How does an Aqua behave if a girl acts fickle? :(

Dear I wish I could help you but everyone is different.
Best thing for you to do is not think about him......
Get into other things literally....
Just keep yourself extremely busy..... You'll find it's a lot easier ^.

I think the fact he came back for you after a while already proves he's very into you. Depending on other factors aside from his aqua sun but for me I've let ones go and I've never gone back for others 😛 When you hesitated it probably didn't sit too well with him seeing he already said he's all in. All I can say is you should probably talk to him about your fears and worries, aquas tend to think about things very neutrally. Just make sure you tell him you need him in your life if that's how you feel because if he feels he doesn't fit in your life he might just let you go.

Have you ever let him know just how much you care about him? We are normally very intuitive but for me I never like to make assumptions. I'm not saying this will apply to him but when a girl texts me and talks about me in third person it generally doesn't click in my head right away so I'd be like "A cute guy? there's another cute guy?" 😛 I'm sure he knew you meant him but our brains get rather retarded sometimes. Best to be more direct.

Maybe there are different Aquas out there but for the ones I've got to know including myself, don't assume we always smother and know when someone needs us. We just need to be told that otherwise we'll take it as a sign you don't need us as much as we thought.

NotYourAverageAquarius! I agree with u, i shud juts get busy like i always do and just not think about it! Its prob what hes doing as well just like u said!

I don't think you need to worry too much about him wanting to help it is just part of who we are. I can't say for certain if it's because he likes you or because he's too good natured but just trust if he's investing time in you, you mean something to him. All I can say don't worry to much and as said before try and take your mind off things. I know it's easier said than done but just try.

I will say aquas love the attention, you don't need to open up to him completely but enough to let him know in a direct way that you're not feeling the greatest right now. We are weird I guess, for us it's just a matter of "we don't need to talk about our feelings" but when it comes to the people we care for it's more like "you don't like me because you don't trust me to talk about your feelings" *shrugs*

I can't speak for him for sure I know for me....
When someone is having problems or emotional ones especilly of it's a girl I would feel compelled to help and console.... And not be turned off
Now if your like this your whole life that could be different .... I mean yes when you have problems I would love to be the person you come to for help
Aquarius people love to help especially their ladies.
But I can't deny I and Im sure most Aquarius males as well like confident independent
Women..... Ones who can challenge us. That's why I think the initial attraction
To scorpio women is so strong anyways that's my two cents.

^ yeah I agree we are after all caring creatures 😉

We like to care about people, sometimes probably even people we shouldn't care about but it's part of who we are. We are often also people who take things at face value. I'm not sure if you are still calling him some cute guy but if he knows you're referring to him then I guess it's okay. Again be direct, if you need loving ask him to come around. He will make time for you out the busy schedule. He came back for you right? what makes you think he won't make time!

Take him not overreacting to your messed up state as a good sign. He wants to be the stable one, perhaps his intuitive side kicked in and knows you're feeling insecure and is giving you some time to figure things out, who knows! His virgo rising has probably kicked in and feels your discomfort therefore he pulls away.

I'll put it this way rather than generally speaking. You've caught his aqua side, you've managed to interest him enough to come back down the earth and spend time with you given his intuitive virgo rising and his nitpicky libra moon he has probably weighed more pros and cons than you have and he feels like he can be with you. Trust that if nothing else that he actually cares for you a lot and stop worrying about your actions and how it will affect him.

Stop the self doubt.

I wish I had a concrete answer for you.
I'd say what's it going to hurt to show him that your thinking of him....
Aquarian men hate games... But it does depend on how you go about it 🙂
It's not going to Hirt nothing to text him once

After all he has been the one initiating the whole time

Hmm. Quite strange this post, as my Aqua has very similar placements to yours. He's Aqua sun, moon Libra, venus and mars Aries but with Leo rising. I have Virgo rising and moon Aqua.

Leelaa....I find my Aqua moon to be quite testing and difficult with communication and my Aqua initiates much more than I do (thank the Lord). I notice that his Libra moon likes when things are flowing and balanced so when I detach, he'll seek me out. He clearly wants to be there for you so try to open up and let him (harder than it sounds).

For me, when my life is chaotic, I back off, go cold, internalise and try to get myself back together...without really sharing what I'm going through with anybody. But when I have spoken to Aqua about my problems, he has been so supportive and encouraging and has a gentle and considerate way of words which I admire. On reflection, I probably should share with him more but my Aqua moon is powerful and stubborn and makes me a bit of a loner. Try to break through that stubborn moon and reach out to him, you'll be glad you did, trust me. 🙂

well I have my moon and sun in Aquarius and I'm Aquarius Ascendant as well....
BUT
I have Venus and Mars in Pisces.. lol
I have two other placements in water signs but so do a lot of other people I guess...

Since you did initiate contact and he did not responds...
I would say wait IF you really get lonely I suppose if it doesn't matter to you what the outcome let him know you would like to see or hear from him more often... IF it does matter to ... I would suggest bringing other interests in your life...
Hope that helps

Noo he DID respond, he didnt respond to the 2nd text, then eventually he did 5 hours later. lol. What a teaaaase.

Mars and venus in pisces! Interesting, that must make u unique type of Aqua!

Yeah I'd say .... I feel like the anti Aqua sometimes w/e ^.^
I'm definitely calculating... I dunno I feel like it almost makes me Scorpio like scept I'm not so skeptical about people and I don't hold grudges per say... I suppose if the person never owns up to what they have done and they expect me to treat them the same that might make me appear to hold a grudge but damn... I know they know what they did... own up to what you did and we will be good... I'm not gonna act all buddy buddy with you just to allow you to do it to me again!!!