Breath of fresh air.

I've been popping up here lately. Hi. 😛

I've been freed from a long term relationship (engaged couple years). Since then an Aqua Sun/Leo Moon whom always interested me seamlessly flowed back into my life. Years back we'd talk frequently til twilight - sometimes would enjoy wine together and make out. We had a spark yet on different wavelengths at the time. We began dating other people, drifted, occasionally spoke.

My last ex had a chart full of Scorpio. He became annoyed and off-put with the alone time that I sometimes need. Always prying, poking. I need to recharge and vibe out. He was too intrusive for me.



This Aquarius and I aren't dating. We're taking it how it comes. We're friends first and foremost - romantically inclined second, lovers last.

He's the one person that I feel is judgment-free with me and encourages my independence. I'm NOT a tangible personality and indulge in various quirky interests. He's a positive person (I'm opposite), intelligent, and freaking hilarious. We talk about everything from abstract to concrete - history to scientific discovery.

He's dynamic and as lovers, appreciates that I switch from dominant to submissive (vice versa) without warning. He instantaneously adapts. He appeals to the feline in me, with always stroking my hair, back, neck without seeking sexual return. Romantically, he initiates - asking to see me, contacting me, dropping what he's doing if I need help. He expressed that he *really* liked me and emphasized that it was romantic - not sexual. I replied that I'm starting to like him more - because that's just me 😛

Whether this fades away and we drift, or stick around and feed the fire.. I'm enjoying the moment. No pressure. 🙂



I know I'm rambling - but I SORT OF have a point: I'm a douche and I'm sorry. I did the worst; I judged Aquarians and assumed the sign was emotionally reclusive and flaky. This probably comes from some family members that have heavy Aqua placements - I deduced, illogically. I created a logical fallacy resultant of encountering family affairs, flaky individuals, and being immature.

So yeah. I'm sorry. Big time.

tl;dr I was wrong. You rock.

Hmm and here I thought no one had anything nice to say about us lol!
Glad you found someone positive in your life!
For you to come here just to say that to all us Aquas means this guy must be spectacular!

Posted by peanutsNcrackers
Ha, wonder what this guy's chart is, we seem to have a lot in common in terms of behavior.

Heh; you used to be all over scorpios the last time you were here.

I can list placements but without Ascending and Houses.

Well, yes. I was with my Scorpion for years, and very much in love and happy. Of course I gravitated that way of forums 😛

Him:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Capricorn
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Scorpio
Asc node Aquarius

Me (because I'm a conceited Leo):
Sun Leo
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Virgo
Venus Virgo
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Capricorn

Seems like people who catch us love us and people who don't hate us 😉 I wonder why that is! But damn that sure is a lot of Cap!

Congrats on your friendship with Aqua. Having an evolved Aqua in your life is awesome....forget about the rest. Unless, you are a glutton for emotional punishment and have lots of time to waste.

Good luck, Huntress. 🙂 & have a wonderful christmas.

Posted by aquasnoz
Seems like people who catch us love us and people who don't hate us 😉 I wonder why that is! But damn that sure is a lot of Cap!

lol

Seems like a great start. I would just take it slow and easy and just enjoy. Aquas are very special people.

🙂 Thank you everyone
I seem to attract Capricorn dominant charts.

On a slightly humorous note.. his room is the dirtiest room I've ever seen. Slowly, he's been cleaning it for me.

We're going along with the ebb and flow. My Aqua grandmother says that alot; "we're just plankton going along with the ebb and flow of the ocean"

Hope everyone has the loveliest of holidays and keep around loved ones. I'm not sure if there are other Grinches around (like I), but try to enjoy the season in your own fashion 😉

Posted by Huntress
🙂 Thank you everyone
I seem to attract Capricorn dominant charts.

On a slightly humorous note.. his room is the dirtiest room I've ever seen. Slowly, he's been cleaning it for me.

We're going along with the ebb and flow. My Aqua grandmother says that alot; "we're just plankton going along with the ebb and flow of the ocean"

Guilty as charged. I much prefer to call it organised chaos.

Posted by aquasnoz

Posted by Huntress
🙂 Thank you everyone
I seem to attract Capricorn dominant charts.

On a slightly humorous note.. his room is the dirtiest room I've ever seen. Slowly, he's been cleaning it for me.

We're going along with the ebb and flow. My Aqua grandmother says that alot; "we're just plankton going along with the ebb and flow of the ocean"

Guilty as charged. I much prefer to call it organised chaos.

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Pfff goodness gracious, ladyyyy, one of my husbands dominant planet is the SUN! and lady.....talk about lazying around like a LION 😄 😄 I love it though. Purrrrs.

I have almost the same chart as Him... except Moon and Mercury
🙂

I have the exact placements as him except for my Sun:Scorpio and Moon:Virgo
...most don't believe me to be a Scorpio since i'm so relaxed and not nearly as intense.

Bumping the old thread of mine... We're official. He's really serious about this and regularly shows emotion, externally - more than me. Aqua even surprised me by admitting that he thought he'd scare ME off with how serious he is about this and how long he's wanted to make it official.

I'm really floored by this one. He's NOT budging despite my insistence that I'm quite a bit to handle.

🙂

Hurray, good for you. If we aqua's love someone its deep and unwavering. I am happy for you.

this call for a celebration! Happy for you 😄

😄 Thank yee!

We shall all dance at dawn!

Or you know.. just begin to fall asleep. 😛

I'll drink to that! Here's a toast for the celebration!

congratulations. it's always nice to hear when someone is happy. 🙂

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