Hi - Totally new here. . . have been reading up on the beloved Aqua sign. I am in what is apparently a typical thing lately. . .the Cancer Woman hung up on the Aqua Man, and am just SLIGHTLY confused by a few of the things I've been reading and experiencing, and therefore have a question.
Quick Backgroud: Aqua and I were an item in high school. Totally into each other. Even back then, he was one smooth operator, and our chemisty was off the charts. The day we met, it was quite literally as if the earth stopped moving. Then, as so many angst-ridden teenages love-affairs go, he moved away, we wrote letters for the longest time, then he moved again, I left for college, and we lost contact.
Fast-forward 15 years and we have found each other online. And, as unexpected as it was, just seeing his PICTURE made the earth stop moving again, just like it did back then.
We've been talking on the phone daily, at least twice a day, for several weeks now. He lives back home in IA. I'm 1800 miles away, and am planning on a visit home in Oct. (He says he's coming here to see me SOON, but we shall see). I should also mention that BEFORE hearing from him I was considering moving back to IA to be closer to my family. And he is SOOOO excited about the idea of me moving back there (from what he says, anyway, and seems to have it in his head that we are sha
I guess one of the things I'm confused about, is that from what I have read on here. . . apparently Aquas will act like they don't like you, when really they do. Well - - based on how much he calls me, I would THINK that he's into me at the moment. Of course it's a BIT hard to tell becuase his conversations bounce all over the place - from being funny, to flirty, to downright naughty, to talking about the news on TV or in the paper, to the quick just-calling-to-say-hi-and-make-sure-you-are-having-a-good-day-bye. He says every EVERY day how much he can't wait to see me, and that he's been thinking of me all day. He's texted me saying "You know, I think I could fall in love with you" - which took me very much by surprise because the conversation we had just finished having was very "friendly" (not overly flirty, not overly romantic). So - if it seems that an Aqua IS into you. . . does that mean he's really not?
I'm afraid that because of the great history we once had . . . and because I'm fairly certain he KNOWS what a giant mush-ball I am. . . well. . . quite vulnerable to his freaggin' Aqua CHARM!!!
Do you know what his moon sign is? If you know his birthday you can go on to astro.com and find out his mars/venus/moon sign. I am myself a typical mushy cancer who is also head-over-heels for an aqua guy with with aries moon and mars and venus in sagittarius. The guy I have fallen for seems typically aquarian in that we have known each other for over a year and I have been through all the probing/questioning, and only recently did he actuallly mention that perhaps we should meet for a drink after I return from my three-week vacation in Europe. This guy is in his late thirties, and has never been married, but we have had the most amazing kind of attraction going on, which seemed to be on a physical/mental/telepathic level.
I think that my aqua is very serious in having been scouting me out for over a year and finally feeling comfortable to suggest meeting for a drink. Your aqua's behaviour I am not sure about--just remember that aquas always want to be friends first, and since he already considers you a friend maybe you qualify right away as someone in which he is ready to commit too in a more serious manner.
I think the moon/mars/venus signs will tell you more.
Do you know what his moon sign is? - - > His rising sign is Taurus, my rising is Virgo. His Moon is Scorpio, mine is Cancer. His Venus is Sag, mine is Leo. I've checked out a few of the compatibility reports out there, and everything I've read pretty much says, "Awesome sexual chemisty, love-at-first-sight. But, won't last because we are both too fixed, and will argue a lot. Will be very hard to get over the relationship, but will be amazing if it lasts."
8)Let your freak flag fly. We're not afraid of your idosyncrasies(unless they involve goats and bubble wrap...not okay). - - > LMAO at this one. We both fly the freak flags quite well, and I am SOOO excited to see what things will be like now that we are both "all grown up." *wink*
And for "Debbie Downer" 🙂 . . . No - he is NOT a factor in my moving home, and I won't let him be. My honest reason for moving back home is that I think it will be a much better place to raise my son than here on the east coast (it is STUPID expensive to live here)! He is, by far, the added bonus. But not the reason. 🙂 As for a visit before October. . . he keeps saying that he plans to fly out here as soon as he can afford it. He's even joked "Baby, I'm about to go rob a bank so I can come see you." I told him NOT to joke like that because he is, honestly, the one man on the face of the planet I know who is crazy enough to do just that! And actually, just yesterday he said, "Maybe we should just meet in Vegas?" I was like, "What?" And he immediatly did the "mystery laugh" and said he was just joking. (Vegas is farther than IA for me!! LOL). He HAS mentioned how much he would love to just show up at my house, out of the blue, and has said, "You never know, I might see you before you see me," (as in, I might be there, and you won't even know it). At any rate, I'm about ready to bump my tickets up to this freakin' weekend because I feel like I'm going to burst at the seams if I don't see him SOON!!!
10)There will be times when we need to retreat into our own space(just like you crabs sometimes need to go in your shell). Don't freak out or nag. We still love you. - - > I think this point rang true the loudest for me. In many of our conversations I've actually thought to myself that he was behaving rather "Cancerish." I can sometimes just visualize him sticking his head outta his shell, asking me some question, or feeling me out, and then quickly scuttling back. I told him the other day, "I wonder how much you're c
10)There will be times when we need to retreat into our own space(just like you crabs sometimes need to go in your shell). Don't freak out or nag. We still love you. - - > I think this point rang true the loudest for me. In many of our conversations I've actually thought to myself that he was behaving rather "Cancerish." I can sometimes just visualize him sticking his head outta his shell, asking me some question, or feeling me out, and then quickly scuttling back. I told him the other day, "I wonder how much you're going to actually be around when I move back," and his response was, "What? All the time!!" And I told him that I didn't expect that, that he's Mr. Social-Butterfly and I would totally expect him to be out all the time with his friends, or taking off for the weekend to have his space and whatnot." He responded to all of this saying that "No, when I'm with someone and happy, I'm a total home-body. I love to just be with my girl. Why would I want to be anywhere else?" And then proceeded to tell me, "Don't assume anything about me, you have no idea how I feel about you."
Maybe his Taurus moon helps out in the "home-body" department (altough I have to admit, I just don't see that about him. He's SOOOO social, and SOOOO much a party-guy - which, by the way, I think is great. I love my friends, and am a very social person, LOVE to throw parties, so I think in THAT department we will be pretty well-matched).
At any rate. . . he just makes his poor little Cancer's heart do the pitter-patter like nobody else!!! *sigh*
hey cancerlove!!! i too am a cancer dating an aqua guy... and i was reading about your aqua's placements...and he is my aqua's twin apparently!!! my aqua also has scorpio moon and venus in sag. i don't remember what his rising sign is, maybe virgo— not sure.
anyway, good luck to the two of you. keep us posted 🙂
Quick Backgroud: Aqua and I were an item in high school. Totally into each other. Even back then, he was one smooth operator, and our chemisty was off the charts. The day we met, it was quite literally as if the earth stopped moving. Then, as so many angst-ridden teenages love-affairs go, he moved away, we wrote letters for the longest time, then he moved again, I left for college, and we lost contact.
Fast-forward 15 years and we have found each other online. And, as unexpected as it was, just seeing his PICTURE made the earth stop moving again, just like it did back then.
We've been talking on the phone daily, at least twice a day, for several weeks now. He lives back home in IA. I'm 1800 miles away, and am planning on a visit home in Oct. (He says he's coming here to see me SOON, but we shall see). I should also mention that BEFORE hearing from him I was considering moving back to IA to be closer to my family. And he is SOOOO excited about the idea of me moving back there (from what he says, anyway, and seems to have it in his head that we are sha
I guess one of the things I'm confused about, is that from what I have read on here. . . apparently Aquas will act like they don't like you, when really they do. Well - - based on how much he calls me, I would THINK that he's into me at the moment. Of course it's a BIT hard to tell becuase his conversations bounce all over the place - from being funny, to flirty, to downright naughty, to talking about the news on TV or in the paper, to the quick just-calling-to-say-hi-and-make-sure-you-are-having-a-good-day-bye. He says every EVERY day how much he can't wait to see me, and that he's been thinking of me all day. He's texted me saying "You know, I think I could fall in love with you" - which took me very much by surprise because the conversation we had just finished having was very "friendly" (not overly flirty, not overly romantic). So - if it seems that an Aqua IS into you. . . does that mean he's really not?
I'm afraid that because of the great history we once had . . . and because I'm fairly certain he KNOWS what a giant mush-ball I am. . . well. . . quite vulnerable to his freaggin' Aqua CHARM!!!