Dating Aqua Woman- Need help

i am a scorpio with an aquarius moon and dating (getting to know, or whatever it really is) an aqua woman. I've been browing the boards for two months now and i must say that i have found this board quite amusing, insightful, and fun. Everyone seems to have a good perspective on things. We met six months ago through friends and partying together. We started contact with emails 3 months ago and then started started dating two months ago. We have been on 3 dates in 2 months, all of which have been fantastic. They have been mentally stimulating, intellectual, fun, playful, and involved lots of alcohol. I've made a conscious effort tp make the dates friendly, getting to know each other, rather than my usual dates of jumping in real fast. However, in the past three weeks i have found it very diffiuclt to get a hold of her. She went on a business trip for one week. i have been trying to contact her 1-2 times a week, keeping my distance as much as possible, as all of you have advised on this board. The attempts made the past three weeks have failed, in fact, we haven't gotten a hold of each other. First two attempts i received calls back saying that she would call me back. Latest attempt earlier this week i have not heard back. From the beginning, all the attempts of contact have been initiated by me. If you are interested in someone, wouldn't you make an attempt to call them and not wait for them to call you? I am confused as all my other dates usually blow up my phone. This girl fascinates me because she is so different in ideas and perspectives and i have no idea how she feels. I'm definitely willing to wait for something good, but i don't want her to think i am disinterested or have here become disinterested. Any insight or advise would be great.

hey scorpionking...

Im an aqua who dated an awesome scorpio stud for a year.... we broke up coz he was waaaay possesive but i dunno... we might get together coz hes a bomb and i've never met a man like him....

I'll get back to u in a minute... have some important things to take care of... i'll read ur post carefully and deff would love to assist ya in any way i can 🙂

ignore aqua female-works a treat- i am ashamed that i just wrote that

Primegen, I have found out and catered to the mentally stimulating activities. It has worked well so far. In fact, most of those activities are things i like as well (which it should be). As far as making the first move, i understand, but i am making all the moves! I think it is time for her to make a move.

GeminiLover- What you said is true...but isn't that what most people do if they are interested in each other- hang out more? Is it normal to date an aqua in spurts? Like conversate and hang out alot one month. Take a month off, and then do it again. This is all very new dating techniques for me. You people are crazy- in a good and unpredicatable sense...I'll take your advise and just wait, i hope you are right.

Aquaaqi- I don't mind chasing, in fact i like it...I actually don't like girls that chase me, its a huge turnoff...i don't think i have been demanding at all. She is 26 and i am 28, so we are both relatively young. She has never been in a serious relationship, which is very odd to me since every guy i know has either jocked her or gone after her. I think most of them don't have the patience to continue pursuing. She has this magnetic personality, which is hard to explain. In fact, i have about ten single friends that have met her recently, and all ten have asked me about her. As far as seeing her once a week, that would be awesome! If i can get a hold of her. I am only going to try once a week...actually right now i'm just going to wait, what do you think?

Eliza0012- I am possessive on certain things i really want and don't give up, but most of the time i am very rational....maybe due to my aqua moon?

Elly- i will ignore aqua female.

Primegen- i'm a bit confused on what you just said. You wrote that aqua women often "mirror you, so you have to take the first move." I have taken the first move and every move so far. Then "if you want her, you have go by her rules," which is what? What are the rules? i'm guessing by the actions so far that the rules are minimal contact. Are you suggesting that i be more aggressive in my contacting, even if there is no response at this point?

Primegen,

I have to say you described me to a "T". You must have a lot of experience regarding female Aquas.

Primegen- you are freaking hilarious! seriously though, after the few dates i have had, i have to agree with your analysis. i see exactly what you are saying. They do play follow the leader, in a way, almost like examining what you plan to do and if they are going to be interested. Luckily, i know what she likes, as I am sitting there throwing questions at her to answer as well. Funny thing is that she always gets more info out of me than i do out of her. I guess i have to be a mind reader too...

Scorpionking,

Yes, you do have to be a mind reader. Make sure you listen closely to what she says because more than likely she has a perfect memory remembering things you've said. When you least expect it, she might surprise you with something since you know what she likes. Don't throw too many questions at her because she is interested in getting to know you. You say she gets more info out of you. Does she really ask many questions, or is it that you volunter maybe without realizing it the info? Aqua females are able to get a lot of info out a male who we know likes us. I know you've shown an interest in her but maybe you should back off for a little bit for now. Take contact in a week or so. I'm sure she's wondering about you but wants to see how far you'll go. At least in my case, I like for there to be some mystery to a guy. She knows you like her. Don't throw too much emotion at her in the beginning stages as that might scare her. Also, be her friend first and then in a bit move things up. Aquas value friendship very much. When the Aqua girl is ready for the next stage, believe me she'll let you know. It will never be boring and quite like a roller coaster ride which can be quite fun.

hi Scorpionking, isn't really amusing to see so many aquarius being elegantly helpful and serious?

i personally never agree with the common sense that they r just crually objective and insensitive as they r always so affectionate, maybe that's the reason why we love them, for they have big heart and always help out.

i've read the above great advices from the aquarius side and believe they really telling the truth and rule. yet as a scorpio myself, if i can provide any insight from my side, that is, the No. 1 thing is to practise ur patience. yes i totally understand how u feel about ur logic, ur earnest desire, ur great sincererity, but if u want to channel ur emotion and energy,(which is always supposed to scare the aquarius away) to ur advangage, try to use it in a countertutive way. u know what i mean as a scorpio:p do it quick and fun, but decent and deep. sometimes risk sharp, but let her know that's for her good; invite interest, but not give too much; upbeating yet warmly sustainable, i not quite sure about aqua girls, but as i've been with a guy of them, it works ok🙂

hope u'll still keep ur self instinct when hiking into such a dazzling but advantous place of an aquarius's heart, take all the wonderful advices but keep ur own line, u won't be regret.

wish u the best and welcome all discussion from aqua here:p

Mystical- I try my best to listen closely. I read of all these surprise tactics from aquas? Can you give me an example of what you are referring to? I'm curious. I think I need to ask her questions because I dominate most of the conversation anyway. Also, i genuinely want to get to know her as well. If i recall correctly, all three dates we had 3 hour dinners. Long enough where neither of us noticed until the waiter came and said they are closing. She does ask more questions than me, however, I think alot of it is myself volunteering the info...damn you guys are good. As far as backing off, i was thinking two weeks or more. I'm not sure if i mentioned clearly, but the past two months i contact her about 1-2 times a week, just to see whats up and possibly set up date. The past three weeks, i have only contacted her once a week. Three weeks ago, she called back and said that she would call me back later. Two weeks ago, i called and left message. She called me back, but i didn't pick up. She left message. I called back three hours later and she doesn't pick up. This week, i call and there has been no response. Hilarious...its probably a test like you said. As far as throwing emotion, i have not gone down that road. i have strictly kept the dates friendly and plutonic, not trying anything (once again very odd for me).

aquabrandedscor- i have never met someone so brilliant, paradoxical, unpredictable, and genuinely care for other people as this person. That is why i am interested. As far as patience goes, after dealing with this girl and reading this board for the past two months, my patience has gone up tremendously. i like your assessment and i'll definitely be myself. Cause after all, you cannot be someone that you are not.

aquaqi- Come to think of it, i don't even know how to answer your question. As far as emotionally mature for relationship, i think that is definitely lacking as she has not been in one. I'm out to find out why and see for myself. I am not trying to get into the panties (although eventually i would like to). Also, where did you get from my post that "half of the guys" have done her? I didn't write that. In fact, i don't even know any guys that have dated her. I said that i have friends that have asked about her. Like asked me questions about who she is and showed interest in her as well. Would you date in spurts? Like contact and dates one month, take a month off and try it again? That seems to be normal for many aquas that i have been reading. Or would you lose interest? I have no problem waiting for something good. Let me rephrase "ignore." I meant less contact because you can't ignore someone that isn't contacting you.

aquaqi- i should have used better slangs. "jocked" means something in the context of "thinking the other person is hot"

And tell her how clever she is. She'll love that 🙂

Yeah and if you were a really good lover, well that would probably impress her too 😉

Hav eplenty of sex with them. DO NOT GIVE tooo much attachment ,emotion wise cause aquarians if they horny and wanna fuck a friend they will and hope u think the same "jus a friend". But once u start talking to them sexually u better be there to fuck em and make sure they end up sore. caus ethey remember the ride. LOL. Think i lieing,lol.

Nah not eighteen jus tellin ya. If you stir an aquarian horny side and u act on it they will fuck u. ANd yes u are right in terms of intellectual but once u stir that sexual side believe u me ,u wanna make sure u put some good loving on dat aqua.SHe'll remember and especially if she tells you her fantasy. And when u make da first move she will give in too suit,love u aqaus. In terms of relationship and being faithful das another story.

You see and i talk alot,lol cancer in me,BUt i feel i have gemini, she is drawn too me. ANd not only that she called my workplace today to report to me saying she wanna report me for calling late at night,lol. NA dwante dto know how my day was. That was baaaallllllssss,lol. But all in all she cool but i will make her into a freak since she never got introduced to toys yet.

what is dat!!!!!!lol 0_0 a blank stare?

sex ploy?hmmmmmmmm,lol.Conspiracy theory perhaps but believe me aquas love dat ,they sometimes deny it but they open up to alot of talk about sex.

primegem have u fallen for da sex ploy conspiracy

*primegen my apologies for the typo. Yeah aquas love to debate, and question,question,question.But once u folly them in their arguments ,they seem to yield a bit. And they reallly don't care about anybody's opinion. But they have points yes but i will break those points and shred it once credible. But they loooooove attention. Touch them once in a while u'll see how they coo,he he he.

The balls part?aquaii? Well where i work they record the calls and we take calls something like a technical department,very professional. But she said she wanna report"called my name" cause i called her late last nite and note leave a message and said this is soooo sweet cause she calls deliberately to get me specifically.SO the balls part meaning stating personal business over the company line.that is what i mean.

yeah and we talked about sex, and about other stuff, phones, food travel, and kissed her on the and touched her nipple . If i don't call then she leaves voicemail ,she said she is a jealous lady. But she leaves messages to know if i'm okay and would want to know she there.She likes how i spontaneous,i don't tell her everything. I can be mysterious sometimes. and i like my space and and i give her hers but i told her once i'm affectionate i will show u ,simple.

yeah jus met her aquaii, a week now