how do i get him to hang out with me again??

ok i was dating an aquarius guy for 2 months and i thought everything was going great until he disappeared on me without no explanation..he was actually planning to do things with me but all of a sudden he like stopped calling me and he ignored my last text..a month later i hear from him and he left me a voicemail saying how u been?? long time no talk...hope all is well...i dont get it?!?! why a month later will he touch base with me?? when an aquarius does this what do they want?? i plan on calling him back soon but before i do that im just curious to see what u guys have to say..also, how do i keep him coming back for more and get him to hang out with me again?? should i just be cold to him, ignore him or act friendly— advice pleaseee because i really like him a lot 😢

Communication is key...in terms of what you say and how you say it. This thread right here is a good foundation.

Explain to the man that you indeed care about him and his well being, but you are here for him and in this relationship (hopefully this has already been defined as a relationship or you have no grounds to speak on) and you would appreciate it he doesnt do the disappearing acts. They are hurtful but most importantly disrespectful and will not be tolerated in the long run. You are aware he may need some space from time to time as you do yourself (definitely add that part in, show him your independent) but a healthy relationship can not function sans one of its members.

Be calm, cool, collected, and most importantly diplomatic.

Now you can say what I've said to him...I give you permission.


Assert yourselves ladies!!

scratch that...your just dating.


You can still assert yourself, but ix-nay the relationship part.

detach quick... dating for 2 months doesn't count for a lot in this day and age when everyone breezing about so loads to learn about people --- not enough time spent together.

--- learn about him as a friend, speak to him about the disappearing act and your part in prompting it --- you'll know if you're too different or not. Do not invest emotionally in this, no matter his tempting words...


the mornign after often passes unnoticed --- always carry two sets of car keys

" the mornign after often passes unnoticed --- always carry two sets of car keys"


hehe...would you like to share with us Zen?? 😛😛

^^^ babes wish I had a juicy gist to back that up but afraid not - that's what my calender said for yesterday and today.... but I was staring at it while writing that and thought, it kinda fitted.

the mornign after often passes unnoticed

well I was thinking, she starts to tell him her sexual needs and before she knows it, it's all over, right? like the night before the morning after, most uncomfortable feeling but only lasts for about few seconds...

always carry two sets of car keys

well in case the most uncomfortable feeling lasts for longer than few seconds and you can't find the first key quickly enough, you can still escape with the spare keys 😛

you guys i asked simple questions -- where are my answers?? im not getting enough over here...lets get this rolling please! 🙂

...just find another guy and hang out with your friends more...what is your hurry to snag this guy?

Well look at Ms. Blue shoveling out advice already.🙂