did i screw up a bit?

ok so ive been completely head over heels for this new aqua man (im going on my third one) haha the past few weeks.
of course i know from experience that its best to leave them alone when they want space.
we went on our first date last night. amazing!
we have been talking a while and feel really comfortable around each other. anyways..
before leaving, he went in for a kiss, and i kinda backed away. not in a prominant ewww! no way! kinda backing away, but a hey.. there buddy..whats..up?
haha kinda way. anywhoo. so aftwrward i felt bad, but shruged it off.
next morning i text him "gmorning

yeah you are right. the reason why we text is because he is in the military and where his barracks are, the reception is really bad. so therefore we text.

i dunno. we always said gmorning to each other before.. i dunno why it was soo different this time, when all we did was hang out. no kiss, no nothing serious.
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yeah. i mean we hung out before but .. yeah.. i guess it was since we ate together and then watched a movie.

...basically ive royally fucked myself in the arse on this one eh?

well here another question, do you think he might contact me when he gets back or is this so far out of my reach i should just forget everything..?
i dont want to since we clicked really well...
uuhhggg sigh

🙂 you sound young?

Aqua or not, you want to study the person you're with and act accordingly, the thing is you're being yourself.

If you like full on in a relationship, then you wouldn't want to be left wondering and attempting to decipher every little thing that goes on, would you? give and take imo.

Bottom line is, what are your expectations? can you adapt? how long can you adapt for?

wow! thanks guys! well to answer your question zenachemy, were both 20. ill be 21 this month, and him next feb.
i find it so weird that im way over thinking all this but maybe its because i really like the kid.
and the fact that my last relationship was with an aqua (on and off for 2 1/2 years) just still resonates with me.
but the weird thing is with that one was that he'd always complain that i dont call him enough, i dont seem like im his girlfriend and all that stuff that aquas really arent known to do...of course i tried to keep my cool and my distance with him because i figured thats what would work best...
wrong.
anyways so maybe because this new aqua was sooo into me and always wanting to hang out and messageing me all the time, i figured, maybe ill be a little closer to this one...

ehh...
im ganna give it some leeway and let him do his own thing. ive got other things to worry about like my big 21, thankgiving and everything else.
maybe he'll come around before then..
i just hate playing the waiting game..
another thing is im afraid that because we just met not too long ago, if toomuch time passes and i dont contact him, he'll forget about me.
and to answer leokittens response: we have great chemistry. i feel completely comfortable around him and we laugh all the time! always somethign to talk about and hes halarious!..
which is why im so confused about all the coldness...
thanks guys!!!

I'm with LK with the needy part...What I can't seem to understand why have you already DECIDED to be in love with a guy that isn't sure about you yet. Your setting yourself up for heartbreak

wow i didnt think of it that way. i just really liked the guy.. but i think your right.
i am setting myself up for heartbreak if i keep thinking like this.
so im just ganna go with the flow.
im ganna do my own thing like it was before and if he contacts me, then so be it.
either way im ganna try and put all this aside.

gosh.. is this just a bad time of the year for me? haha my planets arent alligned just right!? haha
who knows.
lol
thanks tiki33

aww thanks cappywench!
yeah. you are completely right.
ill call him after all my bday shinanagans haha.
and ill just pretend it didnt happen. lol

hahaha. yeah.. i remember.

seaclo, if I were you, I would study the person I'm with, learn about them with a clean slate. he's not your ex-aqua, or my ex, etc, if you're trying to set pace, talk to him about it... if u don't want a kiss, you don't want a kiss, but discuss in the moment.

imo, I don't think aquas are the grown ups of the zodiac, that's cappy - they have good intellect and act cool and collected as the way you're expressing is not the way they will express the same until they get to know u or trust or summat . they are taken way too seriously because of it...

^^^ag, you wrong so so right also - erm what were we talking about ... oh yea, I love ewe all !

huh ?
don't think that's what I meant, I mean she doesn't have to act

whoa whoa what happened here ?

aqua god, hahaha married by the end of the year! hahaha your too funny!!!!!
yeah i am alittle afraid that i did offend him by backing away. and i know he would never admit to it, since i did ask him if i offended him, and he obviously said no.
its been 2 days since we spoke.. i think he comes back on friday...

im still not ganna initiate a call of contact with him even when he gets back. ill let him do that, if he feels like it. im leaving that up to him to figure out.
in the mean time im just ganna go out have fun and if he contacts: nothing ever happend. lol
thanks soooo much guys. it may take a while but im not ganna revolve my world around him. i was doing fine before i met him, and ill be fine without him there if need be. it was just nice meeting someone like him. 🙂