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Can You Define What Type Of Behavior This Is?
It's difficult to define behaviour in an undefined relation. If you know yor relation, you know your answer.
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It's difficult to define behaviour in an undefined relation. If you know yor relation, you know your answer.
Ah! Brilliant!
I am an Aqua. While I do have first hand experience about Aqua men (my bro is an aqua, I've dated a couple and a few friends are aqua males), I don't have much knowledge about Pisces Venus. But I can give you some insight into what might be going on in his head.
Aquas, especially males, absolutely love a challenge. The fact that he won't leave you alone on the sex issue is simply because you told him in the beginning how you felt, and how far he'd get. (Kudos to you, by the way.) His Aqua radar picked up on a conquest, and he most gladly accepted it...either purely subconcious instinct, or just to be a treetrunker. I'm betting on the last one. There is a chance that a small part of that, though, was one of Aqua's world-famous "tests", or "mind games" as some might put it. Some Aquas do run heavily in the test/mind game area...but not all of them. I will only do it either when I am first getting to know someone, anyone, or if they've seriously pissed me off. The reason I think he was just being a total treetrunker is because when you cut him off rather abruptly, even ignoring texts. Aquas can NOT stand to be ignored, by the way...he flipped his game up because the ball was no longer on his side of the net and he couldn't even play the game. By playing the sweet, loving card, he saw that he had caught you off-guard and so he felt like he had his ball back. Time to play again. Like I said, we love a challenge.
So he leaves and decides later that he's not going to reply to your text. (Just keeping the ball in his court.) Again, you one-upped him and took his ball away from him by unfriending him on Facebook. Just to feel back in control, and also to keep you forever guessing what's going on in his mind (us Aquas are great at that), he pokes you, then deletes his account.
As of right now, he thinks he's still winning the game, whether he's truly done with you or waiting in the shadows to see if you'll jump next time he says "boo". Best thing you can do...and trust me on this...Ignore the butter out of him, don't reply to anything he sends, don't answer his calls, and don't talk to him if you see him. Why? He's a TREETRUNKER, that's why.
Aquas, especially males, absolutely love a challenge. The fact that he won't leave you alone on the sex issue is simply because you told him in the beginning how you felt, and how far he'd get. (Kudos to you, by the way.) His Aqua radar picked up on a conquest, and he most gladly accepted it...either purely subconcious instinct, or just to be a treetrunker. I'm betting on the last one. There is a chance that a small part of that, though, was one of Aqua's world-famous "tests", or "mind games" as some might put it. Some Aquas do run heavily in the test/mind game area...but not all of them. I will only do it either when I am first getting to know someone, anyone, or if they've seriously pissed me off. The reason I think he was just being a total treetrunker is because when you cut him off rather abruptly, even ignoring texts. Aquas can NOT stand to be ignored, by the way...he flipped his game up because the ball was no longer on his side of the net and he couldn't even play the game. By playing the sweet, loving card, he saw that he had caught you off-guard and so he felt like he had his ball back. Time to play again. Like I said, we love a challenge.
So he leaves and decides later that he's not going to reply to your text. (Just keeping the ball in his court.) Again, you one-upped him and took his ball away from him by unfriending him on Facebook. Just to feel back in control, and also to keep you forever guessing what's going on in his mind (us Aquas are great at that), he pokes you, then deletes his account.
As of right now, he thinks he's still winning the game, whether he's truly done with you or waiting in the shadows to see if you'll jump next time he says "boo". Best thing you can do...and trust me on this...Ignore the butter out of him, don't reply to anything he sends, don't answer his calls, and don't talk to him if you see him. Why? He's a TREETRUNKER, that's why.
Thank you for your feedback...So it was like a game to him what an asshole. Yeah i will ignore him and i reckon he will send me a text in a couple of months or something like a loser. I will completely blank it and delete it straight away. I have learnt so much from this and its finally game over 🙂
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