Help me?

Hey can someone help me? About 3 months ago I met this girl (pisces) and I'm an aquarian man. We hit it of fine and went out couple of times. The thing is that she's a teacher and I don't have a job compared to hers, but I feel that we are connected and she does like me, she has told me. Sometimes I'm very distracted and spend more time with my friends and drinking and just recently stopped talking to her. Though she's always there for me when I need her I'm confused in these 3 months I have gone back with my ex twice but have broken up again. Can you help me to get my feelings straight, should I stop talking to her because I could never be up to her level or what?

Brandon,

You didn't say whether there was a several year age difference between the two of you or not, but it sounds like there might be?

Anyway, and I am not saying this to be a wise guy, from what you said it seems that you might not be at the same level with her - not career wise but maturity level wise.

It sounds like you may like her, but you really don't know what you want.
Until you do it might be better not to get too involved with anyone but yourself.

Brandon,
You sound really unhappy. I think you need to finish the relationship with the ex- before you can emotionally entangle yourself to another, I think thats what the ultimate problem is, it sounds like your not ready for committment, maybe you ought to be single for awhile, I know thats not good, but probably the best thing you can do for yourself. Also, talk to her and let her know you want to be friends, maybe it can blossom into something after you get through what your going through. As far as the imbalance of careers, I think that is a fear for many people but the truth of the matter is, its not what we are, but who we are on the inside that truly counts, but you already knew that did'nt you. Hang-in-there, being alone is very hard to get used to.

Who cares about her job, if you're an AQUARIAN. Did no one tell you we are the masters of the universe. (beat that for a job)
Go out and enjoy yourself, taste everything that is good in life, it is your life, make up the rules as yu go along.

tiger in england had it right. ditch the girl, ditch yourself first of all. you're an amateur and have no right to be going between women. Get a grip guy. or just get a hobby.

You need to find yourself do not worry about whether or not you are her level she likes apparently because of you and if you are always comparing yourself to others you will never have a successful relationship you also need to express these feelings to her so you and her can have an open relationship if you want this to work it can but not if you are afraid of the outcome just try whats the worst that can happen it doesn't work out you will learn from it but if you don't try you could be passing up the best thing in your life and the opportunity might not come around again so take it while it is there and don't take to long because it might dissapear while your at home being so down on yourself good luck Allison

If you are connected to her, than go for it...if it doesn't matter what you do for a living, then it shouldn't bother you..unless you are unhappy with occupation. Keep away from your X...the past is better left there. Look to the future...if this new gal makes you happy then go for it. You should even ivite her out with you and your friends...if you don't she might think you are embarrassed of her. I hope this message shed some light for you.