Aquarius men?? sigh..

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by al7isra on Monday, May 14, 2007 and has 25 replies.

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@al7isra
20 Years

I give up.. lol. I just met a perfect aquarius, and after having a blast all day,I said hi to him the next and he said he wanted to be alone and ran away. What have I done wrongβ€”? What should I do? I dont think he is a bad person, but he hasnt spoken since.. I mean.. yea... no more.. 😒

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@al7isra
20 Years

Yea I wont say nothing. I told him , if he wants to chat he will come, but I wont speak again.
The thing is, I truly think he is a good person at heart. Im gemini, so I have to say a lot, and now I cant, I want to get it off my chest too.

So if Aquarius says he needs space, it's over I guess. πŸ˜›

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@al7isra
20 Years

Geeze. I suppose you're aquarian too, and I never said glued at the hip. What I am wondering if he will come talk again or not, because if there's a chance, im will be happy, but if not, then I just want to move on. I dont want to be glued to no one myself and I have things going on too, so dont even say that, its not the case. Like I said, I wasnt overbearing, maybe overfriendly, and he freaked out.

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@al7isra
20 Years

That fact that you said "what's in it for him" ?? Excuse me, but no one asked what's in it for me? ..egoist..

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@al7isra
20 Years

Nothing in it for me. I just like eccentric people and I like to make people happy. I went out of my way, broke my bank to hang out with him and make sure he had a good time. The next day, it's like we dont know eachother. I was puzzled. I dont ask for anything back except for him to treat me like I am a person too. I dont want his space.

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@al7isra
20 Years

argument aside, when an aquarius says he needs space, does he usually initiate contact later? does he miss the person? or what? that is all I wanted to know. Thanks!

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@al7isra
20 Years

i would start referring to him more as a person, if he would allow me to get to know him more. oh wait.. he needs a 3 mile space. 😒

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@al7isra
20 Years

besides, this site is for me to talk about astrology, that is what i am asking, if you wish to discuss just relationships, not based on signs, then you can post on other boards, and i can see, that you are incapable of answering my question, which is alright.

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@al7isra
20 Years

"Ask any Aqua here if they like being stereotyped " you just stereotyped yourself. I rest my case πŸ˜› hahaha

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

"argument aside, when an aquarius says he needs space, does he usually initiate contact later? does he miss the person? or what? that is all I wanted to know. Thanks!"

-yes, he will come back around, more than likely. when he says he needs space...he just needs space...that's all. don't take it personally because it is nothing against you. this is how aqua men are by nature...they need to have space and live their life. it's a good thing, actually!

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@tiki33
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Wow you sorta got beat up over this question!

well in my opinion Aquas the ones I know aren't that impressed by things, we love the unusual, eccentric, in some cases the bizarre, in most cases a good dinner and some stimulating conversation and a good movie runs up our alley, so you breaking your bank more than likely didn't impress your Aqua, he's more interested in you as a person than the fact that you went out of your way to impress him with a fancy date more than likely didn't give him the emotional rush to make him want more, he needs mental stimulation, so think about the conversations you had and that could be more revealing than anything about your situation, some signs you can impress this way and win him over but unfortunately most Aqua's aren't the ones to do this with, we take more pleasure out of a person making a card or taking us to a weird science musuem than someone breaking there banks on an impressive date, its nice but its not the be all end all in most Aquas cases.

Will he come back, only he knows this but until then relax and find someone else to lavish all that grand loving on.

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@al7isra
20 Years

Well, I appreciate at least one honest answer πŸ™‚ The thing is, I AM A WEIRDO! And we did discuss weird stuff πŸ˜› He said he enjoyed it, so I thought Aquas were honest?? Ok, its over. Sad. Life goes on πŸ˜› "What goes around, comes around" πŸ˜„

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@al7isra
20 Years

I didnt ignore it, you just came off rude. if you want to get your point/advice accross, put it nicely.