@leila
14 Years
Help me understand this aqua!
I like to wait before having sex to rule out the booty call.
Aquas are unique and with a different set of rules, though. Whats the harm of one contact? See if he responds, if so, don't let it be a booty call. If not, then move on.
(I'm a Cap, by the way)
Then again, its only been a few days and Aquas can disappear for more and act like nothing. Maybe wait about a week. Then, contact him if you want. Best to let them come to you.
Aqua men have a completely different idea about sex than most other males of the zodiac. He can have sex and have no attachment at all, depending on what you guys talked about before you got together. Did he indicate that he was feeling more than friends before the sex? If not, he might have thought it was just a recreational roll in the sack (not to be mean, that's just them sometimes).
They need a mental stimulation and a deep intimate friendship connect before they can consider a relationship.
THEN, there's the matter of how the night ended after sex. What expectations were set other than "I'll see you later." If he felt even the slightest awkward or embarrassed, he could be saving face as well.
One "hey what's up" won't hurt. Just don't get too pushy.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Do you want too? At this point it just sounds like a booty call.
I don't think it is a booty call. We were having nice conversation before the sex happened. We have known each other for a while, then we met up. After sex he just gone.
Posted by truecap
I like to wait before having sex to rule out the booty call.Aquas are unique and with a different set of rules, though. Whats the harm of one contact? See if he responds, if so, don't let it be a booty call. If not, then move on.
(I'm a Cap, by the way)
Thank you truecap. I did send him a text and he did not responded.
Posted by AquariusDiva
Did he indicate that he was feeling more than friends before the sex? If not, he might have thought it was just a recreational roll in the sack (not to be mean, that's just them sometimes).
Thank you AquariusDiva. No he did not. He kept saying before meeting up, he liked me a lot and i am a GOOD friend of him.
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Its been a wile i have known this aqua guy chatting on line. After a wile we met up a few days ago had sex then he disappeared, he did not contact me any more. I don't know what to do, should i contact him or not?