help help help!!!!

Boy have I got a good one...or bad one...whichever.
So I, in the past few months, have befriended an Aqua female who is dating a Cancer female. Now my friendship with the Aqua has become very important to me. We have a strong cosmic connection, and understand each other very well. Being a Scorp, that doesn't happen too often with Aquas (for me anyway, I usually scare them). She has a Taurus moon and rising, which I think helps.... anyway, I know a little bit about this Cancer girl, past stuff, which to me doesn't matter. I know that she has slept with a male friend of mine prior to being in a relationship with my friend....still no biggie. Well, my Aqua friend thinks that her girlfriend has never been with a man. I don't think she would care if she knew. ?? Obviously the Cancer does, maybe to remain virginal in the eyes of her girl.
She constantly brings up this man that I know and work with. I mean constantly. She watches my reactions when she brings him up. It makes me VERY uncomfortable, I do not want to get involved in this. I feel that this Cancer is playing a dangerous game with a sort of a lame ass piece. Who cares if you have been with a man? She exhibits some very odd behavior, and brings up this man to see if I know anything. I don't think that my friend has picked up on it. I know she wants to see if I know about it. So what if I do? I don't want to hang around my friend with her girlfriend anymore, if I tell her that she'll want to know why...any thoughts?

"I don't want to hang around my friend with her girlfriend anymore,"

Hi Scorpiogemini,

Your above statement clearly states the choice that you wish to proceed with. What is stopping you from doing what your heart tells you to do? Why on earth would you want one of us to tell you what to do? We are not walking your path - you are. Ultimately, this IS your choice, your life,.....me thinks at the moment you are not trusting yourself and feel more comfortable with trusting others with your life = giving up your own personal power.

Personally, I feel these experiences in life are truly gifts for they show us where at the moment we are with ourselves - this is about paying attention to YOU - maybe sit with your choice for a bit and see if it truly resonates with you - if by chance it does....trust in yourself and follow through knowing you know yourself better than anyone else.

Shine on!

oh, I have definitely made up my mind about this sitch. I do not stick around unhealthy situations or relationships for that matter. This is very interesting though I have to say. My Aqua friend talks to me often about her relationship with this girl. This was my first time ever being around the two of them together. I was picking up on a lot of stuff that I think might have escaped her attention. Now, that being said, I don't know how to converse with her about this seeing what I've seen. It was REALLY strange. the Cancer is 22, and the Aqua 30. She (Aqua) IS going to ask me what I think. The only thing I can comment on is how different she was around her girl.

Do Aquas wait to have things revealed to them?

"Do Aquas wait to have things revealed to them?"

I'm definitely not an expert all I know is from what I've experienced. I don't think they wait I think in their own way they already know on some level, they just choose to handle it their way.

I think you should discuss it with your friend. But first I think you should talk to your friend to see how far she is into this relationship emotionally.