19virgo76
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Confused, help please
I don't think aquarius as a sign is nostalgic, at least I'm not. If he has cancer placements, then disregard what I'm saying because that's a game changer placement.
If I ever encounter good friends/ex-love interests/exes from the past, I am pleasant and I make grand comments like "Oh, it was lovely seeing you", "We used to laugh so much", "We had such a good time together", "It was one of the best times of my life". I would reminisce with them in the moment because I don't know what else to do other than that. I am guilty of making someone feel like they mean so much to me, but in reality I don't really care as much :S
In the moment, I'll be very pleasant and literally make you feel special, but then out of sight, out of mind. I have no interest in people from my past, even though they were all great to me when I was with them. That's where the aqua detachment comes from. I was never trulllyyyyyyyyyy attached to any of them or can't seem to attach myself to anyone like that.
Check out that thread called "Friends with exes" or something like that in the relationships forum. Case in point, don't be friends with exes because this is what happens.
If I ever encounter good friends/ex-love interests/exes from the past, I am pleasant and I make grand comments like "Oh, it was lovely seeing you", "We used to laugh so much", "We had such a good time together", "It was one of the best times of my life". I would reminisce with them in the moment because I don't know what else to do other than that. I am guilty of making someone feel like they mean so much to me, but in reality I don't really care as much :S
In the moment, I'll be very pleasant and literally make you feel special, but then out of sight, out of mind. I have no interest in people from my past, even though they were all great to me when I was with them. That's where the aqua detachment comes from. I was never trulllyyyyyyyyyy attached to any of them or can't seem to attach myself to anyone like that.
Check out that thread called "Friends with exes" or something like that in the relationships forum. Case in point, don't be friends with exes because this is what happens.
Posted by AquaMermaidI totally agree with you, but I wouldn't even be prompted to sweettalk such a backstabber when I cross paths with them. So, why the front when he saw her?Posted by 19virgo76
He is upset though because I dated one of his best friends for 2 years which I just recently broke up with. He still seems very hurt over it
That is the ultimate betrayal. I'm Cancer moon and Scorpio dominant and if you would have done anything like that to me, you would be dead or non-existent to me. Atleast your Aqua ex is being decent about it. Once you break my heart, I'm NEVER taking you back.click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidEven if you'd been broke up for a while before they started dating the friend?Posted by 19virgo76
He is upset though because I dated one of his best friends for 2 years which I just recently broke up with. He still seems very hurt over it
That is the ultimate betrayal. I'm Cancer moon and Scorpio dominant and if you would have done anything like that to me, you would be dead or non-existent to me. Atleast your Aqua ex is being decent about it. Once you break my heart, I'm NEVER taking you back.click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidGotcha.Posted by truecapPosted by AquaMermaidEven if you'd been broke up for a while before they started dating the friend?Posted by 19virgo76
He is upset though because I dated one of his best friends for 2 years which I just recently broke up with. He still seems very hurt over it
That is the ultimate betrayal. I'm Cancer moon and Scorpio dominant and if you would have done anything like that to me, you would be dead or non-existent to me. Atleast your Aqua ex is being decent about it. Once you break my heart, I'm NEVER taking you back.
Yes! No screwing around with my friends and family, it's off limits!click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaid+1000 on that from me! I cannot stress that enough. You're dead to me if you ever date my family member or friends. I would disown my freind as well if they dated my ex-bf.Posted by truecapPosted by AquaMermaidEven if you'd been broke up for a while before they started dating the friend?Posted by 19virgo76
He is upset though because I dated one of his best friends for 2 years which I just recently broke up with. He still seems very hurt over it
That is the ultimate betrayal. I'm Cancer moon and Scorpio dominant and if you would have done anything like that to me, you would be dead or non-existent to me. Atleast your Aqua ex is being decent about it. Once you break my heart, I'm NEVER taking you back.
Yes! No screwing around with my friends and family, it's off limits!click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidHis moon would indicate the two facedness because I'm not that aqua either that runs back to exes.Posted by aquarius09Posted by AquaMermaidI totally agree with you, but I wouldn't even be prompted to sweettalk such a backstabber when I cross paths with them. So, why the front when he saw her?Posted by 19virgo76
He is upset though because I dated one of his best friends for 2 years which I just recently broke up with. He still seems very hurt over it
That is the ultimate betrayal. I'm Cancer moon and Scorpio dominant and if you would have done anything like that to me, you would be dead or non-existent to me. Atleast your Aqua ex is being decent about it. Once you break my heart, I'm NEVER taking you back.
I have no clue sweetie! I'm not the one to go back to my ex bfs. I read a lot of that shit on this board but can't figure out why they do it. Just go and read the first few comments by the ladies on that Libra guy's thread. It doesn't make sense to me. May be he wants to be "polite", who knows? *shrugs*click to expand
My ex aqua and I had been broken up abt 4 years when I started dating his best friend, and my ex aqua is the one that gave his friend my cell phone number and initated everything, I don't think he thought his friend and I would end up dating however. He knew his friend liked me, and it took me a while to warm up to him, I felt guilty, and I still feel bad abt it. It wasn't right.
He stopped talking to his friend during the 2 years we dated, once we broke up my aqua ex reestablished communication and his friendship with him. Just 3 months ago my aqua ex had told me he hated me, but then the other night showed up at my house professing love. He is still silent, I sent him one last message and wished him well. I wanna make another go at a relationship with him, but hes being so detached that I don't feel he was truly genuine in his feelings towards me.
During his visit he told me that he was gonna start coming around whenever he could, and even asked if he could come just sleep with me someday after he gets off work (he works midnights.)
I don't understand the front, what does he want from me?
During his visit he also kept talking abt his friend (my most recent ex) and the new girl he is seeing, and how happy they are, and talked abt their sex life, and other things I really didn't care to hear.
My aqua ex came to me, I don't even know how he knew where I lived, and I just wonder what his purpose and his intentions were in coming?
His moon is in libra if that helps.
He stopped talking to his friend during the 2 years we dated, once we broke up my aqua ex reestablished communication and his friendship with him. Just 3 months ago my aqua ex had told me he hated me, but then the other night showed up at my house professing love. He is still silent, I sent him one last message and wished him well. I wanna make another go at a relationship with him, but hes being so detached that I don't feel he was truly genuine in his feelings towards me.
During his visit he told me that he was gonna start coming around whenever he could, and even asked if he could come just sleep with me someday after he gets off work (he works midnights.)
I don't understand the front, what does he want from me?
During his visit he also kept talking abt his friend (my most recent ex) and the new girl he is seeing, and how happy they are, and talked abt their sex life, and other things I really didn't care to hear.
My aqua ex came to me, I don't even know how he knew where I lived, and I just wonder what his purpose and his intentions were in coming?
His moon is in libra if that helps.
Posted by AquaMermaidLMAO! Mystery solved.Posted by 19virgo76
His moon is in libra.
Well...click to expand
Lol I don't know much abt astrology... but heres his chart..
Sun Aquarius 8.47 Ascendant Virgo 29.52
Moon Libra 21.06 II Libra 25.55
Mercury Capricorn 15.02 III Scorpio 26.19
Venus Aquarius 9.49 IV Sagittarius 29.50
Mars Aries 3.07 V Aquarius 3.23
Jupiter Scorpio 5.14 VI Pisces 3.47
Saturn Taurus 2.39 VII Pisces 29.52
Uranus Libra 8.40 R VIII Aries 25.55
Neptune Sagittarius 0.35 IX Taurus 26.19
Pluto Virgo 27.10 R Midheaven Gemini 29.50
Lilith Leo 5.47 XI Leo 3.23
Asc node Pisces 12.21 XII Virgo 3.47
Sun Aquarius 8.47 Ascendant Virgo 29.52
Moon Libra 21.06 II Libra 25.55
Mercury Capricorn 15.02 III Scorpio 26.19
Venus Aquarius 9.49 IV Sagittarius 29.50
Mars Aries 3.07 V Aquarius 3.23
Jupiter Scorpio 5.14 VI Pisces 3.47
Saturn Taurus 2.39 VII Pisces 29.52
Uranus Libra 8.40 R VIII Aries 25.55
Neptune Sagittarius 0.35 IX Taurus 26.19
Pluto Virgo 27.10 R Midheaven Gemini 29.50
Lilith Leo 5.47 XI Leo 3.23
Asc node Pisces 12.21 XII Virgo 3.47
Posted by 19virgo76To decipher his duplicity, look into libra moon and what that placement is all about. Ironically, I mentioned previously that his moon sign would explain it and it is. Just read up on libra moon. To give you some starting points. Libra moon people are very pleasant individuals and diplomatic to their very core. Born salesmen. They Know exactly what another person wants to hear. They're also famous for being indecisive and stringing along their fans/exes. My Aqua cousin with libra moon is a total diplomat and a charmer. Will say whatever another wants to hear and keeps all his exes around.
My ex aqua and I had been broken up abt 4 years when I started dating his best friend, and my ex aqua is the one that gave his friend my cell phone number and initated everything, I don't think he thought his friend and I would end up dating however. He knew his friend liked me, and it took me a while to warm up to him, I felt guilty, and I still feel bad abt it. It wasn't right.
He stopped talking to his friend during the 2 years we dated, once we broke up my aqua ex reestablished communication and his friendship with him. Just 3 months ago my aqua ex had told me he hated me, but then the other night showed up at my house professing love. He is still silent, I sent him one last message and wished him well. I wanna make another go at a relationship with him, but hes being so detached that I don't feel he was truly genuine in his feelings towards me.
During his visit he told me that he was gonna start coming around whenever he could, and even asked if he could come just sleep with me someday after he gets off work (he works midnights.)
I don't understand the front, what does he want from me?
During his visit he also kept talking abt his friend (my most recent ex) and the new girl he is seeing, and how happy they are, and talked abt their sex life, and other things I really didn't care to hear.
My aqua ex came to me, I don't even know how he knew where I lived, and I just wonder what his purpose and his intentions were in coming?
His moon is in libra if that helps.
Thank you, i'll read up on it.
So is this a case of him going back and forth in his head, indecisive abt getting back together with me...or is it just an ego boost for him, stringing me along? What do you think?
So is this a case of him going back and forth in his head, indecisive abt getting back together with me...or is it just an ego boost for him, stringing me along? What do you think?
It could be the following:
a) indecisiveness (to get back with her or not. Weighing the pros and cons)
b) keeping you around for a booty call/back up plan for when he has nobody
c) being a charmer and telling you what you wanted to hear. Out of sight, out of mind.
a) indecisiveness (to get back with her or not. Weighing the pros and cons)
b) keeping you around for a booty call/back up plan for when he has nobody
c) being a charmer and telling you what you wanted to hear. Out of sight, out of mind.
I have no libra placements, but I am guilty of doing C as well. Option C usually applies to all air signs.
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