HELP!!! Completely Aqua-Confused....

Im not sure what to say, but if he went back to his fiancee, its possible he may still have feelings for her.. even after a big blow out.. if a aqua goes back its usually becuase they love that person. I would not contact him and let him contact you--and really ask and dig deep to find out whats going on. Nobody wants to or should be the 'other girl'. I would talk to him before you decide whether your gonna hang around or bail..

Bail.

Aquarius or not this is an unhealthy situation that's obviously causing you a lot of upset.

Even if he split with his fiance today he'd still have crap to deal with and you'll bear the brunt of that.

Bail. Fast.

Hugs xx

As for not feeling like the other woman - you are the other woman.

Whether you know her or not she is still a person - come on, don't treat another beautiful lady like this, you'd hate it if she did it the other way around on you, there's no need to treat people badly simply because you don't know them. Justifying your involvement with him around the fact that they fight isn't a good enough reason to see her as a nobody and continue fucking her partner. Perhaps they fight because she loves him and is trying to get their relationship back on track - who knows?

Why would you be interested in a man that cheats anyway? He'll do the same to you, regardless of whether you believe this or not.

This is not a good situation, it's horrible, unstable and fraught with anxiety, upset and bad moves. Be kind to yourself, love yourself enough to say "No thanks, I'm worth more than this, there are millions of men in this world and I don't need the crap that comes with this one".

hes using you for sex. Some people like sex to be romantic but its still sex. Hes ignoring you so theres no local gossip. Its important to not become the other woman and this is whats happened to you. Your 2nd choice not 1st choice and men like that always choose the 1st choice woman...you can tell if your the other woman by if hell take you to meet his parents and daughter..if he wont your a secret..an embarressment your the mistress. Watch Jerry springer and you will see the man always chooses the original woman and spurns the mistress saying it was just sex and comforting.......then the mistress says but you told me you love me and your leaving her.100s of episodes like that and 90% of them they go back to the wife and dump the mistress.
if you let yourself be used youll end up hating men dont do that to yourself