Are Aquas generally credit thieves—?

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Ok so my Aqua and I are big into re-docorating, home renovations, DIY etc. We spend most of our free time shopping in home decor shops and building supply shops. We're also both very creative, in a very "out of the box" kind of way. I've noticed too that we tend to feed each other's creative thoughts...so I'll start on an idea (I'm Leo) and he'll expand on it and say whether it'll work or not (he's Aqua). Together we create some pretty amazing stuff and people are forever commenting on this.
BUT I have found that he tends to steal the credit for some things...e.g. my idea to use an olive green on the walls, our friends all compliment and he takes the credit; my idea to use wooden panelling on the walls, again we're showered with compliments and he pinches the credit. My idea to put mahogony cornices up and he takes the credit for the idea.
He continously comments on how well we create together and jokes about us doing The Block (the reality show). So he acknowledges a common creativity but likes to pinch the credit for the ideas that are not always his. I'm pretty humble about it and would never show him up or embarrass him about it, but I have noticed this little trait.
Is this typically Aqua??
He has a Leo Moon - I have a Leo Moon as well with Aqua Rising.
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Ok so my Aqua and I are big into re-docorating, home renovations, DIY etc. We spend most of our free time shopping in home decor shops and building supply shops. We're also both very creative, in a very "out of the box" kind of way. I've noticed too that we tend to feed each other's creative thoughts...so I'll start on an idea (I'm Leo) and he'll expand on it and say whether it'll work or not (he's Aqua). Together we create some pretty amazing stuff and people are forever commenting on this.
BUT I have found that he tends to steal the credit for some things...e.g. my idea to use an olive green on the walls, our friends all compliment and he takes the credit; my idea to use wooden panelling on the walls, again we're showered with compliments and he pinches the credit. My idea to put mahogony cornices up and he takes the credit for the idea.
He continously comments on how well we create together and jokes about us doing The Block (the reality show). So he acknowledges a common creativity but likes to pinch the credit for the ideas that are not always his. I'm pretty humble about it and would never show him up or embarrass him about it, but I have noticed this little trait.
Is this typically Aqua??
He has a Leo Moon - I have a Leo Moon as well with Aqua Rising.
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LeoAqua
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Ok so my Aqua and I are big into re-docorating, home renovations, DIY etc. We spend most of our free time shopping in home decor shops and building supply shops. We're also both very creative, in a very "out of the box" kind of way. I've noticed too that we tend to feed each other's creative thoughts...so I'll start on an idea (I'm Leo) and he'll expand on it and say whether it'll work or not (he's Aqua). Together we create some pretty amazing stuff and people are forever commenting on this.
BUT I have found that he tends to steal the credit for some things...e.g. my idea to use an olive green on the walls, our friends all compliment and he takes the credit; my idea to use wooden panelling on the walls, again we're showered with compliments and he pinches the credit. My idea to put mahogony cornices up and he takes the credit for the idea.
He continously comments on how well we create together and jokes about us doing The Block (the reality show). So he acknowledges a common creativity but likes to pinch the credit for the ideas that are not always his. I'm pretty humble about it and would never show him up or embarrass him about it, but I have noticed this little trait.
Is this typically Aqua??
He has a Leo Moon - I have a Leo Moon as well with Aqua Rising.
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LeoAqua
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I get you guys on the mirroring - I've noticed that in myself too. In this instance though....no. I never steal credit for something that wasn't mine in the first place. I'm very careful in making sure the correct person gets rewarded for something he's done. Even in the workplace, if someone has excelled in something I make sure it's known to all who the credit belongs to.
Last night we had a mate over to see the renovations so far...he asked who's idea something was and my aqua pipes up, "mine". So this time round I said, "no actually mine". He shut up.
Perhaps he just forgets....
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As for the eclipse and it's affects - I see it...
On his side he's doing some major renovations on the house - things he's put off for a while now. He's also making some realisations with regards the dynamics in his family (his sister is a spoilt cow - never worked a day in the family business but draws a salary every month, mommy keeps quiet and daddy can't see anything wrong in it)and I see it playing on his mind and I think he's getting to the point where he is going to do something about it. On my side I made the sad decision to allow my baby boy (my 13 year old poodle) to go peacefully without any more suffering. This has turned my life around completely - it just doesn't feel the same not having him there. He wasn't a family pet, he was my baby and 24 hour companion for 13 years so this has been a huge life change and it's only been a week and a bit but things just feel odd. So out of place - like starting over without him.
On a combined level between me and him, we seem to be drawing very close at the moment but there's a lot of tension and oh yes plenty of competition. So it's kind of wierd between us right now where we can't not be with each other but we're testing each other continously and maybe even pushing each other back and forth. Last night he pissed me off particularly about something and I gave him a mouth full. He played it down and dodged the subject but nevertheless knew I was livered. I eventually forget it and I saw the effort from his side to make it better again. Kind of over-compensating for being a jerk earlier. When we went to bed he apologised and so did I. We fell asleep but then during the night (and this is very strange for him because he rarely gives passionate kisses - has told me once that this is the ultimate form of love and intimacy for him and that it would hurt him more to see me kissing another man than actually sleeping with another man)he woke up and gave me the longest sweetest kiss he's ever given me...don't get me wrong he does kiss but it's always quick and awkward for him. Obviously the argument was playing through his mind and for whatever reasons he decided then and there to show, what is in his mind, the ultimate form of affection and love.

VERY VERY WIERD THINGS GOING ON BETWEEN US RIGHT NOW.....NOT GOOD NOT BAD JUST KIND OF REVOLUTIONARY—??