can a aqua man fall/be in love with a sadge girl??

hi, ive dated this aqua man before about a year ago for about 5 months. everything was amazing!he even pulled the courage out of him to tell me one night while on the beach that he loved me.
ill never forget that for as long as i live.
a few weeks later, we wound up parting ways because he was supposed to leave for the military.
he wound up not going. we remained friends, but it seemed like it was harder for him to say those words to me. he would say them, but it was almost like id have to say them first in order to hear them back. we never fought, so i thought it was weird for him to say he loves me, then.. acts casual about it later on.
its like for him, saying it once was enough and therefore i should know that he loves me and not have to repeat it all the time.
anyways well then i started dating this libra, more of a rebound thing to try and get over aqua. i mean i loved this guy, im still madly in love with him, and its soooo difficult to just give him his space because i want to be with him and to be his, and vis versa...
but i know how he is and so far its worked, where it pisses me off if he doesnt act the way id exspect in certain situations, or i dont hear from him for days. i leave him alone, and sure enough, when i least expect it, there he is.
anyways im curious if because he said i love you to me, and we still are great friends and he does call-< even if its just a "moonlight delight"(what he calls it) kind of evening, at least hes calling me to be that person with him, and not someone else right. so that sould mean something right?
im soo in love with him, and im giving him as much space as i can knowing eventually he'll come around, and im willing to wait for him, if he still loves me like he says he does or were just "friends"....

sorry my question was supposed to be-> do you think he still loves me, or is in love with me, or do you think he considers us as just friends?



the chemistry between us is amazing!!! but he confuses me. i just want to know!!! but i dont want to bother him with it for fear that he'll get uneasy and then ive lost all chances with him... help.. please!!!

his birthday is [feb 4 1986] sun aqua, moon sadge, dragon(chinese)
mines [nov 24 1987] sun sadge, moon cap, rabbit(chinese)

Did you two ever break up...How did that go??

and NO he will not say I love you every second of the day. He most likely said it that time at the beach because he was leaving and he felt he needed to say it and he meant/felt it at the time. Im sure he still felt the same way after he'd stayed, but the fact that he stayed changed things a little.

Im sure he still likes you though.

I know a feb. 4 aqua...the biggest geek I'd ever met. He actually looks like a classic stereotypical nerd LOL, its amazing. 🙂

hahahaha
yeah i kinda have that feeling that hes like that. like he said it in that time, and im sure he has a love for me but isnt in love with me.
we did break up but it was a mutual break up where it was for the fact that he was leaving, and we agreed to be seperated for that time being due to the fact that we were each trying to find ourselves, me going to college and him the navy, we'd still remain friends but give each other space to do what we needed to do.
thing is he left but came back only after 3-4 weeks.
then its like..were still friends but its not the same.
we dated other people and he thought i "cheated" on him, but i didnt.
now i dont know if maybe that has an affect on his emotions towards me or what...
we still talk, hang out about once every week or two and nothing feels different, really when were hanging out except the fact that we arent labled together.
i miss that though. knowing that im his and vis versa.
im willing to wait as long as it takes for him to come around i guess, but im fearful for the fact that i could be waiting for the rest of my life.
i know im young, 19 hes 21, i just dont want to bring it up, scare him off, and then im left alone with no glimmer of hope. this is why im in doubt...

thanks!!! that really helped...
it sucks knowing that i love him so much and i just want to show him, but in doing so might scare him away.
that sucks on so many levels.
i dated a libra after him and he showed me how to really love.. deeply that is, on a different level than ive ever done before, and now i have that mentality and its exhilerating for me, but basically a burden when it comes to aqua...
thanks again!!!!

i think he may be pulling back out of fear...fear of what he is feeling for you. i say just give him the space he needs and everything will be fine.