
londonlibralady
@londonlibralady
11 Years
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Posted by DamnataPosted by londonlibralady
but how do i trust him?!
After the title in the OP, you ask this?
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Posted by Damnata
I have 2 questions (in case you aren't trolling):
1) What's your relationship with your father?
2) What does your chart look like? Because I feel Virgo/6th house.
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal<BR>
Input the birth data and scroll down til you see a table.
Tell me what's written there
Sun ..
Moon..
Mercury...
etc

Posted by aquasnoz
Like honestly, all this being nice to you, have you thought he was just trying to make sure he could get in your pants? Once he does wouldn't there be that lingering suspicion he's onto the next girl that he's not telling you about.


Posted by Damnata
Ugh Libra stellium.
Read up on "Libra stellium"
It makes you indecisive.
Posted by Impulsv
Ok let's analyze
He lies
Cheats
Not a man of his word
Has no balls
Indecisive
Deceptive to partner
Deceptive to u
Why do u want this?
Keep ur energy on the other romantic interest. Don't waste ur energy even in Freindship


Posted by londonlibraladyPosted by aquasnoz
Like honestly, all this being nice to you, have you thought he was just trying to make sure he could get in your pants? Once he does wouldn't there be that lingering suspicion he's onto the next girl that he's not telling you about.
Well thats the thing, i gave him so many opportunities to get in my pants, (before i was romantically interested in someone else), and he never did!! I'm quite sure he does want to get into my pants though, but he was always happiest talking to me instead.click to expand



Posted by londonlibralady
hmmm yes i know......it sounds silly... i just feel like i want to give him another chance... i can never tell whether i'm overreacting about a situation or not!
i just want to know what other people would do in my shoes...


Posted by Sugarfoot
Wow. Denial is real. How is it the pot calling the kettle black or cheating when she clearly stated that she has a new love interest in the OP? I can see that maybe she was keeping her options open. But, how does that somehow negate everything he did? Lol. And if, she'd never asked him was he in a relationship, would he have ever told her? Probably not.
@london
It's good to forgive people but I am agreed with the majority that he's not worth keeping around as a friend. Friends will be real with you. This guy is more concerned about getting what he wants from people than giving them the respect of honesty. Focus on yourself and the Leo and remove the attachment with this aqua.

Posted by WolfMoon
YOU HAVE A CAP MOON!! SHUT THIS SHIT DOWN, WOMAN!! CAP- style


Posted by james tate
PESTILENCE, DISEASE, AND WAR
HAUNT THIS SORRY PLACE.AND NOTHING LASTS FOREVER,
THAT'S A TRUTH WE HAVE TO FACE.
FROM THE BOOK OF COUNTED SORROWS

Posted by aquarius09
He may be a douche, but you're no better.
1. You are not his friend! What you described isn't a friendship. It's called keeping your options open. You keep him around for 2 reasons: 1) attention seeking (he boosts your ego with all the flirting and compliments); and 2) in the hopes that he'll come around, which ultimately leads to you being a deceitful cheating libra to the other guy you're dating now.
2. You're emotionally cheating on the guy you're interested in now and the mere fact that you are offended that he's in a relationship and finally admitted shows that clearly.
So indeed, this is the case of the pot calling the kettle black.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
In the meanwhile, earlier on today you posted in the Leo forum:
Posted by londonlibralady
hahaha! EXACTLY how my leo behaves.
Typical case of the pot calling the kettle black😉click to expand

Posted by Sugarfoot
Wow. Denial is real. How is it the pot calling the kettle black or cheating when she clearly stated that she has a new love interest in the OP? I can see that maybe she was keeping her options open. But, how does that somehow negate everything he did? Lol. And if, she'd never asked him was he in a relationship, would he have ever told her? Probably not.
@london
It's good to forgive people but I am agreed with the majority that he's not worth keeping around as a friend. Friends will be real with you. This guy is more concerned about getting what he wants from people than giving them the respect of honesty. Focus on yourself and the Leo and remove the attachment with this aqua.

Posted by aquasnoz
If you can find out for me, his chart, I have a theory. Time isn't necessary though it'll be more accurate. It's sorta along the lines of wanting to be too nice and love addict.




Posted by aquapiscescusp
Just an observation...
Aquas tend to be long winded, I must be the exception!


Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquapiscescusp
Just an observation...
Aquas tend to be long winded, I must be the exception!
same here. i dislike overtly chatty people in real life. Typing and writing i can tell too, like krysenee is overtly windy even though we don't know how she talks. But she can plug out an entire ESSAY of 15 pages of relationship guidance.
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Posted by aquarius09
Let's be honest: if the aqua left his gf and came to you, would you leave your Leo and go to the aqua? Yes, you will. Especially given that you are hurting over what he did back when you were dating. If I was dating a new guy who I was really into, it wouldn't matter what an ex lover did. I'd be indifferent, but I would go cuss off the ex lover for double crossing me and dismiss him. You should be glad you found this out and leave his ass in the dust. Instead you are venting, and about what? Your emotions here indicate that you have feelings for him and he's not just a friend. He's your side guy that you keep in the hopes of coming around.
Self-awareness is a powerful and enlightening thing. If you were honest with yourself, this post wouldn't be created.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquapiscescusp
Just an observation...
Aquas tend to be long winded, I must be the exception!
same here. i dislike overtly chatty people in real life. Typing and writing i can tell too, like krysenee is overtly windy even though we don't know how she talks. But she can plug out an entire ESSAY of 15 pages of relationship guidance.
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Backbiting, are you? lol. Well, that's because you're plain dumb! lol. Intelligent people like Krys are long winded because it takes a lot longer to articulate their thoughts as there's so much to say.
I mean don't get me wrong, dumb people like yourself are long winded too, but it ain't a pretty sight. It's really dreadful. lol. If you ever went on a rant, God help us all because it would be a rant filled with pure irrelevant shit containing celeb or your one and only friend's (hubby) comparisons. I'm scared just thinking about that. Anyway, thank you for not being long winded.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquapiscescusp
Just an observation...
Aquas tend to be long winded, I must be the exception!
same here. i dislike overtly chatty people in real life. Typing and writing i can tell too, like krysenee is overtly windy even though we don't know how she talks. But she can plug out an entire ESSAY of 15 pages of relationship guidance.
.
Backbiting, are you? lol. Well, that's because you're plain dumb! lol. Intelligent people like Krys are long winded because it takes a lot longer to articulate their thoughts as there's so much to say.
I mean don't get me wrong, dumb people like yourself are long winded too, but it ain't a pretty sight. It's really dreadful. lol. If you ever went on a rant, God help us all because it would be a rant filled with pure irrelevant shit containing celeb or your one and only friend's (hubby) comparisons. I'm scared just thinking about that. Anyway, thank you for not being long winded.
i wonder why you're so quick to defend her? i don't like chatty ass people in real life, i don't give a fuck. Maybe cause you're a chatty ass yourself and i doubt anyone would marry you, because lo and behold, bitch...you're still single even after a year here bitching and moaning with your chatty ass self. i don't like your energy and you don't like me. So..here's a clue. Fuck you bitch.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8
man if we were face to face in real life....god damnn.....we'd go to blows!!!! fist fight and punches

Posted by lisabethur8
you don't believe i'd punch the fuck out of you?? i don't care. I've fought with girls before in real life. and i don't like you.

Posted by aquasnoz
My advice would be to let him make the move, let him own up to what he's doing and say and act no further on this whole situation. This definitely isn't an isolated incident, in fact, it all played out identically to what my step brother went through (He also had air moon/merc strung along with that pisces venus).
I have nice things to say about pisces venus, also terrible things, myself included. But fundamentally I really view it as a manipulative placement, master of it. Coupled with the other placements I'm inclining towards what he told you are all true. He wanted to be selfish without hurting the lot of you but backfired.
My take is simple, don't let that "Air" thing happen and keeping people as friends. If you do, set the boundary and definitely remember the fact the whole basis of your meeting is "attraction". You might view it as friendship but I'll tell you now an Aqua with that placement will never let you know his true intention.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8
man if we were face to face in real life....god damnn.....we'd go to blows!!!! fist fight and punches
Yeah, because you're mentally unstable and you proved my point with your rant. lol.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8
you don't believe i'd punch the fuck out of you?? i don't care. I've fought with girls before in real life. and i don't like you.
I had a feeling you were a trashy ghetto chick. lol. Thanks for confirming it.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8
you don't believe i'd punch the fuck out of you?? i don't care. I've fought with girls before in real life. and i don't like you.
I had a feeling you were a trashy ghetto chick. lol. Thanks for confirming it.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8
you don't believe i'd punch the fuck out of you?? i don't care. I've fought with girls before in real life. and i don't like you.
I had a feeling you were a trashy ghetto chick. lol. Thanks for confirming it.
that's right, cunt face. Pussy ass dog woman.
i'm as trashy as all hell so why the fuck are you engaging with me?? You love trashy women don't you?
keep it up.click to expand
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Anyway, we were talking yesterday, and i joked about saying it would be nice to hang out with him again before christmas, and he replied "perhaps" which really irritated me, so i said, "god you really don't want to meet up again do you? this is really weird, are you in a relationship or something?!"
he said "basically yes". i was so shocked. he said he'd been in a relationship for over a year, with a girl, and was still with her whilst dating me, and that's why he stopped meeting up with me, because he felt bad. he said he's been trying to break up with her for months but doesn't want to hurt her feelings and admits he doesn't have the balls to do it. i said "why did you even date me if you were in a relationship" he said "i thought i would have broken up with her by the time we dated and you were so gorgeous i couldn't resist" then he said "i hated keeping you in the dark about all of this. i am going to break up with her soon". i asked 2 or 3 times why he wanted to break up with her, and he wouldn't give me a reason, which made me think, he is probably lying. i then got angry for about 3 hours, telling him he's disgusting and an idiot, telling him to be honest with his girlfriend, i really laid into him, and he took it all on his chin, and agreed with me and apologised. he kept apologising and i just stopped answering his texts. he has made numerous attempts to start conversations with me