How do Aquarius Men go about pursuing a girl?

SO right now, I'm starting to get interested in an Aquarius guy. Hes SO nice. Interesting, remembers what I say, and I met him a couple years ago.
Now I never intended to take it past friendship or just aquaintance with him , but he made a move, and that kind of changed my entire perspective on him.

So we hung out about a month ago randomly... I was free so I went with it. We talked, hung out, eventually he kissed me. Anyway, it started to get SUPER hot and I realized. WOw, I would actually have sex with him... wait idk what to do-- I didnt expect to feel this way!! I need to think. So I turned it down--- but that didnt mean I didnt feel an attraction (It's been a while for me, myself).

Anyway, after a couple weeks he resurfaces. I wasnt around the first few times but I noticed he'd have a tendency to drop communication after I respond? Like we'd be having a short convo and he'd just drop mid-convo.

So we see eachother again-- I'm not going to lie-- I initiated it-- thats because I'm barely around and I was that day.... anyway, we hang out and he's even closer than before. He starts getting all cute and cuddly-- suggesting all this stuff we could do together... I'm like wow! Alright- we're both feeling pretty good about this. I mean-- I just really believed that he was fun, a good person, very good hearted... and I felt the chemistry...... I wanted to do things with him agaain but we just didnt talk enough for me to be 100% sure. So it gets hot hot hot and I stay over, and hes completely seducing me... but I say no when we get close to doing the deed.. I still need time to think if i wanna start this cuz i have a lot of plans, i dont wanna get distracted, i figure i'll jus put it off...

so then i realize that i forgot somestuff the next day (effff man) so it made me have to reach out and get it so i can continue on my travels and with my life. anyway. i see him the next day-- and he was super weird! it was very fast and he quickly gave me a kiss on the cheek, handed me my stuff, asked me what i was doing the following day and i drove off... completely changed from cuddly the day before. so i'm like hmmm okay. maybe he needs space because he really started putting himself out there... anyway.. its been like a week since i've seen him and he hasnt reached out again... he seemed really into it but jus the fact he hasnt reached out makes me think what is this? is he a player? did he actually mean all the things he said to me? haa. well. or is th

Posted by aquaboy84
emotions rollercoaster. I wonder if he likes those type of rides?? hmm..

lol what do you mean!! idk when were alone and when he wants to hang out with me we usually hang out for an entire day... or the day til the next morning lol.. but when hes out doing his thing he doesnt touch base, well not as often as other men who have been interested in me before.

Best way to deal with an aqua is leave them alone...they will come to you 🙂 ...and also
Diversify your portfolio never concentrate on someone whose not concentrating on you...

Yeah, honey it doesn't appear that he's that into you. You should consider yourself lucky, you could have given yourself to him and he would have done exactly what he is doing now. Why were you thinking about sex so quickly? Why has sex even entered the equation? Have you met his family? Discovered shared values? Explored a consistent friendship? Why are you so eager to exchange fluids with a stranger? Men don't like easy women. You are practically trying to give it away and he doesn't want it. Very few people want easy prizes. Get some self respect and get into loving and valuing yourself, and never chase a man or initiate contact with a man! If a man wants you believe me he will pursue you.

He knows you're keen

Posted by Librawoman77
Yeah, honey it doesn't appear that he's that into you. You should consider yourself lucky, you could have given yourself to him and he would have done exactly what he is doing now. Why were you thinking about sex so quickly? Why has sex even entered the equation? Have you met his family? Discovered shared values? Explored a consistent friendship? Why are you so eager to exchange fluids with a stranger? Men don't like easy women. You are practically trying to give it away and he doesn't want it. Very few people want easy prizes. Get some self respect and get into loving and valuing yourself, and never chase a man or initiate contact with a man! If a man wants you believe me he will pursue you.

hahha. um. he initiated it. and i've known him for years. yes we've discussed values. yes i've met his family.

Posted by Librawoman77
Yeah, honey it doesn't appear that he's that into you. You should consider yourself lucky, you could have given yourself to him and he would have done exactly what he is doing now. Why were you thinking about sex so quickly? Why has sex even entered the equation? Have you met his family? Discovered shared values? Explored a consistent friendship? Why are you so eager to exchange fluids with a stranger? Men don't like easy women. You are practically trying to give it away and he doesn't want it. Very few people want easy prizes. Get some self respect and get into loving and valuing yourself, and never chase a man or initiate contact with a man! If a man wants you believe me he will pursue you.

and no actually i was far from giving myself to him, he wanted it, for a matter of fact he was seducing me. i was just wondering about aquarius character traits. and you're not even an aquarius?