jellyfish87
@jellyfish87
9 Years
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Posted by stopbeingdelusionaloh my :/ did u fight since the begnning? what held you together for so long?
dated an aqua for almost 3 years. love-hate relationship. we fought 5 days a week. I can't believed I stayed with him for that long. it's the worst relationship I have had. mine never disappeared. but if i got busy and couldn't spend time with him. he asked other girls out behind my back. im a scorp by the way.

Posted by lisabethur8i know instinctively that your answer irritates me, but logically ill remind you that you forgot to answer my question.
I have a hard time taking your OP seriously. I mean you're a water sign so, you would know instinctively if this guy is into you or not.
Posted by Aquagirl2015how do you mean depth of emotion? like, in intensity meaning you dont go crazy, or in strength meaning you are fickle?
Well I'm an Aqua girl so things might be a bit different but we generally mean what we say. So, if we say we like you, then we do. However, I think the problem comes with your emotional needs? We can like, even love a person, but we can never get to the dept of emotion that Scorpios can. We just aren't built that way. That might be part of the problem you're seeing now.
Posted by jellyfish87Posted by lisabethur8i know instinctively that your answer irritates me, but logically ill remind you that you forgot to answer my question.
I have a hard time taking your OP seriously. I mean you're a water sign so, you would know instinctively if this guy is into you or not.click to expand

k it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015how do you mean depth of emotion? like, in intensity meaning you dont go crazy, or in strength meaning you are fickle?
Well I'm an Aqua girl so things might be a bit different but we generally mean what we say. So, if we say we like you, then we do. However, I think the problem comes with your emotional needs? We can like, even love a person, but we can never get to the dept of emotion that Scorpios can. We just aren't built that way. That might be part of the problem you're seeing now.
my emotional need is that of consistency, but thing is he's been consistently seeing me and talking to me. i just cant get enough luv and reassurance, and when i feel he's a bit different a given day i get unsettled. i think im part of the problem too :/ this is why im so confused about whether he really likes me. i dont know if its me being really sensitive. i always think of the worst. i always have a hard time believing that someone likes/loves me.click to expand
Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
Posted by stopbeingdelusionaloh man, that sucks :/Posted by jellyfish87yes, since the beginning because he's very insecure and controlling. i was not even allowed to have lunch with my female roommate or say hi to any male classmates in our class. or he'd throw a tantrum. i think his insecurity also was ther reason why he cheated.Posted by stopbeingdelusionaloh my :/ did u fight since the begnning? what held you together for so long?
dated an aqua for almost 3 years. love-hate relationship. we fought 5 days a week. I can't believed I stayed with him for that long. it's the worst relationship I have had. mine never disappeared. but if i got busy and couldn't spend time with him. he asked other girls out behind my back. im a scorp by the way.
we were classmates and everyone in our program took the same classes, making it harder to completely break up with hiim. also, if i skipped classes after we broke up to avoid him, he always just showed up waiting outside of my apartment. plus he's very good with his words and knew how to manipulate people's emotions. he knew how to guilt trip people and make them believe that he's innocent. he's a natural actor. i could never tell between when he's lying and when he's not.
on the other hand, he tried to create an image that i was the luckiest woman on earth and he's the best bf on earth (a fake image). he liked to publicly displayed his affection, writing me songs, sending me flowers, etc etc. for the world to see. Basically, he wanted everyone to see everything he did for me so that people not knowing the whole story (verbal abuse, emotiona abuse, cheating, etc.) would take his side.click to expand

securities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
we are exclusive and a couple, we had that talk very recently.
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Posted by Aquagirl2015
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
we are exclusive and a couple, we had that talk very recently.
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Posted by Aquagirl2015oh, absolutely. id never want to make him feel bad because of his imperfections. especially since he isnt being mean to me :/ thank u for your post, it makes me feel really good. ive been burnt many times in the past by people who wanted to be with me exclusively (not aquas), i hope this one really means it. x
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.
hahaha, thats for sure!
that's good. sounds like you have a more mature one. i think part of the reason we fought so much is because we scorpions don't like it when people try to control us. we are not very *obedient* 😆

now you spoke for ALL the aquariuans in the world. *Eye roll* Bye, Felicia.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Aquagirl2015
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
we are exclusive and a couple, we had that talk very recently.
youre one annoying woman, who keeps painting us in the SAME light.
i'm IN a relationship. You are not are you? so if you're too scared to be in one, that's YOU.
keep the rest of us who are IN relationships out of it.
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tive vibes! I'm sure it will work out. 🙂Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015oh, absolutely. id never want to make him feel bad because of his imperfections. especially since he isnt being mean to me :/ thank u for your post, it makes me feel really good. ive been burnt many times in the past by people who wanted to be with me exclusively (not aquas), i hope this one really means it. x
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.
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cary! Sorry you had this experience. Don't let it deter you from meeting more Aquas. You just got a rotten apple.Posted by stopbeingdelusionalPosted by jellyfish87yes, since the beginning because he's very insecure and controlling. i was not even allowed to have lunch with my female roommate or say hi to any male classmates in our class. or he'd throw a tantrum. i think his insecurity also was ther reason why he cheated.Posted by stopbeingdelusionaloh my :/ did u fight since the begnning? what held you together for so long?
dated an aqua for almost 3 years. love-hate relationship. we fought 5 days a week. I can't believed I stayed with him for that long. it's the worst relationship I have had. mine never disappeared. but if i got busy and couldn't spend time with him. he asked other girls out behind my back. im a scorp by the way.
we were classmates and everyone in our program took the same classes, making it harder to completely break up with hiim. also, if i skipped classes after we broke up to avoid him, he always just showed up waiting outside of my apartment. plus he's very good with his words and knew how to manipulate people's emotions. he knew how to guilt trip people and make them believe that he's innocent. he's a natural actor. i could never tell between when he's lying and when he's not.
on the other hand, he tried to create an image that i was the luckiest woman on earth and he's the best bf on earth (a fake image). he liked to publicly displayed his affection, writing me songs, sending me flowers, etc etc. for the world to see. Basically, he wanted everyone to see everything he did for me so that people not knowing the whole story (verbal abuse, emotiona abuse, cheating, etc.) would take his side.click to expand
Posted by Aquagirl2015
Oh! Didn't know you spoke for ALL the aquariuans in the world. *Eye roll* Bye, Felicia.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Aquagirl2015
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
we are exclusive and a couple, we had that talk very recently.
youre one annoying woman, who keeps painting us in the SAME light.
i'm IN a relationship. You are not are you? so if you're too scared to be in one, that's YOU.
keep the rest of us who are IN relationships out of it.
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ack and forth with you all day but in true aqua fashion...I don't really care what you think of me. So why waste the energy?Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Aquagirl2015
Oh! Didn't know you spoke for ALL the aquariuans in the world. *Eye roll* Bye, Felicia.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Aquagirl2015
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
we are exclusive and a couple, we had that talk very recently.
youre one annoying woman, who keeps painting us in the SAME light.
i'm IN a relationship. You are not are you? so if you're too scared to be in one, that's YOU.
keep the rest of us who are IN relationships out of it.
UH it was YOU who said, "aquas this and aqua that"
excuuuuseeee meeee. what are you, a clone?
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Posted by Aquagirl2015
I could go back and forth with you all day but in true aqua fashion...I don't really care what you think of me. So why waste the energy?Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Aquagirl2015
Oh! Didn't know you spoke for ALL the aquariuans in the world. *Eye roll* Bye, Felicia.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Aquagirl2015
Vent your insecurities here or to a friend not to him. If you're a couple then you already have a piece of him. Aquas are scared TO DEATH of getting hurt so we generally avoid relationships. People think we're cold but it's actually not true. We see so many people get hurt so we try to "be smart" by tapping into the emotionally detached aspect of ourselves. I you're a couple-you're golden. By committing to you then that means he already has shown you how he feels.Posted by jellyfish87Posted by Aquagirl2015yes, you are quite right. i do think he's very into it and that its still too early... i analyze everything, like everything. so much that i need to stop myself. i dont say what i think out loud unless i ve thought really well about it :/ cos i want to pick my fghts wisely, and i always want to sleep on it.
I don't think it's him. I think you are insecure because you're judging what you think you need and not what's actually happening. I often have this same problem- I judge the potential and what could be versus what is.
Don't let your insecurities ruin a good thing. Just to confirm- are you in a relationship?
we are exclusive and a couple, we had that talk very recently.
youre one annoying woman, who keeps painting us in the SAME light.
i'm IN a relationship. You are not are you? so if you're too scared to be in one, that's YOU.
keep the rest of us who are IN relationships out of it.
UH it was YOU who said, "aquas this and aqua that"
excuuuuseeee meeee. what are you, a clone?
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Posted by jellyfish87I'll tackle this part, Taurus for his moon and Sagi for his Venus? Im an Aqua, the guy I'm dating is a Scorpio Sun/Gem moon. The things I look at the most are:
- im dating my aquarian man for 2 months now but:
A - i dont think he has told anyone we're dating... are aquarians so secretive when they care? or is he private because he doesnt see long term?
B - sometimes he's cold and unresponsive in text, but when we meet he isnt...he just may end text conversation abruptly or just seem disinterested... even when he initiates. this may happen for 3-4 days per month. why is that? im not clingy, i have a venus in sagittarius and even though i have my sun in scorpio i dont like to smother and be smothered.
C - he's even more attentive and on his toes when im aloof and have my scorpio moody days... do aquarians find aloofness sexy or do they get more attentive because of insecurity?
D - he doesnt ask many questions about me and seems to think his opinion is more important, are aquas self centered or does he just find me boring/ doesnt respect him? he does remember everything i tell him
thanks!
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- we were friends for almost a year before dating because we lived in different countries, but flirted a lot
- since the first day we met ony year ago he's been in touch daily (except a week when i tried to detach from him because I was jealous... i was still nice to him despite my jealousy and he waited for me to come back)
- he's very affectionate and tender, cant get enough hugs and kisses... (me neither)
- he was very shy and slow sexually... but i seduced him without him realizing ;3 he's warmed up now, a bit too much
- he studies my face a lot. he just cups my face and just looks at everything
- he has said he really likes me a lot (i truly like him as well)
- he's protective and won't accept back a sweater he lended me, he wants me to wear something that warms me up and that's his (its practically mine now)
- we have been working on weird projects together as a hobby, he's already planning the next ones
but
- i dont think he has told anyone we're dating... are aquarians so secretive when they care? or is he private because he doesnt see long term?
- sometimes he's cold and unresponsive in text, but when we meet he isnt...he just may end text conversation abruptly or just seem disinterested... even when he initiates. this may happen for 3-4 days per month. why is that? im not clingy, i have a venus in sagittarius and even though i have my sun in scorpio i dont like to smother and be smothered.
- he's even more attentive and on his toes when im aloof and have my scorpio moody days... do aquarians find aloofness sexy or do they get more attentive because of insecurity?
- he doesnt ask many questions about me and seems to think his opinion is more important, are aquas self centered or does he just find me boring/ doesnt respect him? he does remember everything i tell him
thanks!