It's going on 8 months since i've been talking to this aqua male....lately he been acting different...But any ways last night we were on the phone and he rushed me off the phone.. saying "I'm going to call you right back,I'm going to call you right back" so quick and fast in the middle of me telling him something...so at the time i was like "Oh okay" hoping he would call back....but he didn't and once i woke up this moring it was HIGHLY RUDE....I'm not the typical emotional cancer so i was unsure if i should address this or ignore t..i thought to myself....why ignore it ,If i don't say anything he'll think it's okay...so i texted him saying this "Is everything okay? because you rushed me off the phone nd it was rude,but this is the last time i'll make a complaint about anything" remind you i NEVER COMPLAIN TO HIM...after msg sent he called me and i didn't answer cuz i didn't know the right words to say...when i did i called back and he said "I want to apologize because that was rude,i had something to do,and the plan didn't even go through,i had to actually do it this morning" —? then he said why did you ignore my call i said " I didn't know what to say" he goes " I understand" then he starts talking about how he don't feel good and whatever...i wasn't trying to hear it!! so i said i'll call you later i'm at work.....on my llunch break i sent him a text just explaining about the misunderstandings i told him some things he do remind me of past incidents i told him i don't want to be that woman who complains, but i don't want to not say how i feel.....and hope he gets better....he didn't say anything back..oh wells i feel good cuz i got it out of the way... i dnt understand how he was so quick to call me when he felt i was going to drop him..and he NEVER apologizes when i tell him he did something wrong but he DID today for that...why is that? how do aquas act when you tell them how u feel or tell them you letting them go?
How do Aquarius act when you tell them how u feel
You got to discuss your points more with him. That isn't emotional. That is logical. If he can see that he's unfair to you, he will quickly apologize. Even the most stubborn and mean Aquas will do that if you can show that he was unjust, unkind and didn't keep his word. That's the hard part because you're right about accusation won't cut it. He said he disliked a woman who complains but it probably didn't mean he disliked someone who could speak her mind about what she saw. He actually will like it a lot if you can get your point across without making a scene.
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