical by nature. these are the challenges.

make sure that you "help" without expectation. aquas will give in return but in their time and in a way they see fit.

aquas are emotarded. they don't do "feelings." they can be cold but only because you're lookin for love in all the wrong places. pay attention to what they DO, not what they say. if he's calling/seeing you everyday, that's "i love you."

fixed signs do not like to change/be changed. i don't care how right you THINK you are, aqua can take criticism so check your delivery. sometimes it boils down to the messenger not the message. other times, we don't care if we're wrong. we'll change when we're ready so save your moral indignation.

in arguments they can be blunt. there's also a bit of ego and don't go head-to-head. they're fixed/stubborn. the more you push, the less they give. fixed signs generally will not bend in the moment. even when we know we're wrong. so you need to know when to engage/back off.

mature aquas will own up eventually. if you're right and come back in a day or so, you'll find a more open spirit. but you gotta come back. don't hold that infamous virgo grudge. FORGIVE! FORGET!

now where all fixed signs resist change, with aquas this is a conundrum. they are predictably unpredictable. their nature is fixed but they sporadically crave change. the way to keep them the same is to expect nothing. the moment they get a whiff that you've figured them out, brace for a whirlwind.

here's how you survive FIXED AIR in transition...

do nothing!

it's temporary. they're fixed remember? they can stir things up at a moment's notice and for weeks/months, they may behave differently but if you stick around long enough, you'll find that they've settled back into the same pattern. if you're not careful, you'll have gotten worked up over nothing. let them mutate. no matter how hard they try, they're not aliens.

so relax. shelve the judgment. let it flow, let it go and you'll find that aquas are stable people.
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Posted by scartooth
Problem with the world is people like sikkario and &2gedanow. Blaming the aquas for our evilness and then blasting hate around at the whole of us. Maybe u dont get along well with us cuz most of us despise hypocrites. Such as talking about how unromantic we are.. but yet typing that the aqua planned the picnic that u shit on. Seems you got the Midas touch of turning good hearts to poo.
so pfffft on your parade.. sorry.. you wouldn't be worth this aqua's time nor the waste of my emotions. Fight stone with stone.. get a heart first, then mess with our dominant sign 😉



But some of us ARE evil, though lol. Notice I say "US", Scartooth (I'm 2nd decan)?

Wouldn't change the life path I've taken to get to this stage for anything in the world, me...
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@ NIB..
how do you "fight" detachment ?

I'm at the point where.. I don't make plans anymore..
just go where the day takes me..

it's gettin harder to comply to people most basic expectations..



To the third line of your post, good on yer! You should only bend for the people who truly matter. Or if someone will get hurt. But for petty bullsh**, I say f**k 'em.

To the middle paragraph, I'm right there with you, buddy.

To the first question being detached is where you wanna be. BUT with all things in life you have to balance it out. You can't be too emotional and you can't be too detached.

In other words, we're wearing the same shoes.

WTF? Who were you before? And how'd you know I was NIB? lol

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@ NIB..
how do you "fight" detachment ?

I'm at the point where.. I don't make plans anymore..
just go where the day takes me..

it's gettin harder to comply to people most basic expectations..



To the third line of your post, good on yer! You should only bend for the people who truly matter. Or if someone will get hurt. But for petty bullsh**, I say f**k 'em.

To the middle paragraph, I'm right there with you, buddy.

To the first question being detached is where you wanna be. BUT with all things in life you have to balance it out. You can't be too emotional and you can't be too detached.

In other words, we're wearing the same shoes.

WTF? Who were you before? And how'd you know I was NIB? lol



I'm that hypnotic dude..
with midheaven in virgo..


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Posted by Tasha74

because i love my friend and i love how we both think alike! e.g. we busted out her Scorp b/c that's what he gets for lying. and he denied it of course to his new gf. and she called him out on having this incurable disease. i helped her actually with the plan. he's a bitch. but her family said what we did was evil. but he deserved it for sure.





no wonder you two are friends. yall are sharing each others fleas. only difference is, the aqua seems to own her ill behavior whereas you excuse it.
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Posted by Tasha74
p.s. isn't the best (or worst ha) way to fuck with people psychologically? her Scorp can't do shit to me cuz i don't CARE about his ass anyways.

he's lame. i really don't know him too well, or any of the people he knows. i just know all the fucked up shit he did that i saw with my own eyes. but if he did try and fuck me over, he doesn't know where i live or work...even if he did what's he gonna do bust my windows??

and if he wanted to start a rumor that would just be a flop. he's stupid. shouldn't of been trying to play people. he's got a long and hard life ahead of him if he keeps living like he does.




WHAT!?

i'm sorry, were you not taking the moral high ground when you maligned your aqua friend? and yet, the more you talk, the more it's kinda clear that you're an asshole too.
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Posted by Tasha74
lol! no but Cancer

idk man...maybe it's the Scorp moon. also i'm 2nd decan Cancer which is the Pluto influenced or whatev but i am not a bad person it's just that they deserve it.

i promise. plus it's perfect b/c they don't suspect a damn thing. i didn't do it yet to my Scorp tho. my cousin's hubby who is a Scorp told me to egg his car --- that is not enough!!! it's amateur, it will wash off with a cheap $ 6 wash. it might take some of the paint off, but he wants a new car anyways!!

but i will get him back. i am not afraid him -- he already hurt me way worse than anything he could do out of spite.

i tried to go out like a boss though, i went out literally laughing my ass off. lol!! i will be satisfied when i see him get his.



lol

Ah, a cardinal water sign with Scorpio moon. No wonder you actually go through with the revenge. With cardinal fire, they get distracted while cardinal air peeps love good vibrations too much to do anything about it (I think).

I think cardinal earth is just as likely to carry out revenge if they had scorp moons.

lol at the way you relish revenge, though. It's hilarious lol
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Aquas are known to consider everyone a friend.......but as the saying goes, "a friend to everyone is a friend to no one." Don't expect the level of loyalty you require to come from any Aqua. You will only be heartbroken. I'm a virgo too and my best friend WAS an Aqua.

Look at Sarah Palin (Aqua)...."Going Rogue" at the expense of anyone.....even people who have helped her to get where(ever) she is today.

The only one an Aqua is ever truly loyal to is themselves.

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Posted by sikkario
I'm a Virgo. I don't get you Aquas.
The only Aquas in my life are Aqua-Pisces, no other Aqua relationship has survived.

You guys are emotionally empty, you give off positive vibes, but when it comes down to be firm in loyalty, you give a hollow enthusiastic answer or dissapear.

I don't get it, you come off as super nice and jovial like a damn Pisces, but then when it comes time to commit to anything you're gone.

You will make super judgemental, arrogant conversation, but then when I say something similar, you pipe in about how you disagree because it is not 'good' or 'righteous.' You guys are like situationally evil, but in the end, always have some kind of moral maxim on hand to contradict yourself.

I feel like, if I make a plan with with an Aquarius to them it's a maybe. I feel like if were on good terms, at any moment, you'll sell our relationship for a pack of cigarettes. You all make me feel goddamn uncomfortably, and I AM JUST TALKING ABOUT FRIENDSHIP HERE.

Forget about women or romance...impossible.

I seriously feel like with an aqua we are always on polar opposite frequencies, as if we were designed to be enemies.
The only place we overlap is intellectually, so the communication occurs, but it's as if we're too walkie talkies from one enemy soldier to another, disagreements and miscommunications are limitless. You want to compromise, I want to fight, I want to meet, you want to hide, etcetera.

Seriously, wtf, can an aqua explain themself to me. I don't get you. Really, I just want to be friends, but you all seem entirely incapable of fulfilling the Virgo requirements for friendship. Which are: 1) Personalized Affection (2) Deep loyalty outside of society (3) Consistent action (routine) (4) Dependability (when we say we're going to go to the club next friday, it aint no maybe, it's a fucking agreement.)

What do you think?



We ain't that scary,haha.

But i gotta agree that we are like on two different polar sides,but if you give us affection then by our actions you may also recieve affection,but sometimes you may just not see it.

In the beginning with a Virgo & Aqua it's always nice cause virgo's to me do always give a positive vibe too,but as time passes by i don't know at all what you virgo dudes are waiting for— When i try to communicate then you always act like the friends that you got around you at the moment a
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-When i try to communicate then you always act like the friends that you got around you at the moment are more important for the whole day,so only an exchange of "Hi" and "Bye" is enough.

And we are loyal,but if you don't appreciate uur loyalty or don't long to be the one near us instead of the person by who we are only trying to make you jelous then this turns us off,cause we wanna know that are you gonna feel a small difference if we won't be there,we wanna know if we matter at least a tiny bit,if not or you show the helousy in a mean way then this is a total turn off to us.

We go more after 'do' then 'say'.

Or at least this is my aqua experience,i don't like to talk in everybody's name but if anyone agree's with me then lemme know that i'm not as stupid as i think i can be,lol 🙂
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@ BeatrixBecks - I think what you've said is pretty spot on. The whole point of "doing" rather than "saying" is really important for me as well. Actions speak louder than words. I don't mind casual friendships at all but it's great to have those closer friendships; but you do need to know that those people really are going to be loyal to you and value the level of friendship that you have with them. 🙂
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@ BeatrixBecks - I think what you've said is pretty spot on. The whole point of "doing" rather than "saying" is really important for me as well. Actions speak louder than words. I don't mind casual friendships at all but it's great to have those closer friendships; but you do need to know that those people really are going to be loyal to you and value the level of friendship that you have with them. 🙂



Thanks Aquaguy7 🙂 ,and yea,it's true,people gotta value our friendship,and i guess that is why people lose an aqua friend : if they don't value the loyalty or friendship,and then we wanna break away a little ,cause people don't see what they have until they've lost it,and we wanna know if the person did ever value the friendship but maybe just didn't show it. In the end,if they are afraid to make a step to make the friendship again stable then we ain't gonna be begging on our knees that they will take us back as friends or anything like that,that's just foolish.
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Posted by BeatrixBecks
-When i try to communicate then you always act like the friends that you got around you at the moment are more important for the whole day,so only an exchange of "Hi" and "Bye" is enough.

And we are loyal,but if you don't appreciate uur loyalty or don't long to be the one near us instead of the person by who we are only trying to make you jelous then this turns us off,cause we wanna know that are you gonna feel a small difference if we won't be there,we wanna know if we matter at least a tiny bit,if not or you show the helousy in a mean way then this is a total turn off to us.

We go more after 'do' then 'say'.

Or at least this is my aqua experience,i don't like to talk in everybody's name but if anyone agree's with me then lemme know that i'm not as stupid as i think i can be,lol 🙂



I won't deny tt I do that... but I'm interested in knowing people and when I know you, the feel of security is there and thus I'll 'pay less attention to you' since I know you'll be there. It's not the best reaction to the friendship but the fact that you'll always be there assures me that I'm free to get to know others and I can always come back to you as friends. Second, virgos won't be that direct until you really know us, so if you're expecting quick direct responses from us it'll take time.

I do have an aqua bff and my response here from our friendship so forgive if it is a biase pov to anyone...

Yet one thing that annoys me is our conversations, we will talk on something but just find hard to continue from there, as though we don't get each other, when infact deep inside i'm struggling to keep up to her way of conversation and trying to get a response...

its always that we're polar opposites emotionally and mentally at the same time and by the time I've managed to fit her behaviour style she switches over the what I was doing earlier!! but you aquas can be great friends 🙂
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It's true,hard to keep a conversation going 🙂 ,my bff is also a virgo and we're great,thought with time,like almost 2 years we finally find our topics to discuss and are more comfortable with anything we talk about.
Also the guy i am interested in is a virgo,and damn you virgo's are nice,just that late response sometimes can sadly annoy me,my middle name is impatience,lol
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--- [Continues] but besides that i think virgo's are intersting and friendly,too bad that we aquas and virgo's just can't get along that easily,but with time and a little work it can be solved and in the end there can be a nice friendship / relationship.

But i got a question about you virgos so can you please answer me cause i really am curious..
It says that if a virgo is interested then they will pretty much have their eyes on you,but at a time the guy i was seeing didn't really pay attention to me when i was able to see him looking,if i was right near/infront of him he wouldn't look at me but when he gets away to a darker place where i wouldn't see him but he can get a perfect glance of me then it seems like he IS looking...does this mean that virgo's can be shy or what? 🙂 please help,i've met the greatest virgo dude i can wish for and i don't know how to approach him. 😢 .
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Posted by virg_goki
We're not shy, just hate obvious attention.. but I'll give the same advice as many would have given, note what he does subtly, not obviously when warming up (this is my addition) given what you've provided about your r/s with him, I'd say he still needs to be mustered like a horse 😛 But chances are he likes you, imo if it was just curiosity and nothing more, we'll approach you much easier. We're weird social creatures, us virgins


I'll post more on the virgo board, its more relevant there.



Well,i really hope he likes me 😉 , i'll try my best to get his attention thought even if it takes 100% of my energy,i can get attention even from anyone cause it's impossible to not notice an aqua in weirdo action,lol
And weird is the latest fashion , or so i think,the ordinary will always be a little boring,so we aqua/virgo's can be proud of what we are , even if it's hard for us to approach,i believe that if someone is stubborn, no matter what sign,we can prove the stars wrong. 😉
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@ Lancer I wouldn't say that I rebel against things for the sake of it but yes some people are like that. If anything I tend to go by the rules myself - I do rebel against certain things but I have very strong reasons to do so. But yeah I could understand why that would make you want to punch someone in the face! It can be annoying! Of course you wouldn't but we can all get those urges from time to time!

@ BeatrixBecks - What are your moon and rising sign? Are you a Virgo in either like me? Because after I became interested in Astrology I found out that a lot of my close friends were Virgo (not all of them of course - I've have/had many friends from all sorts of signs) but a surprising amount. Which to me explained a thing or two. I do believe that any combination can work as well. It just depends on the people involved.
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So true Lancer, I've certainly rubbed a number of Leos up the wrong way in my time.

Hasn't hurt me though ..... and they've always come off worst 🙂

People prefer to follow leaders that they love and respect - kinda like me.

They will certainly follow leaders that brandish the rod of command, but given the chance they will turn away from them very quickly.

As to my value when I'm forced to go up against someone that outranks me. Well unless its the head Honco himself/herself - and so far it hasn't - never been a problem either. Wannabe leaders are ten a penny, but the people that generate the ideas that bring in the big bucks are much rarer and considerably more valuable.

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I loves ya really Lancer 🙂

...... although your sig is a little barbaric and cruel - Valerias soft and cuddly lion would be nicer

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Def right about poor quality apples in every cart Lancer.

I believe Ronald Regan was an Aquarian President

I will try to be a touch more open minded when dealing with future Leos.


Oh, oh, and if we are playing the Wiz of Oz, and I'm the meanie (in true panto villain style ) then i will have to be Liir.

Not really apt, but I'm willing to give anything a go once - and flying monkeys are so gotta have one.



Is still laughing at the flying car - the genius comic touch is the backwards 'r'
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I blame Milton Freidman for popularising the theoretical idea that allowed others to forward the notion that greed is more important than need.

That man was a first class cock.

Oh crap it all to hell, I just looked up his birth date and he is a Leo

Sarah Pallin is an Aquarian and she Sucks, balance restored 🙂

I'm gonna need some more dodgy Aquarian candidates to balance out any references I might make to Tony Blair in the future.

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Thanks Lancer, I really did want some more Aqua muppets to even the balance - wasn't joking at all.

Always disliked Milton, never looked at his sign until yesterday - and didn't want to come across as Leo bashing 🙂

I like the idea of Karma - but it doesn't seem to work as often as it should

Is Tony Blair suffering - erm nope. He is doing very well for himself.

I would like retribution to be a little, lightning bolt from god, quicker - even though I'm an agnostic.