Boredom

I?m already feeling bored with Mr.Aqua and i would like some help in finding the right words to say this! Im naturally diplomatic being a libra etc, but Christ, nothing i can think of will allow to me say it without Mr.Uber Sensitive taking offense. What to do??

Well, its a combination of things! When we met 4 months ago, we spent a lot of time at my place, eating, watching tv, talking etc and at the weekends, we usually spent time apart with friends etc. Now i?ve had to change place and im sharing and he doesnt come round anymore..ever. He works a lot, and i know time is a problem for him..but i want a life together, not just coffee breaks and every other Sunday. I see male friends more often and that?s just wrong.

Its not that im looking to have daily adventures, but when stuff happens, by the time i see him i have forgotten and i feel like we?re drifting. Im doing lots of stuff, and so is he, but separately and now im bored of this whole situation. There?s love, but maybe not enough to keep it together.

No, neither of us wants a relationship based on a timetable, but thanks for the suggestion! We do do stuff on Fridays and Saturdays, but its a more general rule that we spend ALL ay Sunday together and thats cool, but there are 7 days in a week. We speak every day too.

I?ve said before, we?re both foreigners living in another country, he is an Argentinian in Spain..there is a HUGE network, plus the fact that he arrived here knowing families and with friends. Its different for me..i have to change job every 9 months, people come and go more often, i?m not a native speaker and for me nothing is solid. He knows if i come back here after August its to be with him (because he asked me), so i feel that with a mediocre relationship effort from him now, i might not bother. There has been a massive change in the relationship. He?s never unavailable, but he leaves things so last minute that i already made plans with other people. Sometimes he meets us later, or i go home early to spend some time with him.

The thread is titled bored because its my own definition, i dont want to see this going in the same direction as all the others, so a compromise is needed. Anyways im seeing him tonight, so fingers crossed that i can get my point across!