Has he given up?

In this guy's mind, he feels that he's doing everything that you wanted him to do. He feels that he's meeting your expectations. Well, imagine how he must feel to after all this time, assume he's been giving you exactly what you want, only to have you rain on his parade & give off the impression that you're still not satisfied?!

This guy is going about things at his own comfortable pace, but it's obvious that he also respects & is trying to convert to your pace too.

Instead of comparing yourself to other women and/or his past relationships, speak for yourself, not him, whenever you are inquiring about something. At this point, all the women in his past don't matter when you 2 are together.

Sounds like all of this is just a big miscommunication. Next time, just come right out & tell him what you want. If you don't, he'll keep going along assuming that he's doing the right thing. So if you randomly come out of the woods & unconsciously give him the impression that nope, he's done something wrong again, he'll eventually start to feel that he's in a lose/lose...and eventually yes, he'll need his space & THEN he'll finally start to question/doubt things.

Just leave him alone for awhile. Nothing you've said so far suggests that you 2 should be done or that he has enough on you to be abruptly done with you. But I think you 2 communicating right now during a time when everything you're both saying is coming out wrong, is just going to make things worse.

You both should work on "delivery" & just how you're going to effectively communicate your feelings before you actually say something to the other. It's also important that neither of you automatically go into this "assuming" anything about the other. He won't know your exact feelings/expectations unless you tell him & vice versa.

Ah, sounds like you came at him very passive-aggressive, which is a sign of insecurity and a turn-off. Instead of bringing up that you want to see Aquarius more often in a round-about 'Maybe you're used to immature girls" kinda way (that would piss me off too), why not simply initiate plans more often?

He makes an effort to see you 2x a week. You can plan something more 1x a week.

Make suggestions and tell your Aquarius 'this is what we're going to do.' Plan a road trip together or something.

We respond to women who simply take control and direct the show every once in awhile. But complaining about the situation, or bringing it up as you did, that's kinda weak... and it's contradictory given you initially both discussed seeing each other 2x a week.

If you need Aquarius to always be the one to plan something or you need to feel NEEDED more often, then you ought to move on.

Don't be a cast member, be a co-director.

Peace.