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Aqua men dont like to cuddle/hold hands?
Mine's not touchy at all. Once we get going it's no problem, but we rarely cuddle, and NEVER in public. We're more like best buds. His Sun and Venus are in Aqua.
Posted by busyeyes88
Yes they are. My ex husband could not keep his hands off me!! Why does everyone relate every single thing in a human being as generic and down to a sun sign!! Smh
Thats why im asking. Lol
Posted by sultrykitty
Mine's not touchy at all. Once we get going it's no problem, but we rarely cuddle, and NEVER in public. We're more like best buds. His Sun and Venus are in Aqua.
And how have you dealt with it?
I jump him when I want to cuddle, hold hands, etc. I'm usually the one who initiates. It's always been that way, so I guess I'm used to it.
Although I will say that he DOES initiate playfully, like bump into me, poke, grab my butt. But it's always got a playful vibe to it.
Posted by sultrykitty
I jump him when I want to cuddle, hold hands, etc. I'm usually the one who initiates. It's always been that way, so I guess I'm used to it.
Dosent he get annoyed when you do it? And yh ive read alot of stuff where they said they like to be playful. Never serious & thats also like meh. Theres a time and place for everything lol monotony is boring
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Posted by sultrykitty
I jump him when I want to cuddle, hold hands, etc. I'm usually the one who initiates. It's always been that way, so I guess I'm used to it.
Dosent he get annoyed when you do it? And yh ive read alot of stuff where they said they like to be playful. Never serious & thats also like meh. Theres a time and place for everything lol monotony is boring
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Nahh, he never refuses, I think it makes him feel good, loke if I initiate it means I like him. It's an insecurity thing, I think.
*like*
Posted by sultrykitty
Although I will say that he DOES initiate playfully, like bump into me, poke, grab my butt. But it's always got a playful vibe to it.
Sounds like my guy.
I like touching things.
My aqua friend dislikes touching things.
My other aqua friend likes touching things sometimes but not all the time.
I guess what I'm trying to get at is... I like touching.
Posted by aquasnoz
I like touching things.My aqua friend dislikes touching things.
My other aqua friend likes touching things sometimes but not all the time.
I guess what I'm trying to get at is... I like touching.
Lol . Whats you , your mates and your other mates bday?
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we do 'touchy' things and enjoy them with the right person
Most if not all the time playfully like kitty and cap said
sometimes i like touching things
Sometimes its unconsciously
And sometimes i would back away from touching consciously lol woops
This one time with my aqua guy
In the beginning when we first met
Our elbows would touch when sittibg togerher
And id shift my elbow away
Then hed scoot all the way down to the edge of the table
It was actually kind of funny LMAO
But ywah i think it has to do wirh insecurity (rejection) or discomfort with affection/intimacy
But normally for him, hed be able to playfully flirt with random girls witj no problem
It just depends on the person
Posted by notafollower
Posted by aquasnoz
I like touching things.My aqua friend dislikes touching things.
My other aqua friend likes touching things sometimes but not all the time.
I guess what I'm trying to get at is... I like touching.
Lol . Whats you , your mates and your other mates bday?click to expand
Me 23 Jan 1985
Mate 1 5 Feb 1987
Mate 2 11 Feb 1989
I guess to elaborate,
I consider myself to be touchy feely. It just depends on how the other person reacts. That classic aqua standoff-ish behaviour, if they don't want to be touched even if they show it to me once, I'll never touch them again until they initiate.
Posted by aquasnoz
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Posted by aquasnoz
I like touching things.My aqua friend dislikes touching things.
My other aqua friend likes touching things sometimes but not all the time.
I guess what I'm trying to get at is... I like touching.
Lol . Whats you , your mates and your other mates bday?
Me 23 Jan 1985
Mate 1 5 Feb 1987
Mate 2 11 Feb 1989click to expand
that sucks. the guy i like was born between your mates birthdays (feb 14th to be exact) . and yeah it seems as though aqua born in Jan are more sensitive and that. 😢 im really scared of rejection. Once I had a dream that i was rubbing something off his face and he snapped, moved away from me and starting telling other girls "im single, who wants to be w me? , you look cute, want to date me *pointing at some random girl*" lmaoooo. fml
If anyone is wondering, mine was born Feb 11. 3rd decan aquas supposedly embody the archetype.
Posted by sultrykitty
If anyone is wondering, mine was born Feb 11. 3rd decan aquas supposedly embody the archetype.
what does that mean?
Posted by notafollower
Posted by sultrykitty
If anyone is wondering, mine was born Feb 11. 3rd decan aquas supposedly embody the archetype.
what does that mean?
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Info for you. :-)
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by notafollower
Posted by sultrykitty
If anyone is wondering, mine was born Feb 11. 3rd decan aquas supposedly embody the archetype.
what does that mean?
Info for you. :-)
http://darkstarastrology.com/aquarius-decan/
thanks beautiful
My aqua couldn't keep his hands off of me, very affectionate like clingy like all the time...it was welcomed and cute! 😉
Posted by AriesLady8
My first boyfriend was an Aqua. His birthday was Feb. 11. His Venus was in Capricorn. Moon in Gemini. Mars in Scorpio. In public he wasn't super touchy feely but when he wanted attention he would poke me or do something to get my attention. Then he would give me this baby face. Behind closed doors tho... He was a puddle of emotion. Way more emotional than me. A super pillow talker. Always wanted to be up under me wanting me to hold him. All his feelings and emotions would come pouring out of no where when we would lay in the bed at night. He would show PDA if we had broken up or something and got back together. Meaning he missed me I guess.
Thats beautiful. Exactly how its meant to be
Posted by AriesLady8
My first boyfriend was an Aqua. His birthday was Feb. 11. His Venus was in Capricorn. Moon in Gemini. Mars in Scorpio. In public he wasn't super touchy feely but when he wanted attention he would poke me or do something to get my attention. Then he would give me this baby face. Behind closed doors tho... He was a puddle of emotion. Way more emotional than me. A super pillow talker. Always wanted to be up under me wanting me to hold him. All his feelings and emotions would come pouring out of no where when we would lay in the bed at night. He would show PDA if we had broken up or something and got back together. Meaning he missed me I guess.
My bf is like that too... NO PDA, not even holding hand. I was upset before, thinking that he didn't take me seriously and didn't want to show off that we're dating. But when we're alone, he's completely opposite. He can't let me away from him more than 10 mins even I just siting and watching TV by myself. He will come to me, give me baby/goofy face, and hug me and leave me alone. lol I know he's weird... but that's why I like him.
You girls are lucky, lol. I've gone 24 hours not even seeing him before, and we live together! :-)
Posted by dragonjinse
Posted by AriesLady8
My first boyfriend was an Aqua. His birthday was Feb. 11. His Venus was in Capricorn. Moon in Gemini. Mars in Scorpio. In public he wasn't super touchy feely but when he wanted attention he would poke me or do something to get my attention. Then he would give me this baby face. Behind closed doors tho... He was a puddle of emotion. Way more emotional than me. A super pillow talker. Always wanted to be up under me wanting me to hold him. All his feelings and emotions would come pouring out of no where when we would lay in the bed at night. He would show PDA if we had broken up or something and got back together. Meaning he missed me I guess.
My bf is like that too... NO PDA, not even holding hand. I was upset before, thinking that he didn't take me seriously and didn't want to show off that we're dating. But when we're alone, he's completely opposite. He can't let me away from him more than 10 mins even I just siting and watching TV by myself. He will come to me, give me baby/goofy face, and hug me and leave me alone. lol I know he's weird... but that's why I like him.
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you lot really are lucky. if i had that i wouldnt want it any other way. its how its supossed to be, when they show off their love, people become envious and that affects the relationship. they are smart enough to know when to display their affection. That way you also know he truly means it and hes not just acting for everyone to see how much of a good bf he is.lol
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i find aqua men highly interesting but im constantly getting told theyre not the touchy type. So id like to know if this is true before i consider going in a relationship w one.